female orgasm

[john19741]

give my wife an orgasm through sex. She orgasms when i finger her or throug oral sex but has only has one orgasm through sex alone. I knopw all women are different but a few tips maybe

 

[Norma_Stits]

give my wife an orgasm through sex. She orgasms when i finger her or through oral sex but has only has one orgasm through sex alone. I know all women are different but a few tips maybe

seems you got all the bases covered, was there a question?

 

[satindesire]

give my wife an orgasm through sex. She orgasms when i finger her or throug oral sex but has only has one orgasm through sex alone. I knopw all women are different but a few tips maybe

Most women cannot reach orgasm via vaginal penetration because MOST women (not ALL) need direct clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. The vagina does not have many sexual nerve endings and as a matter of fact...most vaginal surgeries can be done with little to no anesthesia due to the fact that it's bereft of nerves compared to the rest of the vulva!

Unless she or yourself is stimulating her clitoris during vaginal intercourse (which is what many MANY couples do, it's very common) she probably won't have an orgasm. Most couples use their hands or a small vibrator.

 

[smudger1]

So my girl can reach her climax in a number of ways but the method will most likely depend on the type and amount of "warming up" I've done.... and by that I'm not talking about physical.... you'll be amazed how tense you can get someone just by talk and innuendo.

She can come with just attention to her breasts (need to be hot and horney)
Penetration - sometimes - but again needs to be hot and bothered. Although if she's already come then this type of orgasm seems to then become free flow. For example if I've spent plenty of time with a back rub, licked my way around her body, paid good attention to the neck, tits, belly, thighs and her clit then if I slowly fuck her she'll often just keep hitting her peak - It's totally amazing when it happens and makes me feel like I'm some kind of stud ha ha
Clit stimulation either with my tongue, fingers or with my fingers while I'm inside her is pretty much a cert.

Bottom line seems to be (in my limited experience anyway) go slow, stimulate the body and the mind, get her into a relaxed state of body and mind, let the tension build slowly and then pop away they go.
Best training I ever got from a girlfriend was slow, slow, slow - there is no rush.... enjoy it all. It's not about the destination (ironically that methodology seems to mean the destination is always reached!!!!!)

 

[infinity706]

So my girl can reach her climax in a number of ways but the method will most likely depend on the type and amount of "warming up" I've done.... and by that I'm not talking about physical.... you'll be amazed how tense you can get someone just by talk and innuendo.

She can come with just attention to her breasts (need to be hot and horney)
Penetration - sometimes - but again needs to be hot and bothered. Although if she's already come then this type of orgasm seems to then become free flow. For example if I've spent plenty of time with a back rub, licked my way around her body, paid good attention to the neck, tits, belly, thighs and her clit then if I slowly fuck her she'll often just keep hitting her peak - It's totally amazing when it happens and makes me feel like I'm some kind of stud ha ha
Clit stimulation either with my tongue, fingers or with my fingers while I'm inside her is pretty much a cert.

Bottom line seems to be (in my limited experience anyway) go slow, stimulate the body and the mind, get her into a relaxed state of body and mind, let the tension build slowly and then pop away they go.
Best training I ever got from a girlfriend was slow, slow, slow - there is no rush.... enjoy it all. It's not about the destination (ironically that methodology seems to mean the destination is always reached!!!!!)

I'd say that's pretty good technique in my limited experience, as well.

 

[JTobia]

You could try doggy-style, which stimulates the clit with pressure.

Reverse cowgirl may also do it. Also, grab her tits with a firm passionate grip.

Pressure busts pipes! Sensual pressure should do the trick here.

 

[RockiesFan74]

If you don't want to buy an actual vibrator (don't know why you wouldn't though) or if you don't have one handy when you start fucking just play with her clit while you fuck her. She'll love it and if you do it right will cum for you.

 

[Firebrain]

I orgasm like this if I sit in his lap. Enough foreplay first, and my clit rubs nicely against the base of his cock. I blacked out like this once, actually. Great for me...slightly terrifying for him

 

[JTobia]

I orgasm like this if I sit in his lap.

I've made a girl orgasm from tribbing on my right leg. It was so fucking awesome seeing her masturbate on me. I love watching women orgasm.

I came across the sybian device a while ago and i'd love to find a device of some so that makes my dick vibrate when in here. I know a washing machine does this, but i was thinking of something a lot smaller... like a wire or something that i can attach to my penis.

The thought of a chick on top of me whilst she orgasms like the sybian will make her is sooooo frigging awesome!

 

[ucleebo]

So my girl can reach her climax in a number of ways but the method will most likely depend on the type and amount of "warming up" I've done.... and by that I'm not talking about physical.... you'll be amazed how tense you can get someone just by talk and innuendo.

She can come with just attention to her breasts (need to be hot and horney)
Penetration - sometimes - but again needs to be hot and bothered. Although if she's already come then this type of orgasm seems to then become free flow. For example if I've spent plenty of time with a back rub, licked my way around her body, paid good attention to the neck, tits, belly, thighs and her clit then if I slowly fuck her she'll often just keep hitting her peak - It's totally amazing when it happens and makes me feel like I'm some kind of stud ha ha
Clit stimulation either with my tongue, fingers or with my fingers while I'm inside her is pretty much a cert.

Bottom line seems to be (in my limited experience anyway) go slow, stimulate the body and the mind, get her into a relaxed state of body and mind, let the tension build slowly and then pop away they go.
Best training I ever got from a girlfriend was slow, slow, slow - there is no rush.... enjoy it all. It's not about the destination (ironically that methodology seems to mean the destination is always reached!!!!!)

Smudger1 definitely has the right idea. But all women are different, and different things stimulate them. Whatever works for you and your partner can only be discovered by experiment and patience and practice. But whatever it takes, it's definitely worth it. There is nothing more awesome, and I have no greater pleasure, than being the reason my woman cums.