first kiss

[Lynnezertorte]

You must be tired.....


Been running through my mind all day!





Ok, I'll stop now.




Am I dead, Angel? Cause this must be heaven!





I mean it, I'll stop......




Did it hurt? When you fell out of heaven?



Ok, too much even for me...

So incognito is Fred, my date from hell #56. Your true identity has now been revealed.

lol

 

[Cathleen]

It seems like forever since I have had the opportunity...

However, I believe I would approach the situation like this: While standing or sitting close to the woman in question, I would smile, say quietly, "Come here." and then reach for her cheek. With my fingertips just under her jawbone, I'd gently draw her to me, tip her head slightly, offer a soft and lingering kiss and not even consider stopping until I heard her sigh.

so where exactly do you live?

heavy sigh....very well done!


Sheath..... I thought yours was a WOW.... I like that lots!

I wrote this for a special friend of mine as a thank you....

Suppose I took your hand and brought you closer to me...... while my other hand reaches up to lightly touch your face, bringing you towards my waiting mouth....... a soft kiss I place upon your lips, tender, almost as though I wasn't touching you, but you know I am..... and I know I am too..... and the kiss deepens ....becomes more passionate and hungry......I use my tongue to open your mouth so I can taste more of you...... needing to explore your mouth..... wanting you to explore mine........

 

[snarkysnark]

thanks

thanks for the advice.

so much of what you said was true.

we went out on our 3rd date and got back to my place. i took her up to my deck, and stood there looking at the city lights. then, i guess instinct, a feeling, or something took over, and the deed was done.

it felt good. i cannot wait to see her again.

thanks so much for your help and helping me get back out on the field.

 

[SRV524]

It depends.....some girls like it when you seize the moment and go in for the kiss, others like it when you ask bc they think it's sweet and caring.....it all depends on the girl.

 

[eudaemonia]

Just bumping this up to reverse the gender roles ...

I think it's going to have to be me to make the overture in my situation. He seems awfully nervous around me, just jabbers and fidgets endlessly. But I have seen him calm and relaxed, too, around me. Still, half the time he acts like he's got ants in his pants, I swear ...

Most men wouldn't mind this, would they, having the woman just take him in her arms and plant a soft, lingering one on them? I figure if he has the nerve to finally ask me out, now that I've made it clear I'd like to see him outside of a student-teacher context -- we're only two years apart in age -- then it's only chivalrous of me to take some of the pressure off him.

thoughts?

 

[TBKahuna123]

Well, it could be that he's trying to get up the nerve to make a move, or it could be that he's intimidated by the Teacher-Student thing. Who's the teacher and who's the student? The age difference may not be as big a factor, but the roles may be.

Personally, I'd say go for it, either make the actual move, or move in close and ask him to kiss you. I don't know about "most guys", but I'd love it!

 

[eudaemonia]

He's the teacher (45), I'm the student (43). The dynamics are particularly interesting because of the fact of no age difference.

He's a Ph.D and I'm just finishing my post-bac work before heading into grad school, so on that count he's the intellectual leader. But in terms of relationships and I'm guessing sexual experience, since he's been married (now 4 years divorced) for most of his adult life and I've never been, I've probably had 4-5x the number of partners he's had. So I'm pretty comfortable in the lead position whereas I don't think he is. Additionally, I've already had a nice long career in journalism before returning to school, so in terms of life experience were about on par.

As soon as he turns in my grade for summer term, I feel he's fair game, so to speak. I'm very happy and willing to take on the risk if it would put his mind at ease.

 

[TBKahuna123]

You know, I'd just take the plunge if I were you. I'd wait until the grades are turned in, just for propriety sake, as this might be what's bothering him, if that isn't too far off. Then I'd say go for it! Sounds to me like he's just nervous about taking that next step, maybe because of the the interesting dynamics, maybe because he's afraid of getting burned again, being divorced.

You aren't a pair of crazy kids, so I would think he's emotionally mature enough to take a female advance in the spirit is is given, rather than freak out. Like I said, I'd think it was hot if I were him, but then again I like confident, aggressive women.

 

[eudaemonia]

<grin> Thanks TBK ... I know for sure that propriety is at the forefront of his mind. I just worry that it goes much further than that, that even though I'm not his student anymore the fact that I'm still taking courses in his/my/our department that he may be reticent about making a move just on that count.

Anyway, you've settled it for me: if he asks me out and things go as well as I think they will, it will be me to go in for the kiss -- no asking, no preface, no words. I'm just going to take him and kiss him.

Now then ... when to, where to??? Plotting, plotting ...

Actually, what I really want is to make him take me to his office in the middle of the night so that we could and , and maybe even ! That fantasy has been going through my head for months now.

OT: great sig btw, the one about the jail break.