Female Orgasm?

[NippleMuncher]

I've noticed in my own experience that the lovers I've had, that were the most concerned about my pleasure, were also concerned the most about my welfare...both physical and emotional.

From the male perspective, I would agree. Your comments ring true for my thoughts and emotions on the topic as well. "Sex" is not enough, I must have an emotional connection with my partner, and with that is the desire to take care of her needs - physical, emotional, and financial - alike.

To quote sage advice, "If the women folk don't find ya handsome, they should at least find ya handy!" (Red Green )

 

[satindesire]

From the male perspective, I would agree. Your comments ring true for my thoughts and emotions on the topic as well. "Sex" is not enough, I must have an emotional connection with my partner, and with that is the desire to take care of her needs - physical, emotional, and financial - alike.

To quote sage advice, "If the women folk don't find ya handsome, they should at least find ya handy!" (Red Green )

The men that -I- find attractive are very in tune with their 'primal' selves. Most of them do things for work and hobbies that are very stereotypically 'masculine', most of them have very aggressive, Dominant personalities, most of them love food, love sex, love competition, love the energy rush of doing something physically challenging. I've noticed that these kind of men are usually also very driven to provide financially for their families, either wanting their partners to be 'stay at home moms' or 'kept women' in the case of no children.

I think it's important for these kind of men to embrace their masculinity. Denying themselves makes for very unhealthy individuals with many emotional problems. It's good that you KNOW yourself, know your drives, and accept them!