First Time Club Experience

[funcouple2505]

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[bobbyinhouston]

We are a long time married couple 21yrs and we went to our first club 2 yrs ago to celebrate my 50th bday. I have nothing but things to say about this club,very high class and management very attentive to their customers.

We met an older clouple and a single male that was there alone. My wife had her first and second male outside our marriage and also her first female. We even went to a hotel room with the older couple.

Hope you have lots of fun!

 

[aniowachick]

we are swingers but never attend clubs or house parties, We are quite new and for disease sake want the other couple to be new too and get to know them well before hand.

That being said... Have hbby wear what he would wear out to a decent restaurant, You can wear a little black dress.. or something sexy

 

[infinity706]

Honestly, being new to swinging doesn't really mean all that much as far as disease risk. You could catch something the first time you have sex. You could also be at the other extreme and not catch anything after hundreds of partners. Getting to know them is good, but remember to play safe as well.

 

[Dixiedevil67]

We've been to clubs from Vegas to Miami and all in between. Each one is different and has different rules, but all will have couples of various ages and sizes. Women usually wear sexy outfits as daring as you want, while men need to dress to impress. Usually no t-shirts or tank tops, and no "holey" jeans ... just dress nice with a collared shirt. Ball caps are usually frowned on, but some will allow fedoras or cowboy hats ... depends on the club. You should check to see if there is an event happening the night you attend. Sometimes there is "schoolgirl" night .. or "leather and lace" .. things like that.

Just relax and be yourself. Ask people to dance to break the ice. The worst they can say is "no." Some clubs allow single guys ... others do not. Depending on the club, you may be asked to dance by a line of single guys waiting at the bar. Remember ... no means no. Don't feel obliged to dance or talk to someone you're uncomfortable with.

We've been to swing clubs and "vanilla" clubs ... and usually the swing clubs are a lot more laid back. I've never seen a fist fight or someone get rowdy at a swing club. It's almost expected at some of the country and rock clubs we've been to.

Just have a good time ... don't go in expecting to play. Relax and if someting happens ... it happens ... if not ... have fun dancing and flirting.

 

[jenniferdwalden]

You can meet lots of new friends at club, but I have no idea that how to swap partner.

 

[jenniferdwalden]

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[Ex Princess]

Just wear something that is comfortable but makes you feel sexy. Hope you have a good time and be safe!

 

[funcouple2505]

We've been to clubs from Vegas to Miami and all in between. Each one is different and has different rules, but all will have couples of various ages and sizes. Women usually wear sexy outfits as daring as you want, while men need to dress to impress. Usually no t-shirts or tank tops, and no "holey" jeans ... just dress nice with a collared shirt. Ball caps are usually frowned on, but some will allow fedoras or cowboy hats ... depends on the club. You should check to see if there is an event happening the night you attend. Sometimes there is "schoolgirl" night .. or "leather and lace" .. things like that.

Just relax and be yourself. Ask people to dance to break the ice. The worst they can say is "no." Some clubs allow single guys ... others do not. Depending on the club, you may be asked to dance by a line of single guys waiting at the bar. Remember ... no means no. Don't feel obliged to dance or talk to someone you're uncomfortable with.

We've been to swing clubs and "vanilla" clubs ... and usually the swing clubs are a lot more laid back. I've never seen a fist fight or someone get rowdy at a swing club. It's almost expected at some of the country and rock clubs we've been to.

Just have a good time ... don't go in expecting to play. Relax and if someting happens ... it happens ... if not ... have fun dancing and flirting.

Thank you for the insight and advice!

 

[soflabbwlvr]

We've been to clubs from Vegas to Miami and all in between. Each one is different and has different rules, but all will have couples of various ages and sizes. Women usually wear sexy outfits as daring as you want, while men need to dress to impress. Usually no t-shirts or tank tops, and no "holey" jeans ... just dress nice with a collared shirt. Ball caps are usually frowned on, but some will allow fedoras or cowboy hats ... depends on the club. You should check to see if there is an event happening the night you attend. Sometimes there is "schoolgirl" night .. or "leather and lace" .. things like that.

Just relax and be yourself. Ask people to dance to break the ice. The worst they can say is "no." Some clubs allow single guys ... others do not. Depending on the club, you may be asked to dance by a line of single guys waiting at the bar. Remember ... no means no. Don't feel obliged to dance or talk to someone you're uncomfortable with.

We've been to swing clubs and "vanilla" clubs ... and usually the swing clubs are a lot more laid back. I've never seen a fist fight or someone get rowdy at a swing club. It's almost expected at some of the country and rock clubs we've been to.

Just have a good time ... don't go in expecting to play. Relax and if someting happens ... it happens ... if not ... have fun dancing and flirting.

This advice is spot on.

A few points that I would add:

Most of the club members who are frequent visitors will have their own friends that they go to meet and play with. That doesn't mean that they are unfriendly or not likely to be welcoming. It does mean that you should be proactive and initiate conversations with other couples. If you see a couple that you think might be interesting, go talk to them. Don't wait for them to come to you.

Also, most clubs have "play rooms" that are separate from the dance/bar area. Some clubs will allow you to go back there fully dressed. Others will require you to leave your clothes in a locker and proceed to the back in only a towel. If you are not yet comfortable with public nudity, you might want to check on the policy at the club you plan to visit. Some towel clubs also have robes that you can obtain for an additional fee.

Good luck, and have fun.

 

[funcouple2505]

This advice is spot on.

A few points that I would add:

Most of the club members who are frequent visitors will have their own friends that they go to meet and play with. That doesn't mean that they are unfriendly or not likely to be welcoming. It does mean that you should be proactive and initiate conversations with other couples. If you see a couple that you think might be interesting, go talk to them. Don't wait for them to come to you.

Also, most clubs have "play rooms" that are separate from the dance/bar area. Some clubs will allow you to go back there fully dressed. Others will require you to leave your clothes in a locker and proceed to the back in only a towel. If you are not yet comfortable with public nudity, you might want to check on the policy at the club you plan to visit. Some towel clubs also have robes that you can obtain for an additional fee.

Good luck, and have fun.

Thanks to you, too soflabbwlvr!

 

[funcouple2505]

Hey all! I thought I would check back in and post another thank you to everyone who offered tips and advice. We went this past Saturday and had an amazing time! We even met a really fun, laid back couple and ended up playing with them before the night was over! We will definitely be going back, and in fact have already made reservations to return! Thanks again!

 

[Dixiedevil67]

Yay! Hope to bump into you sometime

Hey all! I thought I would check back in and post another thank you to everyone who offered tips and advice. We went this past Saturday and had an amazing time! We even met a really fun, laid back couple and ended up playing with them before the night was over! We will definitely be going back, and in fact have already made reservations to return! Thanks again!

 

[funcouple2505]

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[BestBi]

Hey all! I thought I would check back in and post another thank you to everyone who offered tips and advice. We went this past Saturday and had an amazing time! We even met a really fun, laid back couple and ended up playing with them before the night was over! We will definitely be going back, and in fact have already made reservations to return! Thanks again!

Sounds like great fun!!! As George Costanza would say, "I want details!"

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Hey all! I thought I would check back in and post another thank you to everyone who offered tips and advice. We went this past Saturday and had an amazing time! We even met a really fun, laid back couple and ended up playing with them before the night was over! We will definitely be going back, and in fact have already made reservations to return! Thanks again!

Congratulations, and welcome to The Lifestyle!

 

[funcouple2505]

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[Ex Princess]

Details.... Well, for the quick details - I got to watch my husband get his cock sucked by a really hot woman while her husband licked my pussy. Then, I got to suck his cock while I watched my husband finger her. And to top it all off, while my husband came on my tits after she sucked him some more, she licked my pussy. So, all in all, not a bad night!

Sounds amazing! Glad you both enjoyed it!

 

[Dixiedevil67]

We try to go to "vanilla" clubs now and find ourselves bored out of our minds. It seems that if we can't get naked, strip on the pole, or play, we aren't happy. We're spoiled now. It's almost like going to high school and then having to go back to elementary school. We now go to resorts close by where we can sit naked by the pool all day, and party like hell at night. Always have fun and have made some good friends.

Details.... Well, for the quick details - I got to watch my husband get his cock sucked by a really hot woman while her husband licked my pussy. Then, I got to suck his cock while I watched my husband finger her. And to top it all off, while my husband came on my tits after she sucked him some more, she licked my pussy. So, all in all, not a bad night!

 

[DuckLover]

We try to go to "vanilla" clubs now and find ourselves bored out of our minds. It seems that if we can't get naked, strip on the pole, or play, we aren't happy. We're spoiled now. It's almost like going to high school and then having to go back to elementary school. We now go to resorts close by where we can sit naked by the pool all day, and party like hell at night. Always have fun and have made some good friends.

At the risk of creating a tangeant, what resorts do you find most enjoyable and accepting of lifestyling like that? The only one I've been to is Hedonism II in Jamaica. (Highly recommend!)

 

[Dixiedevil67]

Love Hedo ... would live there if we could. There is the Grove, or Mountain Creek Grove, in Georgia, and Timberline in Tennessee. Both are lifestyle and have cabin rentals, camping, with a pool hot tub, dance club and playhouse. Caliente in Fla is a lot more accepting these days I have heard, but haven't been there.

At the risk of creating a tangeant, what resorts do you find most enjoyable and accepting of lifestyling like that? The only one I've been to is Hedonism II in Jamaica. (Highly recommend!)

 

[dannyboy1958]

Details.... Well, for the quick details - I got to watch my husband get his cock sucked by a really hot woman while her husband licked my pussy. Then, I got to suck his cock while I watched my husband finger her. And to top it all off, while my husband came on my tits after she sucked him some more, she licked my pussy. So, all in all, not a bad night!

Hi - That sounds like a great first night - Myself and my wife have been talking about first times, a club being one option, pm me if you fancy talking more about why, and woudl you again and any genuine first time tips for nervous corples like us

 

[erotiquegirl]

Hi everyone! So, my husband and I are going to an "adult club" for the first time tomorrow night. I hesitate to call it a swingers' club because from the way we understand it, it's a very no to low pressure place that is welcoming, laid back, and not necessary to truly swing. We're going more to explore our exhibitionist and voyeuristic sides, as well as my bi-curious side. But, we're both nervous! We're not sure what to wear (there is a dress code, but it says "dress jeans" are permittable for guys and girls have no dress code). We don't want to be too dressed up or even under dressed! We also are not sure what to say to other couples or what to expect. Does anyone have any advice, tips, or experiences they'd be willing to share? Thanks!

Girls can wear almost anything. Most I've been to I've worn a silk number, no undies or bra, stockings and brought clothes to wear after. My advice is to make sure ppl are safe. If that, drink and get tipsy not drunk. I like to just have my boobs out but after the first hour just have on a sexy robe and stockings. Maybe just be naked the 1st time and observe and play with spouse. I don't recommend drunk because some people lose all inhibitions and end up doing something they regret later.

It's a fuck party not love. Enjoy yourself. The others there know it's a fuck party.