Hi all,
I'm curious to know if others have had success posting personals here, or elsewhere, to find people to engage or share their particular fetish - whatever it may be.
I've written several well received stories on Literotica, many with a fetish theme (in my case leather, high heeled boots, smoking..) Now, I wrote the stories just to express myself, since most of my fetishistic experiences are in my head, rather than being part of a lifestyle. However, it was a vague hope that I might, via my writing, engage the interest of a woman who shared some of my interests.
On the net, no doubt, countless other men have attepted to find others with whom they could share their particular fetish. It is my hunch, though, that this may not work via an ad or personals.
So, what is the best approach? I mean, it hardly seems possible when I see a girl in a fetching leather outfit, or stunning high heeled boots, to just approach her in public. While that is probably the most direct method of meeting someone, it would be very hard to pull off. Especially for a somehwat shy person.
I'm curious to know if others have had success posting personals here, or elsewhere, to find people to engage or share their particular fetish - whatever it may be.
I've written several well received stories on Literotica, many with a fetish theme (in my case leather, high heeled boots, smoking..) Now, I wrote the stories just to express myself, since most of my fetishistic experiences are in my head, rather than being part of a lifestyle. However, it was a vague hope that I might, via my writing, engage the interest of a woman who shared some of my interests.
On the net, no doubt, countless other men have attepted to find others with whom they could share their particular fetish. It is my hunch, though, that this may not work via an ad or personals.
So, what is the best approach? I mean, it hardly seems possible when I see a girl in a fetching leather outfit, or stunning high heeled boots, to just approach her in public. While that is probably the most direct method of meeting someone, it would be very hard to pull off. Especially for a somehwat shy person.
