First-name basis?

[ohiobbw]

A few people know my name around here, I've posted my picture so why not my name?


Lisa, by the way

 

[Cheyenne]

A first name on the board is very different than a first name in real life. This IS a porn board. For the same reason some of us don't post pictures of our faces, we don't post our first names. We don't want people who know us in our professional lives to find us here.

My nickname gives no clue as to my real name and is, in fact, a bit misleading. People tend to guess I'm American Indian with long black hair. That's fine with me. People who know me in RL won't do a double take thinking they know me that way. But they might, if my real name were to be posted with my comments here.

 

[Chrysty]

My name

No secret here my RL name is Christy

 

[JazzManJim]

And my name is Theresa.
*Wrinkles nose*
With a h,just so people will miss-spell it.

I've had similar problems my whole life. I feel as if I should officially introduce myself as:

"Hi. My name is Jimmie. No, it's not really James. I promise it's Jimmie. No, not with a 'y', with an 'ie'. Honest."

 

[WhiteRose]

How's this any different from meeting somone on the street, in an office or anywhere in the world and extending your hand and saying "Hi, I'm ****." ?

I don't usually give out my name on the street either

It's not Rose

 

[hatara]

Anyone that had me on msn knows my first name. I don't think it's a big deal but I wouldn't post it. Only because so many people know me by my cyber name that I don't feel like I have to.

Oh incidently for those looking for the weather it is in the high 70's here and I have the air on. The weather has been wonderful but I am glad that it dropped from being in the mid to upper 80's.

 

[Rambrat]

my name is "misspelled" too. Have walked around my entire life spelling my name for people. After 5 years..my father in law still gets it wrong!!

how do you spell that again?

 

[BustyTheClown]

A first name on the board is very different than a first name in real life. This IS a porn board. For the same reason some of us don't post pictures of our faces, we don't post our first names. We don't want people who know us in our professional lives to find us here.

My nickname gives no clue as to my real name and is, in fact, a bit misleading. People tend to guess I'm American Indian with long black hair. That's fine with me. People who know me in RL won't do a double take thinking they know me that way. But they might, if my real name were to be posted with my comments here.

I can't remember who was confused about what I said when I first started this thread about "anonymity being a necessity" for some, but you've perfectly explained what I meant, Cheyenne. That's exactly the reason I wanted to put that on here, so that people who felt like you do didn't feel hard-pressed to give it (not that you would, anyway, but I don't want to alienate people) or offended or whatever. Thank you for putting that so succinctly.

 

[Vivacia]

Those who have become friends thru here know my first name, some even know my full name, but I wouldn't splash it about the BB's if for no other reason than my family may stumble across it on here and they don't know (YET) that I write erotica

 

[bluemuse]

Only in the PMs

Only five people here know my first name....



bluemuse

 

[Rambrat]

Re: Only in the PMs

Only five people here know my first name....



bluemuse

Bambi?!!!

 

[Calamity Jane]

I've posted my name. It's not like it's original enough to let anyone know who I really am. It's in my title too. And no, it's not Plain.

 

[SouthernMale]

If I give my email address then I give my first name. Only one person here has it and she knows who she is!

 

[DartmouthCouple]

I have given out my first name to people I've talked to on here. I would not give it out to many people though since my husband wouldn't agree with it.

 

[sabbathstorm]

I can count on one hand the people on here that actually know my name. I guess I'm a really private person until I feel I can trust someone.

 

[Cheyenne]

I can't remember who was confused about what I said when I first started this thread about "anonymity being a necessity" for some, but you've perfectly explained what I meant, Cheyenne. That's exactly the reason I wanted to put that on here, so that people who felt like you do didn't feel hard-pressed to give it (not that you would, anyway, but I don't want to alienate people) or offended or whatever. Thank you for putting that so succinctly.

You're welcome.
I think most people here are fairly understanding when it comes to others giving them personal info. Most people don't even ask.

 

[aussie-Couple]

Why ask our names - Don't you only want us for our bodies???
Who do you want me to be honey? hehehe.