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Got your attention, didn't I?
Well this ain't actually about Nice Guys and their supposed sense of entitlement.
This is actually about women and their sense of entitlement. Women feel entitled to a man who is their protector, provider, and all around hero. And women are also quick to lecture and punish men for not catering to to this entitled mentality.
Sounds familiar to what you accuse Nice Guys of doing?
Women are raised on TV stories, fairy tales, and in their adult years, romance books, all of which convey the message that even the homely or frumpy beta woman is entitled to be rescued by the rugged hero, the handsome prince, the lovable rogue, or the rich guy.
This sense of entitlement then metastasizes within the female psyche. It is common knowledge that women typically expect their man to fulfill the roles they read about in the fairy tales, romance books and women's magazines. Women routinely test men to see if they can fit the alpha male standard. If a woman cannot find her alpha male, she falls back to the entitlement of last resort: she will not date a man who is not objectively tall. The only reason a woman forego all of this is after they come to believe they have no chance of meeting a man who fulfills those standards. In other words, women only abandon their sense of entitlement when they feel forced to settle.
Whenever society gets around to occasionally fretting over some men who won't date homely or fat women, a campaign of shaming ensues. Men are told, via fairy tale storytelling, that their pickiness is wrong and they will be punished for it. This shaming also occurs in the modern age. Women are not shamed like this by society. Hypergamic women are routinely glorified and encouraged.
Virtually all insults that women use against men, are some variant of insinuation that a man isn't capable of attracting, protecting, pleasing or providing for other women. In other words, women's insults against men comprise entirely of men failing to fulfill a woman's sense of entitlement.
With a few notable exceptions, practically every tale about love that you will ever read, caters to this sense of entitlement. All of the exceptions to this hard rule are not only rare, but also very recent.
Like the mythical evil Nice Guy, women are not willing to budge from their sense of entitlement. But they are actually worse than Nice Guys - women will cling even harder to their belief that men somehow owe them something, even into their 30s and 40s. At the same time women are whining about their biological clock running out, they are blaming their problems on men not satisfying their hypergamic standards. When a woman is trembling with fear that she'll never meet a husband to father and raise her kids, she never asks what she did wrong to get in this situation. She always blames the men for not being the hero she wanted to marry.
Self-entitled women are being called upon by a small number of men to check their privilege. But invariably, women respond with scathing hostility that borders on outright paranoia. Such is the irrational reaction of any privileged group whose sense of entitlement is openly challenged.
But while self-entitled women can beat back verbal challenges to their privilege, there is one consequence they cannot avoid. Even the worst of the so-called evil Nice Guys have all the time in the world to figure out how to get the woman of their dreams, or at least get comfortable with settling for less. Women? Not so much. Countless women now are chasing their entitlement fantasies even as said fantasies flee down the same road that leads to menopause. Many women, unable to check their privilege, will follow their entitlement fantasies to the bitter end, off the proverbial cliff, and in the end it will not be misogyny, Nice Guys or male self-entitlement that destroys these women and removes them from the gene pool... but rather, Darwin and Mother Nature themselves.
Feminists may not care about having children, but all the other hypergamic ladies out there... if you don't check that privilege, a significant number of you will get checked by Mother Nature. Some of the rest of you will get dumped once you hit the expiration date your hero has set for you. Will you be one of those women? Maybe, or maybe not. How lucky do you feel?
Well this ain't actually about Nice Guys and their supposed sense of entitlement.
This is actually about women and their sense of entitlement. Women feel entitled to a man who is their protector, provider, and all around hero. And women are also quick to lecture and punish men for not catering to to this entitled mentality.
Sounds familiar to what you accuse Nice Guys of doing?
Women are raised on TV stories, fairy tales, and in their adult years, romance books, all of which convey the message that even the homely or frumpy beta woman is entitled to be rescued by the rugged hero, the handsome prince, the lovable rogue, or the rich guy.
This sense of entitlement then metastasizes within the female psyche. It is common knowledge that women typically expect their man to fulfill the roles they read about in the fairy tales, romance books and women's magazines. Women routinely test men to see if they can fit the alpha male standard. If a woman cannot find her alpha male, she falls back to the entitlement of last resort: she will not date a man who is not objectively tall. The only reason a woman forego all of this is after they come to believe they have no chance of meeting a man who fulfills those standards. In other words, women only abandon their sense of entitlement when they feel forced to settle.
Whenever society gets around to occasionally fretting over some men who won't date homely or fat women, a campaign of shaming ensues. Men are told, via fairy tale storytelling, that their pickiness is wrong and they will be punished for it. This shaming also occurs in the modern age. Women are not shamed like this by society. Hypergamic women are routinely glorified and encouraged.
Virtually all insults that women use against men, are some variant of insinuation that a man isn't capable of attracting, protecting, pleasing or providing for other women. In other words, women's insults against men comprise entirely of men failing to fulfill a woman's sense of entitlement.
With a few notable exceptions, practically every tale about love that you will ever read, caters to this sense of entitlement. All of the exceptions to this hard rule are not only rare, but also very recent.
Like the mythical evil Nice Guy, women are not willing to budge from their sense of entitlement. But they are actually worse than Nice Guys - women will cling even harder to their belief that men somehow owe them something, even into their 30s and 40s. At the same time women are whining about their biological clock running out, they are blaming their problems on men not satisfying their hypergamic standards. When a woman is trembling with fear that she'll never meet a husband to father and raise her kids, she never asks what she did wrong to get in this situation. She always blames the men for not being the hero she wanted to marry.
Self-entitled women are being called upon by a small number of men to check their privilege. But invariably, women respond with scathing hostility that borders on outright paranoia. Such is the irrational reaction of any privileged group whose sense of entitlement is openly challenged.
But while self-entitled women can beat back verbal challenges to their privilege, there is one consequence they cannot avoid. Even the worst of the so-called evil Nice Guys have all the time in the world to figure out how to get the woman of their dreams, or at least get comfortable with settling for less. Women? Not so much. Countless women now are chasing their entitlement fantasies even as said fantasies flee down the same road that leads to menopause. Many women, unable to check their privilege, will follow their entitlement fantasies to the bitter end, off the proverbial cliff, and in the end it will not be misogyny, Nice Guys or male self-entitlement that destroys these women and removes them from the gene pool... but rather, Darwin and Mother Nature themselves.
Feminists may not care about having children, but all the other hypergamic ladies out there... if you don't check that privilege, a significant number of you will get checked by Mother Nature. Some of the rest of you will get dumped once you hit the expiration date your hero has set for you. Will you be one of those women? Maybe, or maybe not. How lucky do you feel?
