First time ass play advice

[bigburny00]

Hey you experienced and sexy Lit members,

I've been in an "exploring my sexuality" mode for the past few months or so. I shaved my balls and cock completely bare last night. Now I'm thinking I want to try playing with my ass, but I need some pointers. I'm thinking I just need to go to an adult toy store and get a dildo and some lube and try it out. I kind of want to get a big one and see if I can handle it. Also, are there things I can do to make sure I'm "clean" in the back so I don't have to worry about that stuff.

Open to all kinds of suggestions and advice for a bit of a noob. Thanks and love to everyone.

 

[CrshNBurn]

Hey

I would suggest starting out with something small to get yourself used to having something in your ass. Trust me, it feels good to have something inside your asshole. I started out with a small vibe and have expanded to using a butt plug, which I wear in public sometimes, anal beads, which are alot of fun, and a dildo. The dildo feels great once I get it inside. Its about the size of an average cock. Ive also practiced giving head on it. I havent been with another man, so all I can tell you is about toys. Good luck with exploring your bi curious side.

 

[bigburny00]

Thanks Crash,

I'll give it a shot. Giving a dildo head is interesting. More than anything I think i want to suck a cock, but I'm really afraid of disease and don't really know how to ensure that a guy is clean. I'm not willing to just take their word for it, so I'm thinking I may not be able to do this. I suppose I could do it with someone I knew, but I'm not willing to do that yet.

 

[blklthrjkt]

You know flavored condoms are great for giving head if you want to be absolutely sure you are safe.

 

[bigburny00]

Yeah, thanks for the advice. If I have to do it with a condom, I'm not sure I really want to do it. For some reason I really want to take his cock in my mouth with nothing in between he and I and more than anything I want to eat his cum. Not sure if I'm going to make this fantasy happen.

Any advice on making sure my ass is clean before playing back there??

 

[wobnair]

Go for it you will be glad you did . But start small and build up use plenty of lube.

 

[george51]

Before you go purchasing a large one, have a look at this thread. Even if the advice is no use his post is still very good... It is in the GLBT Chatter section.

"I've decided abstinence is a really bad idea."

 

[Phydeax69]

I just bought a slim dildo for ass play. I have another toy that takes a while to warm up and slide in, but this one opens me up rather quickly..then I can work up to the older toy without hurting myself.

I usually just try to take a good dump before I start playing. Other than that just put a towel down in case you have an accident. it's easier to clean a towel than the rug, the sheets, the couch etc.

Happy ass play!