First Session

[bridger jack]

I've been here a few times, mainly looking for information. I love the stories section, and so does my wife. We have been easing into more intense play. She loves reading the BDSM stories, the idea. Tonight we are going to find out how she likes the reality of it. I've left her instructions to get ready while I'm at work. They are a little difficult, and she will probably need a spanking for not being properly prepared. After that, her new velvet blindfold goes on and the big fun begins. I'm pretty excited.

 

[Kierae]

Sounds like you will have a lovely time - enjoy yourself and make sure you two talk about the experience afterwards to see what you liked/disliked/want more.

 

[pandoravampire]

Im sure you two will have a ball.
Your first night is something very special, i hope it brings you both closer to your needs and that they reflect in each other.

The advice to talk after a session, to learn and confirm your beliefs, to dispell myths, what worked and why, all very relevant learning.

Communication of a intensely honest variety is a absolute in this lifestyle for a relationship to work. That takes longer to learn, than how to flog someone i think. And a far more superior skill.

enjoy and celebrate what you find.
pandoravampire

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I feel your excitement.

Enjoy!

I've been here a few times, mainly looking for information. I love the stories section, and so does my wife. We have been easing into more intense play. She loves reading the BDSM stories, the idea. Tonight we are going to find out how she likes the reality of it. I've left her instructions to get ready while I'm at work. They are a little difficult, and she will probably need a spanking for not being properly prepared. After that, her new velvet blindfold goes on and the big fun begins. I'm pretty excited.

 

[bridger jack]

I'm on my way out the door right now. Thanks for the advice. I set up an online journal for us to use as a communication tool. We have well above average communication to begin with. This way (online journal) helps us keep a partition between this world and the other one. It is a false partition, I know, but we agreed that it would add a little spice to keep the secret. I love secrets!

 

[bridger jack]

Well, things went pretty well. She did say her spanking was a little 'soft'. So that may have to change. The rest of it was a lot of fun!

 

[FurryFury]

Well, things went pretty well. She did say her spanking was a little 'soft'. So that may have to change. The rest of it was a lot of fun!

I'm glad things went well. It's a journey so you will travel and learn together. Stinging slaps are best for me and mine in the spanking department.

Now is that all you're going to tell us?

Fury

 

[bridger jack]

It was milder than planned

Things took longer than I anticipated, so my plans got cut short. I left her instructions to be ready, stockings and heels, when I got home from work. She was a little amused, so I used that to get her bent over the table for a spanking. Then I put on her new velvet blindfold and collar, and led her to the bedroom. I spent a couple of hours building her up with teasing, mixed with some hot wax and ice. She's always been a little cautious of her behind, but after a while of this she let me do whatever I wanted. She went wild everytime I tugged on the chains to the nipple clamps, and as I brought her over the edge I yanked one of them off and gently sucked. If she weren't tied down I think I would have been hurt!

It turns out she could have handled much more, but I wasn't sure how long I could keep her tied before she stopped enjoying it, so I was conservative. We have a 'fantasy' date once a month (at least), so I've got some new ideas for next time. I want to try different things each time with short sessions until I can figure out her limits.

What a turn on to see this hot woman, shaved and barely dressed, writhing around as I have my way with her. Men are visual creatures, and those visions will be with me for a while!

 

[chris9]

Going slower and finding out what limits BOTH of you have is a good plan. Much better than putting too much into one session and ruining what can become (and for you has become) a fun path to travel.

 

[FurryFury]

Going slower and finding out what limits BOTH of you have is a good plan. Much better than putting too much into one session and ruining what can become (and for you has become) a fun path to travel.

That's so true!

It does sound like you both had a wonderful time! Good for you guys!

Fury