Female Ejaculation

[ladyadonia30]

This idea 'came' to me as I read 'Milking a man's cock.'

I have watched porn where ladies ejaculate, which looks a lot like urinating. I thought it was fantastic and wanted to know how I could do it. I found websites with instructions and tried but failed. After a few months of reading, and finding other sites with instructions, I gave it another go and was able to achieve this goal. It wasn't as intense as it seems on the shows I watched but, it was a bit more intense than a regular orgasm. I find that it is still a little difficult because natural instinct is to tense up when cumming, for me anyway..and so it cuts the flow down quite a bit.
Any ladies on here experienced with ejaculation?
Any men been with women that do this?

 

[Retired Cowboy]

well, we've definitely got the milking a man's cock down pat and is now a regular play in our sexlife. we also have seen the female ejaculation on various films and have been tryin also. at this time, she hasnt been able to come like the films, but has been able to get even wetter than normal, enough that when standing, her juices flow down her legs.....gawd i love that. was there something in particular you have done to make yourself ejaculate?

we have a mutual friend that is what i guess is called a 'waterfall', in that she literally gushes about 3-4 feet from her pussy. she has done a few exhibitions for us on particularly strung out evenings when all of us were horny and she has had the hardest time describing how she does it. apparently she squirts with every orgasm, just the harder the orgasm, the more the fluid. she has always done this so even though she has tried a number of things with my wife, my wife still hasnt had a full ejaculation. oh well.....practice practice practice .... and lovin it!

 

[ladyadonia30]

I don't gush like the movies either. I'd like to. Applying constant pressure onto the G-spot helps...if you want to assist, place your finger in her, find the G-spot..and use the 'come hither' finger motion. While doing so, apply pressure and stimulate her clit. I can't do it without both forms of stimuli...unless there is rough play involved with dildo being shoved in vigorously hitting my G-spot!
It is important for her to not tense up...or fight the urge to urinate. It feels like you have to pee...but one has a hard time voiding when all things are engorged.

 

[Retired Cowboy]

we've seen everything on the movies from gushing to a steady flow or a pulsing flow during orgasm. i think its the tensing up thats the problem then, she swears that she doesnt resist the urge to urinate but that the urge doesnt get that strong. we have tried various stimuli, including the 'come hither' as thats what we've always read about. she also swears that her orgasms are stronger during intercourse than clitoral stimulation alone or both. we would both love to see her cum, but ya cant ignore the fun of trying every chance we get

ill try with a more steady pressure on her clit, but its hard to ignore the 'begging' for her to come usually......but im thinking at the moment that its the tensing thats the problem, she does find it near impossible to not tense. if you think of anything else or have found various other ways to improve your ejaculation, please let us know. we are eager to keep trying.

 

[Retired Cowboy]

ladyadonia30 ... still no real success on our end, but we keep happily tryin'. any further thoughts or tips to pass on? and how have you been cumming along with your ejaculating efforts?

 

[SweetErika]

Welcome, guys.

1) Porn's not real, and often those women are urinating, not ejaculating. Same goes for a number of the women who do it on command. Those who base their education and expectations on what they see on film will be sorely disappointed.

2) Look for the Try This and Report Back thread by Mr. G/Mr. GGG in the main How To area. It has extensive discussion on g-spot stimulation and squirting.

3) Check The Blank Manual sticky in How To for this topic and more.

4) Do and advanced search of titles for 'ejaculation' and 'squirt(ing)' and 'gushing' because there's tons of great info on techniques, experiences and resources in past threads. Google can also be helpful in looking for Lit threads.

5) THIS is an excellent site for solid information on female ejaculation.

Good luck with your exploration -- there's plenty of great info out there for the curious!

 

[curious476]

It can happen

I've been with two ladies who could ejaculate, I'm not sure either one knew what was happening. Both ladies ejaculated after prolonged cunnilingus. One only had a flow, I was sucking and suddenly there was a small flow of liquid from her, not urine cause Ive had several ladies urinate in my mouth, this was different and tasted different. The other lady actually squirted into my mouth from about 6 inches away. She loved doing it and really had a powerful orgasm when she did it. It tasted much the same as the first lady that did it with me except the second lady could do it only once and the first could ejaculate several times in a short time.
It's a very exciting thing for me.

 

[wild-thing]

Female Gushing

In the 90's I had a girlfriend who would occaisonally cum this way. It was quite surprising the first time she did it with me, after that I tried to get it to happen as often as possible. G-spot stimulation almost always did the trick for her. It was enormously erotic. She would gush enough liquid to soak a beach towel. We had to start using towels so the bed wouldn't get soaked. The liquid was clear and had a slight mint flavor to it, definitely not pee. I really miss having my face flooded by her.

 

[SashaV]

how i was able to ejaculate

I've only been able to ejaculate by having a vibrator on my clit while my husband was penetrating the back door. It was one of the most intense orgasms that I ever had.

 

[wild-thing]

Sasha, have you been able to do it more than once?

 

[SashaV]

more than once

Sasha, have you been able to do it more than once?

Quite a few times and only with anal penetration and clit stimulation. That's the frustrating part ... it hasn't happened without those two things together. The first time it happened, I flipped out. I had thought that I had urinated on our brand new Temperpedic matress! But, it didn't smell like urine or have the texture of urine. It's hard to explain ... but, it was slick and tasted pretty good (had to try it to know what it was for sure!).

 

[shell seeker2]

I found that I have had much success with clitoral stimulation (do you have a micro bullet? It gets me every time). I have been able to do it numerous times while masturbating. I've been practicing on my own so I can surprise my husband.

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

A few years ago, I had a g/f who was... um... I'd say "insatiable" was the right word. Anyway, I was going down on her one night while I rubbed her "G" spot and she squirted in my face. I admit I had no idea what that was about and my reaction was probubly the same as most guys. My reaction: "Bitch!! You Pissed On Me!!!"

I was fortunate because she cleaned me up then worked me for the longest time until I squirted too. GOD! It was wonderful. I couldn't even walk for an hour.

Now squirting is a regular thing with me. But it took time to learn what I needed to reach that place. Now I find it best with both oral and "G Spot" manipulation.
Actually, I love anal, but never squirt that way.

 

[SashaV]

massager

I found that I have had much success with clitoral stimulation (do you have a micro bullet? It gets me every time). I have been able to do it numerous times while masturbating. I've been practicing on my own so I can surprise my husband.

It's one of those hand-held back massagers. Not enough power in the regular vibrators to bring on a squirt.

 

[lilwetone]

Isnt it fun being a girl......

 

[Retired Cowboy]

lilwetone....no clue, but definitely fun in one

sasha...anal is a rarety with the wife, im a tad to thick for her, no matter the amount of lubrication and the heat of passion, i tend to rip her everytime. we are always interested in new things, this is one we are working on and milking has now become a regular activity <g>. we gather that she will be one who can not actually squirt or flow, but she definitely gets wet quick and thoroughly, and if i take her from behind, after a while her juices do run down my legs or drip off my balls, and its fun as hell to keep tryin. practice makes perfect and i shore aint perfect <big lacivious grin>