Fiancé wants to share me, how do I proceed?

[Richelieujuniour]

I always make it a point to get to know the couple first preferably both of them

 

[policywank]

Yeah, agreed.
While I do see the theoretical appeal of not knowing who they are… I’d have to have a LOT of trust in the man that made the choices.

Some guys seem to associate promiscuous or sexually adventurous women with the peculiar notion that we will fuck anybody. I don't know any person - man or woman - who feels that way. The whole premise seems to cast us into the role of a prop in their fantasy for their enjoyment.

The idea that the men are strangers or maybe men I know but can't tell who they are because I am blindfolded has titillating appeal. And I think that I would trust my husband's judgement to choose the men.

But the idea that the guys are "random" basically means he didn't apply any judgment at all. Think of the train wrecks included in any 5 or 10 guys chosen truly at random! Lol, no thanks.

 

[DennisB]

Being a caring loving partner means that you also select others to be with your spouse, if that lifestyle is part of your marriage? I have read many women and men who have posted that they want to be tied to a tree or tie their wives to a tree and let strangers have them. While in one’s mind this might be a hot fantasy; in reality it is dangerous.

A loving spouse will select individuals based upon criteria; you just don’t walk down the street and pickup some scuzzbucket or trampy ho and bring them home. The goal is to give them pleasure not the willys!! If you are married to someone that just picks strangers at random without regard or judgment, run now!!!!!!

I agree 100% with policywank. If this is your particular kink, play it out with a spouse that wants the best for you.

 

[gtnlynn]

We never had a threesome. My wife didn't want me around when she had sex with others. I did allow her to have sex with others, but we had rules: only one date per person so there were no affairs, condoms required, no friends allowed, and she had to tell me about it. It worked for us.

 

[UK_Jill45]

Take your time with this and find a guy who is happy to be part of this, both of you have at least a couple of social meets with him where any physical contact is off the table while you all find out about each other. When you are ready to take it further then arrange for you all to get together and see how it goes, as already suggested maybe give him oral and see how that makes you feel. When and if you want to take it further then do so but at your pace. As for being blindfolded and having a stranger fuck you, I have done this but, this was only after me and hubby had been involving others in our sex life for a couple of years. It maybe something for the future but I wouldn't jump into that until you are comfortable with having sex with somebody you can see.

 

[BunniBun]

Recently, my fiancé and I opened up to each other about our fantasies. I told him mine, and he was very receptive and was into it. He told me his, and he said he wants to share me. He wants to have a threesome with me and another man. And he also wants to tie me up and blindfold me and have random guys come in and fuck me. The thought of all of this is so so sexy. It turns me on so much he finds me so sexy he wants to share me.

The only problem is I’m pretty shy, and I’m worried about how we’ll fulfill this fantasy of his. I’m not ready to full on fuck another dude just yet. What are some ways I can fulfill his hot wife fantasy? Thank you

You pretty much answered your own questions there in stating you are not ready. As with most things you should approach with baby steps unless it is something you both want deeply. Be truthful in asking yourself if you want this or if you want this for him. Often if you do something for him that you do not want yourself more damage will be done than good. Get some toys, play some games in the bedroom with each other and see what happens. Have fun.

 

[Stacysmith287]

Yeah, agreed.
While I do see the theoretical appeal of not knowing who they are… I’d have to have a LOT of trust in the man that made the choices.

I had a mmf when I was 17..I told my husband about it and he's been trying to persuade me to have another..think those wild days are over lol

 

[Filipinawife]

I agree, small steps. I was scared
My husband would hate me after. So I didn’t relax and enjoy it so much the first time. Fortunately he loved it.

 

[SurferBoy9044]

Recently, my fiancé and I opened up to each other about our fantasies. I told him mine, and he was very receptive and was into it. He told me his, and he said he wants to share me. He wants to have a threesome with me and another man. And he also wants to tie me up and blindfold me and have random guys come in and fuck me. The thought of all of this is so so sexy. It turns me on so much he finds me so sexy he wants to share me.

The only problem is I’m pretty shy, and I’m worried about how we’ll fulfill this fantasy of his. I’m not ready to full on fuck another dude just yet. What are some ways I can fulfill his hot wife fantasy? Thank you

This is one of my favorite things to do is sharing my girlfriend with my friends. We started off really slow and let my roommate watch. She pretended that she didn't know that he was watching and really got into and put on a show saying how much she liked big cocks. She was sucking on my cock completely naked on her hands and knees with her ass facing him. When she gets on her hands and knees her ass opens up and you can clearly see her asshole and pussy. She climb on me and rode me until she came a couple of times. She then laded on top of me and I reached back and spread her ass cheeks apart to give him a really great view of her asshole. I whispered in her ear that he had taken his cock out of his shorts and was masturbating's just a few feet behind her. She was really turn on and I started to put a finger in her asshole and she gasped out loud and I told her to just relax as I wanted him to see her get fucked in the ass. We had talked about this a lot and I had been fucking her in her ass almost everyday and telling her how much I wanted to see another guy fuck her in her ass. I told her to take my cock out of her pussy and put in her asshole she slowly pulled it out and then rubbed it against her asshole. I keep whispering into her ear and told her I didn't know how big my roommates cock was but it was Hugh she I told her that it was 8 inches long and very thick. She push down on me and really started fucking my cock into her asshole and I told her to talked dirty out loud. She told me to fuck her ass and and make her have a anal organism. My roommate and I where making eye contact and he knew That I knew that he was watching. He started making hand motions that he wanted to fuck in her asshole next. I whispered into her ear and told her that after I came in her ass I wanted him to fuck in her ass. She looked at me and asked if that is what you want then it's ok with me. With that being said I unloaded one of the best orgasm I had every had and filled her asshole with a big load of come. As my cock slid out of her come filled asshole my roommate but his cock in her asshole. He fucked her ass for almost ten minutes before coming in her asshole. Since that night we have both been fucking her and we always leave our loving making with her taking both of us in her ass.

 

[dz2681]

Lucky roommate

 

[Scotchlander]

Find an understanding and discrete guy and take it slowly.

I met a couple in the same situation. They very much wanted another guy to join them, but were also scared to take the first step.

They contacted me and said they would like to meet, but nothing was guaranteed and I fully understood.

So we met up first for a drink and a chat and I reassured them both that I was no threat to their marriage and was very aware I was the extra and would abide by their rules.

After the first ‘social’ meet they contacted me again and said they would like to meet again. So we met up for another drink. This time the husband insisted his wife sit close to me and she was comfortable with that. It was a dimly lit lounge bar and we flirted. Small touches of her leg and the likes and everyone was getting a little tipsy on the wine. She went to the toilet and when she returned the husband suggested she sit on my knee. So that’s what she did. Right on top of my hard cock. She had a discrete little feel of my cock and I cupped her breast and it was all very relaxed and we laughed like teenagers. Then they suggested we go back to their hotel room.

Back at the hotel was much the same. Drinking wine and the wife sitting next to me. The husband again suggested his wife sit on my knee as before. Same thing happened again and we touched each other through our clothes. At some stage she had removed her bra, so I had better access and I played with her nipples while the husband watched from the nearby chair. I kissed her gently on the back of the neck which she loved. I got more daring and slid my hand up her leg. I rubbed her pussy through her very wet panties and she appeared to be in another world and so very horny and wanting. I slid my hand inside and she was soaking and there was no way back.

I undressed her and we went to the nearby bed. She sat down and I stood. I asked her to unbuckle my shorts as I wanted to introduce her to her new friend. So she nervously unbuckled my belt and let my shorts drop to the floor. She rubbed me through my boxers and then released my hard cock. It sprang into life. She initially wanked me some and then taken my cock into her mouth. It was heaven and the atmosphere very electric ️if that makes sense.

We had a lot of foreplay and it was very hot. The husband could not take much more and he had released his cock and was playing with it while watching.

Her husband and myself both had her individually that first night and then before we finished we spit roasted her. We all had a great time.

We met many times after that and it was always good relaxed sexy fun.

The wife went from a shy, prim and proper woman, to being our very horny cum slut in the bedroom and they both loved every minute. So much so it became a regular event.

 

[RIPAphrodite]

Think about doing it with a girl instead of a dude…

 

[Jay142]

My wife was shy and had body image issues. We started slowly by having her expose herself to shoe salesmen, room service waiters, and not wearing a bra. We had a sizeable lingerie collection and I convinced her to model it for my best friend. She did this several times and it naturally progressed to him fucking her. We would get together several times per year so he could fuck her. Her confidence grew to the point where she looked forward to our encounters and became quite the cock tease while modeling her lingerie before fucking us.