Finding my international BDSM community...

[MayaMayhem]

Well, I'm not exactly new.

I've been in and out of Literotica and this forum for nearly 10 years now, under various forgotten screen names and email addresses. I've come for a sense of community, friendship and belonging between breakups and periods of discovery in my adult life. Funny how I keep coming back to the same place. I see familiar screen names and even avatars each time!

I'm feeling uprooted. I just moved from my home country of 20+ years to, literally, the other side of the planet. It's interesting how you can spend days alone and feel secure when you know you have friends all around you, but a few hours spent in a lonely city feels like an eternity. It's worse in a society where BDSM is extremely taboo, and I know that the likelihood of finding people who understand it is near zero.

My time zone now is exactly 12hrs off the time at home. Everyone I know is asleep or at work - but not on Literotica.

So, I guess my point is... Here I am again! This time I need my international community even more than before. I know from previous experience that I can thank you all in advance for making me feel at home.

 

[Kajira Callista]

What were your old screen names?

 

[MayaMayhem]

What were your old screen names?

I don't remember all. My most used was "lovebound" but I don't remember the pass or email I associated with it.

 

[Etoile]

I went through that when I lived in Tokyo, which was 13/14 hours off home. I ended up with kind of strange hours because I was always trying to be up early/late enough to talk to people back home!

For sympathetic-minded people locally, check out the PhilFet group on Fetlife.

 

[debianDaddy]

I am eager to learn things about BDSM and I am a newby and hey I found this thread by googling BDSM communityin cebu, I join this forum right away, so that I can reply to this thread.

I am into it but finding somebody here in this city is very difficult so that is why, I am asking you why not let's make one.