Female Smokers

[Wayne Extreme]

One thing that is hard to find for me on Literotica are female smoking stories. I could care how it goes, just as long as it's a female smoker with a male non-smoker. I know it sounds weird, but I like it.

 

[Alice_In_Chains]

Okay I'm not an advocate for smoking cigerettes. So how about making it "taboo" and have the woman smoking a joint?

 

[MissTaken]

Could you be a bit more specific about the turn on?

That would help the authors figure out which direction to go in.

 

[Chicklet]

okay, I won't write it, but I understand the attraction.

It's a woman doing something with her mouth - everybody likes that <wink>

It's so overdone where the man takes out a cigarette and cooly lights up, taking in a deep breath. Sort of puts him in the dominant position, I can't explain it, but I understand.

Wayne here loves the Fem/dom stories, so I can see why he would like a story where the female is in the position that you usually see the man in; she's smoking casually around the man who probably doesn't like the smoke so much...but he's putting up with it because he likes her and wants her to like him.

am i close?

Chicklet

 

[Wayne Extreme]

As always my dear Chicklet, you hit the nail on the head.

 

[Chicklet]

I'm going to take the upper hand and answer Alice's question....

No, I don't think that a joint would be the same...

Chicklet

xo wayne

 

[Wayne Extreme]

You're right Chicklet, a joint wouldn't be the same.

 

[Alice_In_Chains]

I'm going to take the upper hand and answer Alice's question....

No, I don't think that a joint would be the same...

Chicklet

xo wayne

Ah! I probably don't understand the smoking fetish. I was just looking through the point of view of after the fact.

 

[NASCARaddicted]

my opinion is:

don't just look at cigarettes. What about big cigars ?

I know, nowadays many women, especially celebs like Madonna and Sharon Stone (not sure about this 2) smoke cigars, and I think it looks really erotic and lady-like ...

Not exactly the same, but: Basically I am a non-smoker, but I love to smoke pipe (you don't inhale the smoke of a pipe and usually you don't get addicted that's why I wrote I am a non-smoker)

So a woman could use the pipe (of course when it's not lit) to masturbate ....

 

[deliciously_naughty]

my opinion is:

don't just look at cigarettes. What about big cigars ?

I've gotten laid b/c of the way I smoke a cigar. However I don't smoke on a regular basis.

 

[sirhugs]

I've gotten laid b/c of the way I smoke a cigar. However I don't smoke on a regular basis.

I doubt it requires a cigar for you to get laid.

I agree ciogars have lots of sexual potebcy- from Freud to Monica- they symbolize masculinity, so a woman with a cigar appears assertive, dare I say, dominant?

 

[deliciously_naughty]

I doubt it requires a cigar for you to get laid.

I agree ciogars have lots of sexual potebcy- from Freud to Monica- they symbolize masculinity, so a woman with a cigar appears assertive, dare I say, dominant?

I think that's it, or also that men see you smoking a cigar and immediately start thinking about your sucking them

 

[sirhugs]

I think that's it, or also that men see you smoking a cigar and immediately start thinking about your sucking them

the cigar being a penis symbol, of course. A Freudian might think women smoking are displaying penis envy. Does that mean a guy who accordingly wants her to suck him is a repressed homosexual? Maybe the twist is that she pulls a switch. He approachs her for a bj. She says go in the men's room, stall 3 has a " glory hole". But then she sends her gay pal in to suck him instead.

 

[NASCARaddicted]

Freudian might think women smoking are displaying penis envy. Does that mean a guy who accordingly wants her to suck him is a repressed homosexual?

wow, that is twisted. But why should a man be a repressed homosexual when he enjoys to watch how a woman sucks on a cigar ? I mean, he doesn't know anything about a possible penis envy from the woman ...


Another thing with cigar smoking women:

Cigars are usually a sign of the upper class. A big company boss smokes cigar, a city chief smokes cigar. They are a sign of dominance. So maybe a woman with a cigar is like "a strong independent woman"

I just searched the web and saw some interesting photos (mainly with cigarettes).
A woman can also play with cigarettes. Imagine, you see a woman with red lips, slowly but seductively smoking a cigarette ...

And I just saw some photos where girls have cigarettes in their pussies (a smoking pussy ?) and one even had one in the butthole ...

 

[Chicklet]

Wayne, I'll try to include this factor in my next fem/dom story for ya, k? = )

Chicklet

 

[Chicklet]

Flash Fiction

Wayne, I wrote a Flash Fiction story for you (100 words)

She glances casually through the corner of her eyes. Shivers tingle down my spine. If only she would look my way again

Slipping a cigarrette out of her purse, she puts it between her lips. Those lovely lips I yearn to feel up close.

"Got a lighter?" I ask my friend. He hands me one. Eagerly I rush to help her out.

"May I?" I ask, presenting the meager flame.

Is that interest in her eyes? She leans towards my hand, so close I can feel her breath.

"It's 'may I, Ma'am,'" she corrects me. "Follow me, boy." She rises and leaves the bar.

She needs not ask twice.

 

[Wayne Extreme]

Not Bad Chicklet. Not to be rude but I don't see how a simple discussion goes into homosexual type stuff.

 

[Chicklet]

shrug

no idea

but i won't write it that way

Chicklet

 

[deliciously_naughty]

Not Bad Chicklet. Not to be rude but I don't see how a simple discussion goes into homosexual type stuff.

simple...involve freud and homosexuality immediately becomes part of the conversation

btw, hugs...gotta love your twisted logic

 

[Chicklet]

off topic

wayne did you ever read my soft femdom story?

 

[Wayne Extreme]

No Chicklet. I'm sorry, could you post a link for it?

 

[Chicklet]

No sweat

Rewarding Wesley

 

[Mick-Carlo]

As per Wayne Extreme's original request:

Here are a couple of stories I've penned, Wayne. I hope they satisfy you on one level of your fantasy or another. Of course, I understand that everyone's fantasies and sexual appetites are personally felt conceptions, and are subjective. They are as unique, and as valid, as the person who experiences them. But again, I can only hope that the literal depictions in my following yarns touch on some part of your own musings.

(PS- I too suffer from the same "affliction." Women who smoke turn me on, as well!)


Aunt Helen Burning - In Summer's Cauldron

Hot Smoke and Sassafras


Yours,
Mick

 

[Mick-Carlo]

Why Smoking?

Hi again Chicklet (and others).

With all due respect to you and your earlier statement, Chicklet (because I certainly mean no disrespect)...

Understanding the smoking fetish attraction goes a little beyond reasoning that it's a turn on just because "It's a woman doing something with her mouth," even though that statement is essentially true...

...Mmmm! And just the thought gives me wood...*Ahem* ...sorry. Where was I?

Humor me while I pontificate for bit here and force my observation upon you.

Here is a response I wrote a long time ago in another forum...


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I recently received a letter in my email from a despondent and angry person. He questioned me on why I find this "filthy and stupid habit" (as he put it) so stimulating. He said "I was nuts." Where I didn't disagree with him about my sanity, I did pose the question "What is normal?" and asked him to explain sanity to me. I have yet to get a response...I guess he's still formulating his answer.

I did however send this to him. It's a response and a post I wrote quite some time ago to a group no longer in existence on the net, in which I tried to explain this strange attraction I have...


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For those of you who can't understand this "fetish" (or “affliction,” if you will) that I share with many, let me try to elucidate. It really isn’t that hard to fathom, once you consider the implications which the act itself might suggest to the suggestible observer…especially those of us who happen to be the male of the species, observing the female.

That’s actually a good place to start. And that is, to equate it with the mating rituals practiced, and commonly shared on this planet, between the opposites sexes of many of the life forms here. Now, I don’t mean to be silly and imply that some animals smoke to attract mates. No. But the common practice of using objects, and in some cases, the use of objects combined with motion through intricate patterns of body language, are choreographed into many a species’ sexual mating ritual. Rituals performed with the intent to spur interest, and otherwise excite members of the opposite sex. Granted, the act of smoking is deeply routed in psychological aspects of the human experience, but let’s leave the obvious Freudian implications out for a moment.

If you look at it objectively, the cigarette (a phallic object, if I may point out – Oops! So much for leaving Freud out momentarily! LOL) can be, and has been used as an extension or exemplifying prop in the complex human mating ritual. Its utilization as a “step in the dance,” is no different being implemented as a teasing, alluring element in the mating game than the use of a car, clothes, perfume and so on. “Ah,” but you say, “Cigarettes can kill!” Well, that danger and risk factor comes into play here as well. Its reality is also part of the mystique, and lends to its “sexiness.” In the case of a car; every time you get behind the wheel and put the key in the ignition, you immediately begin the risk to your own life, AND you greatly endanger the people around you (passengers, pedestrians, and other drivers)…Not to mention the toxins produced by the burning of fossil fuels by which you are polluting the air via your exhaust pipe! Reminiscent of the smoking and the second-hand smoke issue itself, is it not? We won’t see them banning cars and oil any time soon, though! But that’s another argument.

So, what motivates us when picking out the “right” car and color, other than its pure functionality? …I’ll answer that! We are motivated deep down inside, by what we think its effect will be on members of the opposite “camp!” Its attractiveness, or sexiness becomes a factor. How many times have we heard these mere transportation devices, these objects, being referred to as “sexy?”... Mere objects that can kill, I might add! But nonetheless, they are used as vehicles (pardon the pun) to initiate contact, within the complex dance steps of the modern human mating ritual.

Now, as for the Freudian aspect; this explanation can get into much detail, and become very lengthy. Essentially, Freud describes the gratification of the “oral fixation,” a term he coined to describe the condition, which causes certain people to always require stimulation orally. Smoking is just one activity that temporarily satisfies that “urge.” Of course, I’m over-simplifying the explanation, but it will have to do for now.

Besides that, the act of smoking itself carries with it much, in terms of its incorporation into the body language utilized when two people are mutually attracted to one another. From a heterosexual man’s point of view (especially a man, who is susceptible) a woman smoking, and how she is smoking, can communicate a lot of sexual signals. I'm sure the reasons are the same for those members of alternative life styles. The cigarette itself, is a phallic object (along with just about everything else humankind has invented), and can be used suggestively.

For me, everything about the observation of this seemingly simple act can be incredibly simulating at times! I don’t know, call me crazy…but the sight of a woman holding the cigarette gently in her fingers, then placing the filter between her lips to take a drag (her lips pursed around the tip in a sensuous kiss…her cheeks hollowing), then her lips pursing again to exhale a perfect cone of smoke into the air, is SO SEXY and can sometimes drive me up the proverbial wall!

But aside from my personal slant on this, another important point must be made here; development of the present day's negative social views upon smoking have put a new twist in the mix, so to speak. Smoking has become taboo. And therefore in the minds of many, it has taken on an element of eroticism because of the prevailing anti-smoking attitude and the censorship involved. (Put a "no fishing" sign up at a pond, and chances are good that the banks will soon be filled with naughty fishermen.)

…okay… I’ll stop. But you get my point, I hope? There is validity to this attraction. Strange? I admit. But, after all; we are only human…complex creatures. There’s a lot to explaining what makes us tick…

Yours,
Mick

PS- Besides an artist, I am an erotic storywriter. Look to see a story posted here, which I penned, that will explain the history of my attraction to women who indulge. “Bye” for now!

Written by M. Carlo (Sept. 9, 1995)

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Members of Lit...

Thanks for taking the time to read this post from the past.

Regards,

Mick Carlo

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[Chicklet]

(bein' generous with the thumbs tonight)

That is a nice explaination. Thank you for sharing, and for reviving this thread.

Chicklet