First group experience

[Natasha007]

I am going to have my first group experience. Any suggestions?

 

[curiousgeo62]

Invite me???

 

[lisas_touch]

wish i could have better advice

having never had a group experience all i can do is attribute advice to any other sexual act or adventure.: be sure you are ready for it before you begin, relax and have fun and most of all be safe.

I hope you have a great time and I would love to hear how it goes. I have never been part of a group but it definitely sounds like a lot of fun. I can think of quite a few things I would like to try with a group.

Good luck!

Lisa

 

[satindesire]

Go get your STD panel done before you go in. Check for everything, including Hep and HIV/AIDS. Get another one done after the group sex, to make sure you haven't caught anything.

Use safer sex methods, condoms, dental dams, latex gloves. Even for oral sex, yes, because STDs don't just come from fluid exchange, many of them come from skin-to-skin contact as well.

Make sure you show up sober and stay sober through the entire experience. DO NOT take an open drink from someone, or drink anything that you have left alone. If you have to go to the bathroom, outside for a smoke, etc, take the drink with you and DO NOT let it leave your sight.

Take a small travel-kit of hygiene products and first aid to freshen up midway through, it can get hot and sweaty. Makeup for touchups, deodorant, breath mints, blotter papers for oily noses, a light and pleasantly scented body spray, etc. Don't forget to take some Aspirin, band aids, Neosporin, anti-histamine cream, and any other medications you might need for emergencies like your inhaler if you're asthmatic.

Make sure you wear extremely comfortable clothes that are easily removed without too much awkward fuss, ala shirts that button down in the front, soft loose pants that can be slid down, etc.

Don't wear heels. If you do, take a pair of slippers to wear with you so your feet don't get sore.

Wear pretty lingerie that you won't be embarrassed to be seen in. This is not the time to wear your gigantic "period panties" with holes in them that you've had since '98. But don't wear black, everyone does that and you'll want to stand out. If you can afford it, go out and get a new set in some really bright color like red or purple.

Pack a snack with you in case of low blood sugar, stuff that doesn't have to be refrigerated like a granola bar and an apple, etc.

Offer the host a small thank you gift, like flowers, or wine.

 

[albertaboy]

Go get your STD panel done before you go in. Check for everything, including Hep and HIV/AIDS. Get another one done after the group sex, to make sure you haven't caught anything.

Use safer sex methods, condoms, dental dams, latex gloves. Even for oral sex, yes, because STDs don't just come from fluid exchange, many of them come from skin-to-skin contact as well.

Make sure you show up sober and stay sober through the entire experience. DO NOT take an open drink from someone, or drink anything that you have left alone. If you have to go to the bathroom, outside for a smoke, etc, take the drink with you and DO NOT let it leave your sight.

Take a small travel-kit of hygiene products and first aid to freshen up midway through, it can get hot and sweaty. Makeup for touchups, deodorant, breath mints, blotter papers for oily noses, a light and pleasantly scented body spray, etc. Don't forget to take some Aspirin, band aids, Neosporin, anti-histamine cream, and any other medications you might need for emergencies like your inhaler if you're asthmatic.

Make sure you wear extremely comfortable clothes that are easily removed without too much awkward fuss, ala shirts that button down in the front, soft loose pants that can be slid down, etc.

Don't wear heels. If you do, take a pair of slippers to wear with you so your feet don't get sore.

Wear pretty lingerie that you won't be embarrassed to be seen in. This is not the time to wear your gigantic "period panties" with holes in them that you've had since '98. But don't wear black, everyone does that and you'll want to stand out. If you can afford it, go out and get a new set in some really bright color like red or purple.

Pack a snack with you in case of low blood sugar, stuff that doesn't have to be refrigerated like a granola bar and an apple, etc.

Offer the host a small thank you gift, like flowers, or wine.

Wow Satin, that's the best list I've seen since I posted the what to take on my Safari to Africa on the Accuratereloading.com forum.

 

[satindesire]

Wow Satin, that's the best list I've seen since I posted the what to take on my Safari to Africa on the Accuratereloading.com forum.

I'm always the person my family and friends turns to when they're packing to go somewhere.

What can I say? The girl scouts stuff I did when I was little really stuck with me. I like to be prepared for anything.

 

[CyrusM]

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[PhilGarlic]

didn't

gigantic "period panties" with holes in them that you've had since '98.

didn't know there was any other type

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I am going to have my first group experience. Any suggestions?

To some extent, it depends on the composition of the group. How many? Male/female ratio? Friends or strangers?

The term "group" covers anything from a simple threesome to a full-on orgy.

 

[infinity706]

Go get your STD panel done before you go in. Check for everything, including Hep and HIV/AIDS. Get another one done after the group sex, to make sure you haven't caught anything.

Use safer sex methods, condoms, dental dams, latex gloves. Even for oral sex, yes, because STDs don't just come from fluid exchange, many of them come from skin-to-skin contact as well.

Make sure you show up sober and stay sober through the entire experience. DO NOT take an open drink from someone, or drink anything that you have left alone. If you have to go to the bathroom, outside for a smoke, etc, take the drink with you and DO NOT let it leave your sight.

Take a small travel-kit of hygiene products and first aid to freshen up midway through, it can get hot and sweaty. Makeup for touchups, deodorant, breath mints, blotter papers for oily noses, a light and pleasantly scented body spray, etc. Don't forget to take some Aspirin, band aids, Neosporin, anti-histamine cream, and any other medications you might need for emergencies like your inhaler if you're asthmatic.

Make sure you wear extremely comfortable clothes that are easily removed without too much awkward fuss, ala shirts that button down in the front, soft loose pants that can be slid down, etc.

Don't wear heels. If you do, take a pair of slippers to wear with you so your feet don't get sore.

Wear pretty lingerie that you won't be embarrassed to be seen in. This is not the time to wear your gigantic "period panties" with holes in them that you've had since '98. But don't wear black, everyone does that and you'll want to stand out. If you can afford it, go out and get a new set in some really bright color like red or purple.

Pack a snack with you in case of low blood sugar, stuff that doesn't have to be refrigerated like a granola bar and an apple, etc.

Offer the host a small thank you gift, like flowers, or wine.

Well, that's certainly a comprehensive list. I just have to say that's more preparation for one night of sex than I put into planning a 9 day cruise, though.

 

[tomwantstosee]

So did you have your experience, and if so, how was it?

 

[twister947]

Don't forget to send "Thank You" notes.