Female Orgasm

[Guest]

Hi all, my GF and I have become pretty serious as of late, and I know that us guys can orgasm, and youll know it, but thinking about it I have never really seen nor known abnout female orgasms.


I mean, is it like a guy's, or does it take a lot longer?


Thanks all

 

[Bindii]

A womens can take longer than a women to achieve orgasm, we tend to need more steady stimulation than men and for longer periods of time.

 

[Sunday Comes]

female orgasms (i'm told) tend to be harder to come by, but perhaps more rewarding.

we get lucky in that it's easy. they get lucky in that it lasts more than a second and a half (and they don't often have to clean up after!).

if you're really intent on giving your gf an orgasm, i would say learn the most you can about oral sex, hopefully from a female author, and be prepared to be patient. do not rush it, or the girl will feel too uptight to come. most often the key is to keep a steady rhythm. if you have her aroused and stop, you may have to start all over again. just be patient, and make sure she is relaxed, and it's bound to happen.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

female orgasms (i'm told) tend to be harder to come by, but perhaps more rewarding.

we get lucky in that it's easy. they get lucky in that it lasts more than a second and a half (and they don't often have to clean up after!).

if you're really intent on giving your gf an orgasm, i would say learn the most you can about oral sex, hopefully from a female author, and be prepared to be patient. do not rush it, or the girl will feel too uptight to come. most often the key is to keep a steady rhythm. if you have her aroused and stop, you may have to start all over again. just be patient, and make sure she is relaxed, and it's bound to happen.

Dude are you WAY off!
1) Women have MORE orgasms than men, for the most part. Some women can cum at the drop of a hat, others take some more stimulation.. whatever you do, just listen to her, and work her towards an orgasm. DO NOT STOP BEFORE SHE CUMS (unless you're teasing her, and she knows it). I've had lovers do this, and have actually evicted one from the bed cus he did it more than once.

2) Just cus most women don't shoot all over the goddamned place, doesn't mean we don't have to clean up. We get messy. But yes, we are lucky, cus it does last longer.. and cus we can do it multiple times.

I agree with the last bit. But always remember that women have a LOT of erogenous (sp?) zones.. and the brain is the biggest one. Seriously though.. we're not just a pussy and tits. There's a lot more to us than that. We're skin, ears, eyes, noses, lips, sides, stomachs, cheeks, fingertips, toes, neck, tongue, ass... and brain. Appeal to all of it, not just one.

 

[Sunday Comes]

well, if women have more orgasms than men, it must certainly be because of the ease with which women can continue, whereas many men are done once they're done.

but you bring up a point that i definitely should've made. every woman is different! i'm almost ashamed i didn't say that. my gf usually orgasms before me. but then again, it's mostly because of my attempts to control. i could finish upon entrance if i wanted to. if you can get your girl to relax and tell you what feels good to her, you can please her with great ease.

as far as cleaning up goes, i was just thinking about how my gf says she used to masturbate in the back of the car on family trips and stuff. as a guy, i WISH i could do it that discretely. then again, it seems i shoot a bit more than most guys.

and again, i agree that the brain is the biggest erogenous zone. stimulate that, and you've got a smooth road ahead of you.

(i wouldn't say i was WAY off >8[ )

(edited to ad "n't" to the most recent "would")

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Dude are you WAY off!
1) Women have MORE orgasms than men, for the most part. Some women can cum at the drop of a hat, others take some more stimulation.. whatever you do, just listen to her, and work her towards an orgasm. DO NOT STOP BEFORE SHE CUMS (unless you're teasing her, and she knows it). I've had lovers do this, and have actually evicted one from the bed cus he did it more than once.


I agree with the last bit. But always remember that women have a LOT of erogenous (sp?) zones.. and the brain is the biggest one. Seriously though.. we're not just a pussy and tits. There's a lot more to us than that. We're skin, ears, eyes, noses, lips, sides, stomachs, cheeks, fingertips, toes, neck, tongue, ass... and brain. Appeal to all of it, not just one.

>>>applauds loudly from the back row!<<<
Good one vixenshe! If I may add to your eloquent statement?
Not only is a woman all of that, but wants to feel as if she is the only one you desire. Just as you want to feel her passion. When two people merge as one in the act of love, the joys shared are much deeper than just the physical gradification of fucking. Not to say that feeling your honey's cock diving into you isn't sensual (YES!!) But it's more than that. You are sharing a part of you that you share with no one else. It becomes not only a physical sensation, but a mental senation too. Making it soooo much easier to have multable orgasms. Even for men.

All this is moot if you are only looking for a fuck and really don't give a rat's behind about her. Only you know that. But I hope that you are serious enough to explore the deeper side of sex. Believe me, there's nothing like it!

's to MY-Sir!

 

[ronde]

Listen to these ladies

Unregistered, do as these ladies say, and you will have the most wonderful experience of your life. There is nothing so fulfilling as seeing, hearing and feeling the woman you love experience total release, and knowing that it was your doing. The second and third are even better, so do what she likes, and stay with her until she asks you to stop.

 

[Guest]

will do,


heh I have just never been here, and posted before thats why im still unregistered, thinking about joining this great organization


Thanks all for the posts, will definitly keep it in mind and move on with my new-found knowledge

 

[Guest]

I have 2 different types of orgasms. A clitoral orgasm is easy for my husband to detect, and requires direct clitoral stimuation. (I can do this for myself via masturbation). However, I also have vaginal orgasms which require good penetration. I must have him for this but He never seens to feel any more that just a tighting with these. They are not so "explosive" but are wonderful just the same. I used to be able to "squirt" with these, but I am afraid that the dryness that comes with menopause and stolen that ability from me.