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Whats the best way about fingering a virgin so I dont risk breaking her hymen?
huskie said:
nope. I would advise that you slowly push your finger up inside her until you feel the hymen, and then you know where it is. That way, you can finger her and know how far you can push in. I must say, though, that a lot of women who are virgins already have a broken hymen. I lost mine when I was 6, doing some gymnastics moves... many women's hymens break by doing physical activity, or through the use of tampons, etc.
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So what if you did? Why would that be a problem? It's gotta go sometime.Unregistered said:
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Just play with her clit.
Give her an orgasm that way.
Give her an orgasm that way.
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If you broke her hymen would that cause friction with her parents? Just asking 
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BlackSnake said:If you broke her hymen would that cause friction with her parents? Just asking
How would they know? Who gets to check, Mom or Dad?
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huskie said:
You mean I am supposed to read the thread before answering?
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I say just go ahead and finger her.... she'll like it...and if she doesn't... just stop! this will also be a great way to know if she's tight or not before you guys have sex... not all virgins are tight.
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babygirl79 said:
Somehow I have a problem with this...I am just not sure how yet...
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vixenshe said:
this happened to me when i was about three. i had this wooden toybox shaped like a pig. the pig's snout poked up and i landed RIGHT on it. i bled for about a week, and there was so much of it that my labia actually became buried in dried brown blood. it was REALLY painful and pretty goddamn traumatic. so anyway, yeah, check to see if she still has one.
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shescurious said:Somehow I have a problem with this...I am just not sure how yet...
I didn't mean it to sound "aggresive"... but just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she's innocent... you don't HAVE to be delicate with all virgins... I'm assuming if you're asking a question about a particular virgin then you "know" her, and know if she would be ok with it. It's just advice, not mandatory... don't take it that way.
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babygirl79 said:
I kinda agree here. Just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she should be treated like a china doll here. The key to as how far you can go has to do with communication. If she says no... then you stop IMMEDIATELY. Talk. Have a dialogue back & forth of some kind to express what each other is feeling. I sure hope that she communicates with you as to what feels good for her too. It's a two way thing... keep the lines open and things will be fine.
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Lust Engine said:
EXACTLY! I'm glad someone can put my thoughts into words for me, goodness knows i can't!
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babygirl79 said:
I think it was more the knowing if she is tight before you have sex with her.....
That just struck me as odd...I mean would that benefit in some unselfish way or....
I not attacking your opinion, I am just not sure I understand it....
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babygirl79 said:EXACTLY! I'm glad someone can put my thoughts into words for me, goodness knows i can't!
You agree with me quite nicely at least!
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huskie said:yes or you get a spanking!!!!!
heh...
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WriterDom said:
That would work too.
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just because shes a virgin doesnt mean she hasnt done anything. I on the other hand was totally one LOL I had never done anything even kissed a man really. So it really is important to find out what she as done. it will tell you how far you can go, what you can do, to be agreesive or not ect. PErsonally I wouldnt have liked my first experience be having my clit licked and a finger stuck up my ass LMAO but then again I did have anal sex before I lost my virginity (a few days before). So I really cant say but I believe it really should be talked with her. you need to know what she has done so you can see how to approch her and also be OBSERVENT. if she shows signs of not enjoying. stop.
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Pixie Mischief said:
This is one of those subtle signs of learning to communicate. Communicating isn't always done verbally. Watch, observe and ask if you have any doubts. Again, I can't stress how important it is for the both of you to respect each other.
Good luck.
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Very true, communication is the key. communication AND trust. There can be nothing without Trust
