First Dates !

[Dumpling]

MMMMMMMMM Good morning Ling Sweety... You're always welcome to say whatever you like in my thread Darlin'. Welcome
Hugsssssss esssss & essssssssss right back at ya !!

Leaving you some XTRA es before I go to Work

 

[Badd Leroy]

Leaving you some XTRA es before I go to Work

WOW Babyyyyyyyyyy !!! ... No nudity and still so fucking hot!.. Have I ever told you that you have great taste in porn ?
Don't work too hard Beautiful

 

[liv2lik]

with regard to your question I'll add my 2 cents.
I've dated a lot of women who may have been outside of my attraction template mostly to see if my standards had any basis. I met some interesting people and had a lot of fun. One thing I have learned is to trust your intuition and follow it righteously. If you really click with someone regardless of physical attraction thats important. What I ultimately search for is compatability. An incompatabilty usually shows itself within the first 6-8 weeks (my observation). Whats important is that you recognize it and act on it. Even if your maddly attracted to someone an incompatable issue will never change. Its hard to terminate a relationship under these terms , but the longer you continue, the harder it gets.
I speak from experience having been in a few long term relationships where I tried desperately to reconcile these differences.

 

[Badd Leroy]

with regard to your question I'll add my 2 cents.
I've dated a lot of women who may have been outside of my attraction template mostly to see if my standards had any basis. I met some interesting people and had a lot of fun. One thing I have learned is to trust your intuition and follow it righteously. If you really click with someone regardless of physical attraction thats important. What I ultimately search for is compatability. An incompatabilty usually shows itself within the first 6-8 weeks (my observation). Whats important is that you recognize it and act on it. Even if your maddly attracted to someone an incompatable issue will never change. Its hard to terminate a relationship under these terms , but the longer you continue, the harder it gets.
I speak from experience having been in a few long term relationships where I tried desperately to reconcile these differences.

Thanks L2L.. I agree with all, and I too have been in a few LTR's and have experienced the same. I'm not sure at this point if there is ANY compatability at all but we've only spent 2 or 3 hrs together with another couple there and it was quite tame. I'm going to persue things a little futher and listen close for the 'click'. Didn't happen right away but who knows.
She's a lovely, honest person from what I can see and she's well firmly planted. I guess that's enough to warrent further investigation at least

 

[CTGalPal]

I had the feeling you would, and I'm glad you did
You're very right about the kissing thing.. And we're tentatively going to see each other again... I'll keep ya posted!
P.S.
What's the ex's point Darlin' ?

I think my ex's point is that he has a date this weekend...but he conveniently deleted his stupid message. I am happy for him. I want him to date and be happy.

Tell me how the date goes with Thin Lips

 

[CTGUY1234]

I think my ex's point is that he has a date this weekend...but he conveniently deleted his stupid message. I am happy for him. I want him to date and be happy.

Tell me how the date goes with Thin Lips

>yawn<

I want to apologize to the thread for the childish post above.

Some people want to bring personal business onto Lit.

I'd hope the immature post will be edited (as they usually are in her hit and run fashion) and life can move on without the drama.

Again, I apologize for this person wanting to spill into onto the board


Have a great weekend all!

Carry on

 

[yesYesYEsYES]

What an amusing first date....I'm assuming it's also a last date?

Thanks for the great story 'Yes' lol.. That's pretty fuckin' creapy I must say. Especially considering there was never any sexual expression before then ...
Yes, that's very probably the last date.. but ya never know. If she contacts me in a sobor frame of mind and is a little more honest... ?? I dunno.

Sorry....didn't see your post...YES, last date for sure, I couldn't move fast enough out that door. It was VERY creepy to say the least, I could of understood if we had had some discussions of sex but really none ever came up in conversation so this was totally out of the blue. The one thing that pisses me off to this day is that I am so polite when I was leaving I actually said "Nice to have met you"!!!!! To this day I'd still like to slap myself silly for that one...lol

 

[yesYesYEsYES]

We kept in touch after I left.

I was about to have my 10 yr. Highschool Reunion and asked her to come down and attend it with me.

My friend worked with T. W. A and he got me a ticket to fly her down and I told her that I would put her up in a hotel for the weekend.

Well . . . she got bumped from her flight and was not going to get on the next one. I did what anyone would do. I got on the phone with Sothwest a 3:00 am and bought a ticket for a flight that was leaving at 6:00 am. It cost me a small fortune . . . plus the hotel.

It was the best time of my life . Then 9 months later she moved to St. Louis to be with me . . . and we've been together ever since.

That is so sweet

 

[CTGalPal]

>yawn<

I want to apologize to the thread for the childish post above.

Some people want to bring personal business onto Lit.

I'd hope the immature post will be edited (as they usually are in her hit and run fashion) and life can move on without the drama.

Again, I apologize for this person wanting to spill into onto the board


Have a great weekend all!

Carry on

Someone sounds defensive.....................

You're the one who keeps coming out of the woodworks claiming to be the "ex-boyfriend".

The only person who is taking it personally...is you.

 

[CTGUY1234]

Someone sounds defensive.....................

You're the one who keeps coming out of the woodworks claiming to be the "ex-boyfriend".

The only person who is taking it personally...is you.

Not defensive at all.

Just let it go...we are done. I dont need you following me around this board, making comments.

Why bring it here....let it go and move on....

trust me....I am

 

[CTGalPal]

Not defensive at all.

Just let it go...we are done. I dont need you following me around this board, making comments.

Why bring it here....let it go and move on....

trust me....I am

Following you around the board??? Puh-lease...

Here we go with the stalker implications. Have not seen or talked to you in 5 years and barely talked to you maybe 6 times in the last 2 months.

I was answering a question that my friend (who started this thread) asked me.

Nobody would have known it was you until you stepped up and claimed the prize.

If you were sooooooooo over it and moving on like you said you are, then
this would not be an issue. You would not have commented on my post.

I am tired of being bullied by you. I will stand up for myself from now on.

Because you write stupid things and end up deleting them with your "...."
doesn't make it go away.

There's a reason we are ex's and everyone can clearly see why.

Any more comments? Need more attention from me?

 

[CTGUY1234]

Following you around the board??? Puh-lease...

Here we go with the stalker implications. Have not seen or talked to you in 5 years and barely talked to you maybe 6 times in the last 2 months.

I was answering a question that my friend (who started this thread) asked me.

Nobody would have known it was you until you stepped up and claimed the prize.

If you were sooooooooo over it and moving on like you said you are, then
this would not be an issue. You would not have commented on my post.

I am tired of being bullied by you. I will stand up for myself from now on.

Because you write stupid things and end up deleting them with your "...."
doesn't make it go away.

There's a reason we are ex's and everyone can clearly see why.

Any more comments? Need more attention from me?

No, just you being you....and Im not going to go over the facts as they dont belong here.

I need nothing from you other than to stop being childish and bringing this to the board.

And yes, theres a big reason we are ex's....its never been more clear.

Bullied? Dont go looking for sympathy....I have never bullied you...thats just flat out untrue.

Let it go....spin it anyway you want....neither one of us were angels....

Just move on and Ill do the same

I think thats fair enough

 

[CTGalPal]

No, just you being you....and Im not going to go over the facts as they dont belong here.

I need nothing from you other than to stop being childish and bringing this to the board.

And yes, theres a big reason we are ex's....its never been more clear.

Bullied? Dont go looking for sympathy....I have never bullied you...thats just flat out untrue.

Let it go....spin it anyway you want....neither one of us were angels....

Just move on and Ill do the same

I think thats fair enough

Don't you fret...I will be moving on. This morning, I woke up to another splendid e-mail from you accusing me of things I never did. Again, thanks for the morning jolt of pain.

Like I said before, couldn't make you happy 10 years ago...can't make you happy now.

 

[Dumpling]

WOW Babyyyyyyyyyy !!! ... No nudity and still so fucking hot!.. Have I ever told you that you have great taste in porn ?
Don't work too hard Beautiful

Good Morning (((Leroy}}}
Geez I almost feel out of Place on your thread~since I dont have any complaints at all~All I really wanted to do cum here & say "HI" once in a while and leave some hugs~smoochies & es & maybe even some gropes & tease a bit
Have an awesome & Funtastik Weekend Hun ~~ Ling

 

[CTGUY1234]

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[Badd Leroy]

Sorry....didn't see your post...YES, last date for sure, I couldn't move fast enough out that door. It was VERY creepy to say the least, I could of understood if we had had some discussions of sex but really none ever came up in conversation so this was totally out of the blue. The one thing that pisses me off to this day is that I am so polite when I was leaving I actually said "Nice to have met you"!!!!! To this day I'd still like to slap myself silly for that one...lol

LMAO.. thanks for the update ... Ya gotta wonder what was going through his mind huh !!!!..I mean, It might have worked had the 2 of you had phone sex or cyber play or something!!! (maybe not). lol
Polite is good .. don't beat yourself up Hun (unless you're into that kinda thing hehe) Be proud that you were YOU and nothing less

 

[Badd Leroy]

Good Morning (((Leroy}}}
Geez I almost feel out of Place on your thread~since I dont have any complaints at all~All I really wanted to do cum here & say "HI" once in a while and leave some hugs~smoochies & es & maybe even some gropes & tease a bit
Have an awesome & Funtastik Weekend Hun ~~ Ling

Good Morning {{{{{Ling}}}}}!!!!!!!!!!!! .. Like I said, You're welcome here anytime Baby!! Complaints aren't needed .. Just tell me about your most memorable date !... And I'm always open to gropes, hugs, kisses and teasin' from a hottie .. as long as I can return the favour
Hope you have great weekend too Darlin'

 

[CTGalPal]

Would you have expected anything less from me Leroy???

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

Another first date I had,we went to this bar and grill to see a really good blues band play.Since we were gonna be there for a few hours,he let his friend borrow his car.After I while,I was beginning to think that the friend was not coming back that night.I lived just around the corner from the place and he lived maybe 10 miles away.
I felt bad for him and said"ya know,if your friend does not come back with the car,you can sleep over at my house tonight"
WHY did i do that?,,LOL,my trying to be a nice person,
well,he calls his friend on his cell and says"Whatever you do,DO NOT come back for me tonight"
I HAD NO CLUE he had done that,so I let him sleep at my house that night so he did have to walk home.I found out later what he had done.

 

[CTGalPal]

I have a great first date memory...which I still love to remember.

I met him at his house and we left in his car and he was wearing this fancy black coat with swirls and trimmings on his black coat. I thought it was a little fluffy for me but hey if he liked it then fine. I mentioned that I liked his coat.

He realized while we were driving to the restaurant that he had had grabbed his sister's coat!

I thought it was the sweetest thing that he was nervous.

 

[Miss Eggroll]

CTGalPal & CTGuy1234, you know of course that there is a "blocking feature" available so that neither of you has to read the other's posts. Sounds like you both are curious as to what the other has to say, otherwise you'd have used this feature long ago.

Maybe offline would be the place to take this version of "As The Worm Turns."

 

[CTGalPal]

CTGalPal & CTGuy1234, you know of course that there is a "blocking feature" available so that neither of you has to read the other's posts. Sounds like you both are curious as to what the other has to say, otherwise you'd have used this feature long ago.

Maybe offline would be the place to take this version of "As The Worm Turns."

Couldn't agree with you more...

It's the lack of letting go on BOTH our parts.

We're both hurting and we're being stupid by lashing out on here.

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

Couldn't agree with you more...

It's the lack of letting go on BOTH our parts.

We're both hurting and we're being stupid by lashing out on here.

I am sorry you are both hurting.Letting go can be so hard to do.BIG hugs for you both.
Sometimes,love stinks.

 

[CTGalPal]

I am sorry you are both hurting.Letting go can be so hard to do.BIG hugs for you both.
Sometimes,love stinks.

Thanks Alison and Eggroll...

We both act like this because we do truely love one another but we're so similiar and stubborn that we tend to do things that are hurtful and damaging to one another. We're like one in the same...which sometimes is good and
as you can see sometimes bad.

He's the love of my life and always will be...but as you can see we lack the ability to communicate it to real life.

P.S. That first date I wrote...was with him.

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

Thanks Alison and Eggroll...

We both act like this because we do truely love one another but we're so similiar and stubborn that we tend to do things that are hurtful and damaging to one another. We're like one in the same...which sometimes is good and
as you can see sometimes bad.

He's the love of my life and always will be...but as you can see we lack the ability to communicate it to real life.

P.S. That first date I wrote...was with him.

No problem sweetie.Maybe you 2 can give it another try?I hate to see anyone hurt.That first date sounded very sweet,Good luck to you both,Please pm me if you need a shoulder to cry on.