Fetish

[Quint]

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[Jessalynvix]

Here's something that doesn't get discussed nearly as often as it might. Whether BDSM is life, lust, or laughter, there are certain things that just pull our chains. Mmmm, chains.

Me, I'm borderline obsessed with the notion of the innocent, adorable girl being attacked by some bestial, ravenous male. I dwell on the details of the outfit until it is perfect for the role, almost as surrogate foreplay. I call this fetish because it's almost beyond roleplaying; it's two stereotypes, very carefully depicted. The sex is pretty crucial too, but it's not what gets the majority of my fantasy air-time.

So that's number one. What other fetishes do we have among us?



Also, quick question, Netzach, if you don't mind me asking: I have been fascinated with your hood with the blonde ponytail extensions. What do you feel when you wear that? What does your partner feel? To me, it's just this fantastic deviation from what I'd expect to see.

oooo I tend to do stuff like this just to get to Dusty because it's fun that and I can make myself look younger by doing pig tails. It really just gets to Dusty sometimes because I tend to be naughty and tease majorly when I'm in that mindset flashing etc.

I have plans on finding the classic school girl outfit lol

 

[dreaming_lilith]

So that's number one. What other fetishes do we have among us?

I have a major fetish for male hands. Another one for knifes. I have a few more, but those are the biggest ones.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I have a bad tomboy thing.

Pigtails OR shaved head, wifebeater, overalls, clogs or boots, thong panties, tattoos. Or any lesian riot grrl styles.

 

[Scarlett_t2]

#1 on my list would be my nails. I love to inflict them when ever I get the chance. I get a feeling I can't describe when I know it's my own hands that are causing such pain/pleasure, and they are always at the ready.
Scarlett

 

[Netzach]

Having my feet/boots/shoes adored in a whole range of ways.

I've been a boot pig top and bottom. The only thing associated with a guy that can still flip me is a pair of really nice wescos.

Rubber/latex. I love to wear it, it's like bondage you can move in freely.

Retro 40's-50's foundation garments, dresses, hats, anything.

Nylons and stockings and anything sheer or stretchy.

Hoods/masks/depersonalizing bondage.


...special note to Quint:

I love that hood. It's bizzare, but adorable. It's pigtails, but badass. It can go either way, very elegant with the widows-peaked opening, but also very deviant and capricious and young with the hair in little knotted buns. Anime-girl, and weird.

See, I've always had the wrong version of your story as my fantasy. The hulking male pops up and the sweet young thing in bloomers backhands him into stunned compliance and has her way with him totally. Daddy sub. So I love the pigtails worn as an emblem of space oddity power. It's funny to me, because the rubber hood with one hair tube and tail is kind of a Domme icon, whereas 2 reads more "sub". It's precisely why I picked the one with 2, a nod to my youth, youthful feelings and late adolescence/early 2nd adolescence.

The reactions I get are usually very awed, curious. I like extreme costuming as a way to get my mindset changed and in place, and a way to get my bottom's headspace changed and in place. I don't NEED it, or use it at home, most home discipline is administered in the buff and to the buff, but it's nice to dress up and have somewhere to go, too.

M is neutral on it, he obsessed over the fit of it in Demask for about 20 minutes "it's lumpy on top, it looks weird" before I made him go back and look at every other latex Domina on the net to see that indeed, her hood is fucking lumpy too. (M's fetishes are latex, older men, and rigid-assed perfection, grrrrr)

When we did the photos, he was turned on by the overall appearance. I don't know what he thinks of the hood specifically any more than I know what he thinks of my white cotton sweater, specifically.

He's the SOB who got me into latex. I had only bought the cheap ass moulded stuff that sucks, and then he let me try on his house wears zip up. Created a monster.

 

[Pure]

Yes, innocent, school girl, preferably in uniform. I download a nice pic of one standing, disciplinary stick in hand, stradding a nun who had her arms at her sides and legs together--coffin style--pissing onto her face.

 

[s'lara]

i hadn't thought about it, but i guess it's easy to fetishize pretty much anything. i guess pain can be a fetish. Or humiliation. But those are primarily sensory ... physical and the emotional.

Eh, bottom line, if a particular act spins your wheels every time (i mean every time), then it's fetish material. Seems like visual or aural presentation is high on the list of fetish triggers.

lara

 

[Quint]

Re: Re: Fetish

I have a major fetish for male hands. Another one for knifes. I have a few more, but those are the biggest ones.

Hands are definitely yummy. Do you gravitate towards a particular type? Someone mentioned to me yesterday re: "Kill Bill" that they didn't find Uma Thurmon attractive because she has such mannish hands. I actually find myself immensely drawn to that very aspect; not often are androgynous qualities the focus of my lust, but they certainly are in this example! Such an unambiguous female with such a masculine edge.

Combined with the badass blades they wielded and I'd be surprised if the movie wasn't a hit with you!

 

[Quint]

#1 on my list would be my nails. I love to inflict them when ever I get the chance. I get a feeling I can't describe when I know it's my own hands that are causing such pain/pleasure, and they are always at the ready.
Scarlett

What do you do by way of hand worship? Elaborate manicures, massages? I don't know that having extremely long nails would be conducive to scratching; I remember one friend saying that her Master had a fisting hand--nails cut short--and a scratching hand--nails left normal length.

 

[dreaming_lilith]

Re: Re: Re: Fetish

Hands are definitely yummy. Do you gravitate towards a particular type? Someone mentioned to me yesterday re: "Kill Bill" that they didn't find Uma Thurmon attractive because she has such mannish hands. I actually find myself immensely drawn to that very aspect; not often are androgynous qualities the focus of my lust, but they certainly are in this example! Such an unambiguous female with such a masculine edge.

Combined with the badass blades they wielded and I'd be surprised if the movie wasn't a hit with you!

Well, you pretty much mention what type. I find masculine hands very sexy (but not really on women...). Long fingers or veiny hands or strong hands for instanse.
Or even the way they move. Once I got dropping wet just by watching a strange man peeling an orange on the subway. Still remember the feeling, and it must have been more than 5 years ago.

But as I enjoy checking out everyones hands, in a non sexual way, I think most hands are pretty fun.

Can't stand men with long nails tho. I get goose flesh just by thinking of such a hand touching me. Aaaaah, mind...stooooop!

 

[bridgeburner]

Mmmmm......hands! Definitely a biggie. I'm kind of particular since my father has the most beautiful masculine hands I've ever seen. It makes me wish I was a real sculptor so I could reproduce them. I got lucky and my hands take after my fathers rather than my mother's. She has pretty elegant hands but mine are stronger. Not manly at all, just competent looking.

I've also got a thing about voices. Actors like Vin Diesel and Lance Henrikson and the the sweat-inducing Michael Wincott. These are not pretty men by any stretch of the imagination but those voices....god, somebody get me a towel!

Leather, yum. I like the sound of it and the smell and the way it feels. I like the look of latex and rubber but the smell of them kind of puts me off.

Medical settings ---- not so much because they're medical but because of the incredible abuse of power and the vulnerability of the "patient".

And yes, Quint, you're a woman after my own heart --- line up the sweaty hulking hoardes and sic them on the desperate damsel. I don't want them to make her come. I don't want her to like it. I want her stripped and spread and drowned in a sea of ejaculate from skeevy men.

I'm vastly intrigued by the idea of women being forced to submit to the attentions of geeks and drooling morons and horny young boys.

Are all these things really fetishes, though? Yes, leather and rubber and medical qualify, but my understanding of fetish was that something that is not sexual becomes sexualized. Maybe I just have a hard time considering anything beyond the realm of being sexualized. Perhaps a rolodex. Yeah, hard for me to imagine how a rolodex might become a consuming sexual idee fixe, but I couldn't absolutely rule out the possibility.


-B

 

[bridgeburner]

Netzach,

The hulking male pops up and the sweet young thing in bloomers backhands him into stunned compliance and has her way with him totally

I get this great vision of Carol Kane in Scrooged as the Ghost of Christmas Present as she whacks Bill Murray with a toaster.



-B

 

[Scarlett_t2]

What do you do by way of hand worship? Elaborate manicures, massages? I don't know that having extremely long nails would be conducive to scratching; I remember one friend saying that her Master had a fisting hand--nails cut short--and a scratching hand--nails left normal length.

I really don't do anything. I try and take care of my hands. I only wear clear polish when they are shorter...it seems in the summer they break more but by fall they are usually quite long. I love to paint them bold dark red colors. The site of my nails raking down creamy white skin and leaving the most adoring red marks is a huge turn on for me. I very pressure and place depending on my mood. The one thing I just love is I can walk up to him anywhere and give a quick scratch or pinch to let him know how I am feeling. It's just my little way of letting him know how I am feeling.
Scarlett

 

[FungiUg]

Corsets and stockings (on a cute woman)... yum. Yum yum yum.

I know, I know, I'm pathetic... *sigh*

 

[shy slave]

My fetish is words...

I love the sound of certain words like...slutttttttt.

In online relationship it was His words that really got me going.

I also love wearing corsetry, so I am with you on that FungiUg

shy slave

 

[rosco rathbone]

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I'm vastly intrigued by the idea of women being forced to submit to the attentions of geeks and drooling morons and horny young boys.


-B [/B][/QUOTE]

I want royalties.

 

[bridgeburner]

Sorry, Rosco, you have to take second seat to the boddice rippers of my youth but it is certainly one of the things I like best about you!


-B

 

[rosco rathbone]

Sorry, Rosco, you have to take second seat to the boddice rippers of my youth but it is certainly one of the things I like best about you!


-B

oh alright

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

I've also got a thing about voices. Actors like Vin Diesel and Lance Henrikson and the the sweat-inducing Michael Wincott. These are not pretty men by any stretch of the imagination but those voices....god, somebody get me a towel!

-B

Hmmmm, I think I would have to agree with you bridgeburner about the voices thing, there is something deliciously tasty about a deep commanding voice that sends me weak at the knees and positively lusting for punishment.

The other thing that I find a little wierd to think about - I have a serious thing about that soft flesh at the top of the inside of the thigh. Don't care whose thigh, anyones will do, as long as I can stroke and kiss it all night, I am orgasmically happy.

 

[Lancecastor]

Hmmm

fet·ish also fet·ich ( P ) Pronunciation Key (ftsh, ftsh)
n.
An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.

An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.

Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.

An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.

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The most pervy definition of fetish is the third; i.e. the nonsexual object that becomes required in order to get off.

I find those funny..."I can only cum if we're doing it in the bed of a tri-axle dump truck."

Huh?

As for the milder definitions, I have a list of Favorite Things:

• Shoes: Strappy high heels, left on...those ones with the laces up the calves drive me nuts.
• Hair Pulling: Taking her mane like a leash. Yum.
• Public Exposure: I insist on having her wear panties, then tell her to take them off in the car so I can lift her skirt to finger her from behind and display her ass in niteclubs. Moving across the room and have her spread her legs for me from a barstool so I can return to shoo the guys that approach her is another fave.
• Spanking To Orgasm: Her on top, smacking her cheeks harder as she begs for it while cumming.

 

[sigsauerprinces]

one of my biggest fetishes is guns one of my biggest fetishes is guns being pushed up against the wall, im wearing a miniskirt with no panties and he shoves his hand roughly between my legs and pushes two fingers inside me..his other hand reaches into the waistband of his jeans and brings out a sig sauer p228, cold gleaming steel. he casually brushes my cheek with the barrell before pointing it at my temple. my legs going weak with lust, his hot fingers in my cunt and the cool steel pressed against my skin. he sees the fear and lust in my eyes but his are unreadable, black pools where tiny embers spark and dance. i could get lost looking into those eyes. then he rams both fingers all the way inside, pressing against my g spot, my hips are bucking, trying to fuck his fingers, to get them deeper, to get more inside me. with his gun hand he grabs my shirt, pulls me away from the wall and then slams me into it. "stay still, cunt" he growls. i want to speak but i cant, the feelings washing over me are too intense. he removes the barrell from my temple and caresses my breasts with it through the sheer silky material..my nipples springing into erectness as he circles them with the cool metal. i cant help staring at the gun, wondering if it's loaded. he must sense the question in my eyes because he suddenly brings the gun up til its right in front of my face, releases the clip and it falls into his other hand. i see it is full, loaded. my heart skips a beat, adrenaline flows through me, and a ridiculous grin appears on my face. he slams the clip back home and then its back at my temple as he adds a third finger to my dripping cunt. i close my eyes in exstasy but he orders me to open them. i do and then the barrell is shoved forcefully into my cheek. his fingers pump faster in my pussy, my juices flowing freely over his hand, body shaking...and then he flicks the safety off. i moan out loud and he grins a small, evil grin. "we're not done yet, slut" he tells me. he slaps my face gently with the gun, and then a couple times not so gently... then he adds a fourth finger to my spasming pussy and my moans grow louder..we are in a dim, dirty alley in a bad part of town tho, so it doesnt matter how loud i get. he's ramming them into me, im shuddering, he's ordering me to look into his eyes..."are you going to cum for me bitch? are you?"

"yesss..fuck yes.." i breathe. "oh fuck im gonna cum". with that he raises the gun in front of me, jacks back the slide and points it to my temple. "fucking CUM". "aagghhhhhh" the combination of fear and desire and pleasure and lust and love and that evil looking weapon inches from my face makes me cum like a freight train, i think ppl probly heard me a block away the waves go on and on and he keeps massaging my cunt roughly, drawing more orgasms from me. finally i slump against the wall, totally exhausted, and he decocks the gun, flicks the safety on, and shoves it back into his waistband. "come here baby" he murmurs, and pulls me into his arms. i snuggle against him and he holds me, stroking my arm softly, telling me what a good girl i was. i turn and look up at him and say "I love yo baby". he smiles at me and says softly back "i love you too angel". he kisses my lips, and then he helps me straighten up, pulls my skirt down, wipes my cunt juice off my inner thighs and holds his fingers up for me to lick them clean..as i do he joins me, both of us enjoying my sweet nectar. then we set off down the alley, hand in hand.

 

[sigsauerprinces]

polite bump

 

[bridgeburner]

I think I need a polite cold shower......or a moment alone.

-B

 

[Queen Bee]

Wow, very intense, ssp. I was interested to learn the source of your name, as I know very little about guns and am not familiar with that make.