First Threesome

[twodcstudents]

Hiya,

I'm about to host my first threesome, another couple and me. I'd like some tips from anyone in the know. What should i do, what should i have, what should i prepare for, etc.

Thanks in advance.

 

[Chicklet]

shower first. wear clean clothes and underwear your mother wouldn't be ashamed of. shave anything you normally shave right beforehand, so that you won't be stubbly and rough. if you like lotion, use lots.

be honest, open, and fun.

don't do anything you're not 100% comfortable with.

if you want to have toys used on you, bring your own. bring condoms that you like best. bring lube you already know you enjoy using.

if you don't know this couple well, let someone know where you're going to be and how long you should be out. call the friend when you're done to let them know you're safe.

 

[elib257]

All of that and don't have to high expectations - it's probably not going to be like a porno movie (although if you're lucky...)

Also, be prepared for emotions to get hurt particularly if you decide to carry on.

Good luck.

 

[silverwhisper]

be prepared for the possibility that the couple might erupt into relationship drama in the middle of things. i've always been part of the couple, myself, but speaking from the experience, the potential for that is always at least a theoretical possibility.

ed

 

[Duvet_Thief]

be prepared for the possibility that the couple might erupt into relationship drama in the middle of things. i've always been part of the couple, myself, but speaking from the experience, the potential for that is always at least a theoretical possibility.

ed

Now THAT sounds like a serious mood killer

 

[silverwhisper]

duvet thief: he did say it's his first, and that's a risk of it's the couple's first, too.

o, on a more practical side, condoms, lube and probably tissues. :>

ed

 

[ReadyOne]

You made need to work out an ice breaker -- everyone may be waiting for someone to make the first move. When it seems the right time, as in everyone has become comfortable with each other making small talk, or everyone seems to be waiting, signal your partner it's time to do something...

• Prepare the female with you to make some comment about the other male and the go start kissing him, running her hands under his shirt them removing it, then opening up his pants to get her hands on his cock.

• You can request to see the other females tits and then for her to let you kiss them. Make sure you get her top off before you start, and after a while move south and finish undressing her so you can eat her out.

• You (or her) can start telling a (perhaps funny) story about something sexual you (and your SO) did, like first time you tried sex in a hot tub, or when you got caught by someone when you were dating. Add sexual specifics like telling how your parter was going up and down your cock or licking your pussy, praising them in the details. Have your partner offer to demonstrate, take off your clothes, and when you're settled in, invite another to join.

• Get a set of party dice from the adult store. One cube may have body parts, another actions, another places or positions. Bring the dice out, have one of them roll, then you and your partner follow the instructions on the die faces. Offer to roll for the other couple, telling them they each may pick one die and re-roll it if that person isn't happy with what came up.

 

[daisey69]

minimal alcohol. Go slow, and take their cues.

Don't take it personally if it gets busted. They are (Threesomes) are worth the time you put into them.

 

[hippieinwv]

We had a very succesful first threeway this past weekend. Most of the advice in this thread has been spot-on. It took me and the wife months to get to a place where we were truly comfortable. It's very important, since it sounds like you're the odd one out here, that the couple you're getting involved with is in it for the right reasons and are truly to the core comfortable with what is going to go down. I can speak with personal experience that the party dice with the different body parts and actions on them can be a great way to get things rolling. For some reason our dice were obsessed with making us play with each others toes, but that's just when you re-roll.

I would also tag on, depending on the time of day it's going to go down, some sort of activity to follow. if ythis is a nighttime thing, then maybe not so much. The wife and I chose to bring our gal in during the afternoon. After the sex was done, we all went out to dinner together then back to the apartment for a movie. Just kept things cool and comfortable and prevented any weirdness.

 

[draconus_infernus]

How well do you know this other couple? Are they friends or random acquaintances? I only ask because it may affect the comfort level.

My wife and I had a threesome with a very good friend of ours who had been hitting on both of us for quite a while. She came to our place in the early evening, we had dinner, then she got frisky and we retired to the bedroom. It was an amazing experience for all three of us.

You've been given some very good advice here. All I can add is to set ground rules; what is okay to touch, who can cum in whom, and what not.

 

[mynameiskate]

Well, I think Chicklet covered the important stuff. Well done.

 

[ditas_muse]

xxxxx

 

[dirtycarol]

My first,(and only so far) just sort-of happened......Girl goes to bar, guy picks-up girl, girl seen in guys truck by guy's friend, guy's friend wants to join in, we all go to guy's appt...........Girl has two cocks to suck and fuck!

 

[noobwriter]

My first,(and only so far) just sort-of happened......Girl goes to bar, guy picks-up girl, girl seen in guys truck by guy's friend, guy's friend wants to join in, we all go to guy's appt...........Girl has two cocks to suck and fuck!

Sounds like a good time!

 

[dirtycarol]

Sounds like a good time!

Oh, it would have been a VERY good time if they would have been a bit more mature, as they were, it was like screwing Beavis and Butthead!.........(I still had fun though).