Finding "cyber" partners online

[Breakdown]

Does anyone know a good place to cyber online? How do you find a partner from a 70+ member IRC chat room where people seem more interested in talking about the weather? I've only successfully done it a couple times, and afterwards the women say "you're good", etc., but finding someone to go one on one with is like pulling teeth. After about 45 minutes of looking, I get frustrated and just pop in a porn.

I actually asked in a room why no one seems interested in cybersex in a room called "cybersex" and I got answers like "you need to get to know people first" (meaning, getting to know the "regulars" in these rooms). That just seems to go against the whole anonymous thing. I'm not looking for a new circle of friends or anything!

Thanks for any help!

-Breakdown

 

[asenath]

Most of the people I talk dirty to online.. and have done phone with are people I've met on nonsexual message boards.

 

[DevilishTexan]

The Playground.

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

Most ladies like to be seduced ... even on line. I'd wonder about those that seek you out, or jump into cyber with no intro. Would guess if you go on you have a better than 50/50 chance of cybering with a guy pretending to be a woman.

 

[Scarlet Kai]

I cyber on yahoo chat. It's amazing, there are plenty of people on there who want to get it on and lots of 70+ as well.

Everyone I've met has done the getting-to-know-you bit after we've cybered.

I usually hang out in the Romance>Adult>Role Playing>user rooms section and there is plenty of different things to choose from

 

[dmb101]

I am intrigued by the idea of cyber'ing. But when i went to Yahoo chat, i recieve error DHTML something or other... I downloaded Mirc, any channels ?

 

[MagmaX]

mIRC can take forever to find a good room since theres so many servers.

I would try PALTALK if I was you, they also allow voice and video!

 

[ChromeCollar]

Seems like every chat room I have EVER been in, be it AOL, yahoo, or whatever, people are screaming for cyber partners. I cant believe you cant find a partner for just an one time fling.

I quit visiting chats because of the constant cyber requests flashing across the screen.

 

[Ezzy]

I used to cyber in Lit Chat, and there were always dozens of people willing to cyber, but and it is a big BUT, lots of people who went into the lobby wanted to talk about the weather, cars films etc but not be asked to cyber.

I got some good friends from it and if I wanted to cyber I/we would move off into the other rooms or make a room of our own.

If you want cyber on a regular basis, frequent chat rooms with out looking for it, it will find you quick enough when folks see you as a conscious intelligent chatter.

 

[WickedEyes]

Does anyone know a good place to cyber online? How do you find a partner from a 70+ member IRC chat room where people seem more interested in talking about the weather? I've only successfully done it a couple times, and afterwards the women say "you're good", etc., but finding someone to go one on one with is like pulling teeth. After about 45 minutes of looking, I get frustrated and just pop in a porn.

I actually asked in a room why no one seems interested in cybersex in a room called "cybersex" and I got answers like "you need to get to know people first" (meaning, getting to know the "regulars" in these rooms). That just seems to go against the whole anonymous thing. I'm not looking for a new circle of friends or anything!

Thanks for any help!

-Breakdown

Believe it or not... games.

lol I've met some of the hottest and best cybergirls while playing those MMORPGs (Massively Multiplayer Online Role Playing Games), like Star Wars Galaxies, or EverQuest, or Dark Age of Camelot, even City of Heroes.

Lots of girls actually play these games (you just want to get to know them first), and they are reallllly good at fucking

 

[javagreen]

Re: Re: Finding "cyber" partners online

Believe it or not... games.

lol I've met some of the hottest and best cybergirls while playing those MMORPGs (Massively Multiplayer Online Role Playing Games), like Star Wars Galaxies, or EverQuest, or Dark Age of Camelot, even City of Heroes.

Lots of girls actually play these games (you just want to get to know them first), and they are reallllly good at fucking

Oooh I bet

 

[bayou_boy]

what about finding people for web cam play?

 

[ventress69]

i actually chat alot on yahoo, you would be amazed the people that come out when you have a cam on. and yes they save me because i do a show for them.. i talk a little but with 10 people trying to talk to me at once i get flustered and start stripping and they shut up or at least just make nice comments,, but i hate the ones that want me to type and play with myself,, that can get annoying or ones that i havent' talked to before just yelling out commands,, i mean i may be a cyber slut but i'll do what i want,,

ok enough about what i do,, get your cam out go into a yahoo chat even if it;s by region,, (i hardly ever go to the state im actually in because some people are actually looking to hook up in person and i do not). sit back and wait a little bit,, keep switching rooms to if you have too. and i have had luck in the lit chat as well. hope this helps a little.

ventress.

 

[Noor]

going into a chat room and announcing you are female and want anonymous cyber should do it. Don't worry if you are male, I understand many declared cyber "females" are really male.

I am not good at the anonymous stuff, because the more I know about someone the better the cyber. Just getting off I can do by myself.

I have been in situations that started off as flirts and somehow progressed to full blown cyber encounters.

Just try and have fun.

 

[SkyyAngel]

Here's a fun site....

ACN

There's quite a few "older ladies" rooms and these people all live for cybering. Just post a message about it and you are sure to get more than one reply. Have fun. Just don't follow in the footsteps of J-Dogg.

The Saga of J-Dogg, Part 1

Go here to get all 11!

 

[Breakdown]

By the way, just to clarify, when I said 70+ member chat room, I did NOT mean 70 year olds, I meant a room with more than 70 people in it. No offense to anyone that's into that thing, but, if only for my own peace of mind, I had to clarify.

Thanks for all the advice!

 

[Breakdown]

Just read those J-Dogg bits... HILARIOUS! Thanks!

 

[SkyyAngel]

Oopsies....oh well...here at Lit we get all kinds so I guess we just assumed.

Sorry....but that site I linked to has a lot of rooms with over 70 people in it. Especially the more "controversial" rooms like the "Barely Legal" room...now THAT room gets fun!

But don't worry, they're still legit and legal....there are mods patrolling the rooms and if you act stupid and say "I'm 13 who wants to fuck?" they'll boot you right out of there.

Yeah...ya gotta love J-Dogg. Me and my friends always just randomly say, "I put on my robe and wizard hat" and instantly convulse into giggles.

 

[Topher]

SlvrTongueDevil is right; most women want to be seduced. It's a fact of life, so you might as well get over it. It's sad to see a desperate 19yo broadcast his ip on say, Webcamnow, stipulating "female only."

Now, I am not saying there aren't exceptions, but women aren't built like us in the head, guys. Women usually have no interest in watching a stranger beat off, nor do they have the inclination to strip nor diddle for a stranger.

If you look hard enough you will have some success, but I daresay that you would put forth less effort in the long run looking for action in real life.

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

SlvrTongueDevil is right; most women want to be seduced. It's a fact of life, so you might as well get over it.

When you're wanting to cyber, first pull out your ... creativity.
Oh, and practice, practice, practice.

 

[sadunai]

I actually asked in a room why no one seems interested in cybersex in a room called "cybersex" and I got answers like "you need to get to know people first" (meaning, getting to know the "regulars" in these rooms). That just seems to go against the whole anonymous thing. I'm not looking for a new circle of friends or anything!

Do you walk up to people in a club and ask if they want to take a quick one out in your car? If so, how many say yes right away? Ok, so they would have seen you and formed an opinnion from your apperance, but the thought is close enough.
I don't know if I agree on the "you need to get to know people first" part, but you need to intodruce yourself and let the person know you at least a bit. You can still be anonymous. It's about showing how you think about things, not giving away your home number.

There is trolls and predators out there, getting to know a person, at least a bit is also a safety thing. Even if it is only for your own mental safety.

That said. I'm just wondering why anyone would go through the trouble of finding cyber "one night stands". A casual online relation, a online "fuck" buddie, is so much more fun. ... but that's just me.

 

[asenath]

Now, I am not saying there aren't exceptions, but women aren't built like us in the head, guys. Women usually have no interest in watching a stranger beat off, nor do they have the inclination to strip nor diddle for a stranger.

That's on thing I don't get. Why do guys think we want to stare at them wanking over and over? It might be kind of interesting the first time.. but after that.. no. Oh yay.. a hand moving up and down a cock. How exciting.

(I'm talking about on cam.. in person is another story.)

 

[Topher]

That's on thing I don't get. Why do guys think we want to stare at them wanking over and over? It might be kind of interesting the first time.. but after that.. no. Oh yay.. a hand moving up and down a cock. How exciting.

(I'm talking about on cam.. in person is another story.)

They think you want to see that because that is what they want to see. Oh yay ... fingers diddling pussy lips. How exciting! (no sarcasm)

While you can fault men for not understanding how women are wired, women don't seem to think very much about how men are wired, either.

I'm glad I am bisexual, because it's nice not to have to woo someone everytime I want to have sex.

 

[Elf Kitten]

Originally posted by SlvrTongueDevil
Most ladies like to be seduced ... even on line. I'd wonder about those that seek you out, or jump into cyber with no intro. Would guess if you go on you have a better than 50/50 chance of cybering with a guy pretending to be a woman.

I agree. The art of seduction has been nearly forgotten.

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

I agree. The art of seduction has been nearly forgotten.

And art it is (which doesn't mean I'm a great artist). Every person (woman being seduced) seems to have her own "tender" spots (even orally). Ahhh, but the exploration can be so enlightening!!!