Female orgasm creme?!?!

[Amylicious]

Is this the real deal?

Is there a creme that helps induce orgasm for females?

I have never been able to orgasm with a guy. When I use my vibrator on my clit I can orgasm, but I would LOVE to orgasm with a man because I think that would be so much more intense!

Help!

Amy

 

[Timeus]

AF:
What is with hotmail? Have you tried lower case timeus? = timeus@hotmail.com? I'm glad I checked here; wasn't going to...

Well, you say a lot of right stuff.
I actually agree pretty much with your assessment of the 'competition' feeling of the book. It really isn't what I'm getting after. I was dumb. I know that it's a blowover from my profession. I have got to deal with that.

I also like pretty much your (i) and (ii). For a personal example, go to How to...A question or 3 about oral...page 8, several posts beginning "Flashback". (I use Random Variable for my less serious stuff, but this story is true--not Emerald of course, whom I don't know, but a woman that even now I occasionally hear from).

You have helped me think about what I really want to do. I want to explore that territory which is the relationship between sex and sex technique and making love blossom--and making it sustained--and making it help deepen both partner's satisfaction in physical pleasure, the relationship and their being-in-the-world.

Gotta get away from: sex & technique here------relationship over there............part of what you're saying, I think. Also in an earlier email something to the effect that you've come to understand that sometimes sex is a good entree into getting to know someone, rather than trying to have relationship first, then "add" sex. This is not a pot pie we are cooking!

I would like women to be aware more of is the meaning-tones of sexual activities, from a man's point of view, how and when to use them as part of the unfolding of the relationship. An example is fellatio. How a woman does it and what she chooses to do is not just a matter of technique---but each choice and movement can contain very deep meanings for men (some, anyway). What she says, how she teases, what she does with her hands and mouth--all can connect to very primal and deep parts of a man--far more than many people suspect (I think).


That's not to say there isn't a time for a playful, fun, silly, slurpy, sneaking-under-the-tablecloth blow-job, or a recreational, entertaining sex or just plain straightforward fucking! None of this should be tooo serious!

In fact, I'll bet your lover is playing "the mystery game" to get you all keyed up for the weekend! By the way, if it's an *experiment* who or what is going to be the *control*? Being teased drives most men absolutely bonkers--use in small doses (but use!)

T.
PS--Sure, what would you like to know about my wife?

 

[Timeus]

Posted to thread in error

Above post got posted in error. My apologies.

---And I do hope there is a cream out there that works. I see it advertised on MSN Women Central, but could be a scam.
--The thread on viagra has some posts suggesting that a half viagra pill can help make orgasms happen, be more intense for some women.

That's about the depth of my ignorance,
T.

 

[weathered2]

Mrs. weathered, excuse me, "goddess", swears by Vibrafem gel. Used to get a comparable product that was about 5 times as expensive with just the same ingredients. Found the Vibrafem at a hippy-type organic food/vitamin/health store. It's the L-Arginine/ menthol/ etc. product applied directly to the clitoral area. If you can't find it at stores, the container reads:

Dynamic Life, Inc.
Largo, FL 33773
1-800-BURN FAT
www.dynamiclifeinc.com

Good luck, whatever you try.

(edit-reading posts below, I remember now the Via Creme is the more expensive one we started with. The Vibrafem we use now has same ingredients listed and feels/ seems to have at least equal strength, at much lower cost.)

 

[Pdxmwm]

Female Orgasm Creme

My girl friend and I have tried two different ones, Via Crème and Via Glide, both with great success. Via crème is now sold through independent distributors, and you can find several sources via a Goggle search. It’s packaged in small “pillows”, at about $12 each. A “pillow” is good for a couple of applications, but the package doesn’t reseal. Via Glide is much less expensive, and works equally well (I think it works a bit better). It’s packaged in a 1 or 2 ounce tube, for $20, and lasts about a month. Both products use a mild concentration of menthol to provide a warming feeling; Via Glide also includes a topical form of Viagra to increase blood flow. Both products are a colorless gel, and are usually applied directly to the clitoris. I have also tried first applying the gel to my penis, and then transferring it to her clitoris through direct contact. When I do this, the warming effect quickly drives me to orgasm; I have no control.

 

[Impetus]

I still believe that the best orgasm cream is saliva, applied liberally, and directly from the source.

Hilarious, gut-bustingly funny jokes aside D). These Via-thingies sound neat-o. And because you didn't mention anything about your penis falling off or any nasty female issues, I'll assume it's good, safe stuff. Sounds interesting, though, I'll have to chalk that up on a list of things to try.

-I

 

[MR.GGG]

YECHH!

OK, I agree that saliva is THE biggest aphrodisiac solution known to women however if - IF - you can combine that with a cream that induces an increase in vaso congestion then that is a GOOD thing HOWEVER what happens if you combine the two? Has anybody TASTED the cream? Does it taste at all or does it remind you of a N.J. toxic waste dump? Was there any effect on your tongue or lips? There is a HUGE artery at the base of your tongue. If this cream transfers to that and the effect is like digitalis on the heart (which is only about 6 inches away) then this could be a BAD thing. Most girls I know would find a guy going down on them and having a major heart attack in the process, a BAD thing. Is there any warning on the container? If it says TOPICAL APPLICATION ONLY then I would take that as a warning not to EAT any. No?

Also has anybody experimented with the VIA-goop and the Gspot? Does it have any effect on that or is it just for the clit? I imagine if it is affecting the entire area it would increase blood flow to the G & A areas too.

Clinical trials NEED to be done. Volunteers???

 

[Pdxmwm]

Viacreme (Viaglide) taste

The creme has a definite but not unpleasant taste. I use it fairly early during our "play time", not to immediately take her to orgasm, but more as a “tease”. It seems to be very pleasurable for her to feel the warming and swelling of her clitreous.

I’m sure some of the crème remains on my fingers when I’m massaging her G Spot; however, it appears to have little effect there. She responds more to the massage, and pressure from my fingers or penis.

By the time my tongue is on her citreous, the crème has been diluted, but it’s already done its job.

I travel a lot in my job, and since we can’t be together as often as we would like, I leave a tube behind for her. Sometimes she’ll place a dab on herself before going to sleep at night, or while we’re talking on the phone. It leads to some hot phone calls and very wet dreams.

 

[rexfelis]

Re: YECHH!

OK, I agree that saliva is THE biggest aphrodisiac solution known to women however if - IF - you can combine that with a cream that induces an increase in vaso congestion then that is a GOOD thing HOWEVER what happens if you combine the two? Has anybody TASTED the cream? Does it taste at all or does it remind you of a N.J. toxic waste dump? Was there any effect on your tongue or lips? There is a HUGE artery at the base of your tongue. If this cream transfers to that and the effect is like digitalis on the heart (which is only about 6 inches away) then this could be a BAD thing. Most girls I know would find a guy going down on them and having a major heart attack in the process, a BAD thing. Is there any warning on the container? If it says TOPICAL APPLICATION ONLY then I would take that as a warning not to EAT any. No?

Also has anybody experimented with the VIA-goop and the Gspot? Does it have any effect on that or is it just for the clit? I imagine if it is affecting the entire area it would increase blood flow to the G & A areas too.

Clinical trials NEED to be done. Volunteers???

What you said.

 

[weathered2]

Re: YECHH!

OK, I agree that saliva is THE biggest aphrodisiac solution known to women however if - IF - you can combine that with a cream that induces an increase in vaso congestion then that is a GOOD thing HOWEVER what happens if you combine the two? Has anybody TASTED the cream? Does it taste at all or does it remind you of a N.J. toxic waste dump? Was there any effect on your tongue or lips? There is a HUGE artery at the base of your tongue. If this cream transfers to that and the effect is like digitalis on the heart (which is only about 6 inches away) then this could be a BAD thing. Most girls I know would find a guy going down on them and having a major heart attack in the process, a BAD thing. Is there any warning on the container? If it says TOPICAL APPLICATION ONLY then I would take that as a warning not to EAT any. No?

Also has anybody experimented with the VIA-goop and the Gspot? Does it have any effect on that or is it just for the clit? I imagine if it is affecting the entire area it would increase blood flow to the G & A areas too.

Clinical trials NEED to be done. Volunteers???

Yes, I have tasted it, as frequently as possible. Active ingredients in the Vibrafem are L-Arginine and menthol. I take supplements that have L-Arginine in them anyway and the amount of menthol you get is probably less that what one cough drop contains. No apparent down side (double entendre?) so far. We'll keep up the clinical trials though, you need a LOT of data for that sort of thing.

 

[Miguelito Breathstealer]

I am . . . intrigued.

My wife is probably one of the most readily orgasmic people on the planet. When we are together, she often loses count. I do not know if it is a testimony to my skill or just her being easy. But I am still, as always determined to find new ways to take her higher.

Thankyou all for this new peice of information.
(evil grin)

 

[Pdxmwm]

You are

a lucky man. Cherish that lady, and enjoy yourself.

 

[MR.GGG]

YUMM

Yo , Breathstealer...not that it sounds like she NEEDS it but have you tried the
technique I posted on ""TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK" ?

Dontcha just HATE a woman who can cum 40 times in an evening?
I've ALWAYS been jealous of that!

You guys who've gone down when your woman was liberally goobered with ViaCream (or the other make) and didn't have your tongue swell up or have a massive MI ... I guess that's proof that it probably ain't fatal but I still plan on doing lots more clinical trials.

 

[The Gimp]

While focusing on finding the best cream avalible it sounds to me like you're ignoring a much more important factor which is technique. If you're not having an orgasm then wouldn't it be wise to work on improving the sex?

 

[Magnolia]

Wondering......

I have heard all about altoids and things like that... wondering if things like that would not have a same basic effect..... Magnolia

 

[Miguelito Breathstealer]

Honestly, Mr. GGG, I think I have unwittingly been using that method of yours for the last five years. I just didn't know the science behind it. It might sound odd, but I sort of have a sixth sense regarding other peoples pleasure/pain. I know what they like because I can "feel" it as though their body were an extension of mine. I just do what makes me feel good.

About the altoids, from my experience guys love it, gals hate it. Try it though. I'd be glad to know that it works for somebody.

 

[pimpim]

from what i've heard 75% of the female population has difficulty having a vaginal orgasm. direct stmulation on the clitoris with fingers and/or tongue. no problem. but whilst having sex. it's a whole different story.

ofcourse. the argument: Just try harder. is indeed one that must be enforced here

 

[weathered2]

While focusing on finding the best cream avalible it sounds to me like you're ignoring a much more important factor which is technique. If you're not having an orgasm then wouldn't it be wise to work on improving the sex?

We do well after years of practice, but I look at it more in interest of variety. Any pizza is good, but think what you'd be missing if you had only ever tried one kind.

 

[solid_]

Is this the real deal?

Is there a creme that helps induce orgasm for females?

I have never been able to orgasm with a guy. When I use my vibrator on my clit I can orgasm, but I would LOVE to orgasm with a man because I think that would be so much more intense!

Help!

Amy

You just aint found the right men yet hun i suspect you just came across wam bam thank you types so far .You will find the right guy dont give up hope. Also it difficult for a lady to orgasm with penetration alone one tip for u to try is to get the guy to thrust in to you at a steeper angle so his shaft rubs your clit as he thrusts in and out of you.

 

[Magnolia]

hmmmmmmmm

new ideas are great.... and you never know when it will be just the thing to send you over the edge....... Magnolia