Female ejaculation...have you?

There are TWO distinct types of orgasmic contractions (maybe more) in women. The clitoral orgasm is a SUCK-IN series of contractions. The G-A Gasms on the other hand are PUSH OUT contractions. One is to assist in fertilization. The other to assist in giving birth.

PREGNANT WOMEN should AVOID G-SPOT orgasms. G-Spot orgasms produce copious amounts of OXYTOCIN which stimulates muscle contractions in the uterus. The muscle contractions themselves COULD initiate a premature delivery. There are two or three long discussions on this subject on my TRY THIS thread on LIT.

Most doctors will tell you that sex is perfectly OK during almost all your pregnancy (and it is unless you're high risk) however most of them are UNaware of the differences in the type of orgasms produced. Miscarriages and severely premature babies happen for completely UNknown reasons in about 70% of the cases so ... if you are pregnant PLEASE avoid the orgasms that produce the push out muscle contractions - specifically G and A Spot orgasms. IMHO it is just not worth the risk.

I'd like to see some evidence that specifies G-spot orgasms in particular should be avoided rather than rare circumstances whereby all orgasms, clitoral included are advised against.

Honestly, if I listen to your advise I would have to avoid sex altogether during pregnancy even if I wasn't at risk of miscarriage as my boyfriend's penis nearly always gives me G-spot orgasms without trying and I often squirt from breast and neck orgasms without my vagina having any direct contact.

I also think it is cruel to imply with your figures regarding unknown reasons for miscarriage that the mother enjoying what comes naturally is to blame.
 
OOOOhhh yeah! I can squirt.. From clitoral or penetration stimulation and OMG im turned on thinking about it.. It feels soooo good, I had issues with penetration and squirting for a while then my husband hit my o spot while fingering my clit and ass while i was on top fucking him. More women should get to do this!
 
I briefly dated a girl who was a MAJOR squirter... I'll never forget the first time we slept together. She warned me beforehand that she got :extremely wet". but this was not the case!

I'd say after maybe 10 minutes of going down on her, she had her first orgasm. She completely sprayed all over my face and gushed all over my bed sheets. I was so turned on by this, I lifted her legs up on my shoulders and began pounding her. She rubbed her clit while I was fucking her, and maybe 5 pumps in she shoved me off and came all over the place AGAIN!

She probably came 4 times throughout the night, and every time was just as intense! When we finally finished we just collapsed in her juices and fell asleep. Needless to say we were both in desperate need of a shower in the morning. I'd also say that I never washed my sheets more than I did those 6 amazing months!
 
I just felt that I had to comment on this thread. For years I dated a woman who always said that she felt the need to pee when she was orgasming. We discussed this and I said that I thought that she was about to "squirt" she would never let herself go enough for this to happen and I thought that I would go through life never witnessing a female ejaculation. Anyway that relationship ended. Roll on two years and I am now seeing another woman and the second time we made love, as she was on top of me I could feel a warm sensation on my genitals. As she came she lifted herself off my erection and I felt a splash of heat on my stomach. I put my hand down to feel a damp area and was so turned on I almost came there and then. She got very quiet and then started to apologise for "the mess" I told her that I was turned on by what had happened and asked her if she did it all the time. She told me that it embarrassed her and she tried not to do it. Needless to say, when I told her to relax as it was one of the hottest experiences I have ever had, she smiled and said thank god for that. By the time we finished making love my face, hair and my entire upper torso were soaked. We fell asleep exhausted on the bed which was also soaking. She now does it every time and I find it such a turn on. I finally have found my "squirter". I love it, it's just amazing!
 
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In the few that I have had, the most times your with this special kind of woman, she is always apologetic. Most have been brough up by some weird measure that this is something wrong with them, and they are the ones that don't let go all the time, and get sexualy frustrated, or just avoid time with a male. I wish I could find more of said squirters, as nothing beats a full facial from them as you are having oral sex, and enjoying that sensation as she just floods your face.

Paxter I am quite envious in you, finding that one special woman, all I can say is "congrats" to you!!
 
You're envious? I can't believe my luck. My current gf is in her 40's and it is only now that she says she can let herself go. "Not bad for a Catholic schoolgirl" - her words not mine!
 
I'd like to see some evidence that specifies G-spot orgasms in particular should be avoided rather than rare circumstances whereby all orgasms, clitoral included are advised against.

Honestly, if I listen to your advise I would have to avoid sex altogether during pregnancy even if I wasn't at risk of miscarriage as my boyfriend's penis nearly always gives me G-spot orgasms without trying and I often squirt from breast and neck orgasms without my vagina having any direct contact.

I also think it is cruel to imply with your figures regarding unknown reasons for miscarriage that the mother enjoying what comes naturally is to blame.

Ignore him, pink. There isn't any evidence and that's why he can't quote it.
 
I briefly dated a girl who was a MAJOR squirter... I'll never forget the first time we slept together. She warned me beforehand that she got :extremely wet". but this was not the case!

I'd say after maybe 10 minutes of going down on her, she had her first orgasm. She completely sprayed all over my face and gushed all over my bed sheets. I was so turned on by this, I lifted her legs up on my shoulders and began pounding her. She rubbed her clit while I was fucking her, and maybe 5 pumps in she shoved me off and came all over the place AGAIN!

She probably came 4 times throughout the night, and every time was just as intense! When we finally finished we just collapsed in her juices and fell asleep. Needless to say we were both in desperate need of a shower in the morning. I'd also say that I never washed my sheets more than I did those 6 amazing months!

I'm envisioning Six Flags Atlantis for some reason lol :)
 
I am quite blessed that my wife experiences this and quite flattered that she says she could never do it until we were together.

There is a pretty sizeable body of sex ed material out there that can help you and your partner experience this if she wants to, but I hope you don't get too caught up on it. My wife doesn't think that G spot orgasm and ejaculation is necessarily better than the old fashioned kind. Just different.

That being said, while I love having my face bathed in sweet girl juices, you are probably going to find that manual stimulation is more effective. The Holy Grail...if she manages to squirt while your cock is buried inside her. This is tough to achieve but fucking intense. Have fun!
 
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Since the vast majority of pregnancy loss etc is for UNKNOWN reasons, I'm guessing it is not your responsibility to speculate.

I am intolerant of idiots, and you are one.

Ignore him, pink. There isn't any evidence and that's why he can't quote it.

Exactly and that's why I'm calling him out on it. What right has he got to put such guilt on people without decent backup? :mad:
 
I squirt. It has only happened with my ex and like most of the responses the first time it happened I was so embarrassed, but he thought it was totally hot and fucked me that much harder. Squirting feels so good, but it is also kind of annoying. The spontaneous factor is thrown off because I think “oh wait, I need to get a towel” or “is the other set of sheets clean?” Plus, I hate sleeping on a towel. I still wouldn’t change anything though.
 
I've squirted! I felt weird while experiencing orgasms with my ex n he looked on the internet n thought I was going to squirt, it took a lot of persuasion but finally I felt comfortable enough to do it but my god it felt good!!
Agree with drinkmeup83 tho - the towel/clean sheets thing is not the best way to end the day...
 
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From my own experience,

My first squirter was a girl I worked with. When we were having sex she would just let go and probably ejaculate a pint and thoroughly soak the bed. She didn't want men going down on her though as she was still inwardly up tight about it. But she could just about lay on her back and squirt on the ceiling.

The second girl just got dripping wet and if she got up she would be soaked to her knees. She didn't ejaculate with force like the first one but just the same expelled an inordinate amount of lube.

The third girl didn't know she was able to do it until we had a three way with one of my other girl friends. The other girl brought one of those plug in the wall 2 speed massagers with her to use in the sex play. She showed us what orgasms she could have with it so the next day I bought one for the other girl so she'd have her own.

Within a week she was telling me she would feel really funny and stop. Our Menage partner had explained to her to use it in the low speed mode till she
was familiar with it. So I laid beside her as she got to that point and that was her first time to ejaculate. Yes, she thought she had pee'ed. The other girl didn't ejaculate at all. So we began to experiment with different positions etc. It seemed she could do it best with me on the bottom and her riding & using the massager on low. Later when I gave her oral she could do it too
without the massager. She never could do it with just penetration sex.

As time went on we began to read and research this and found these items.

It's thought only 15 to 20% of women are believed to be able to do this.

The ejaculate comes from an area called the "peri-urethral" gland where it builds up. The ejaculation empties it and then it will refill. Different women
will rebound quicker and be able to ejaculate again faster than others.

The pubococcus muscles (or PC muscles) have great bearing on how robust the ejaculation is when it occurs. This is where masturbation or playing with
a pair of "ben wa" balls or a "Kegalsizer" (a dildo which has several progressively larger balls molded on a stem with the largest toward the end the hand holds) is beneficial to a womans "grip" and force she can exert. Men also have these muscles and can do exercises of their own although masturbation is their best exercise.

In one case I've read about the woman went to a doctor and wanted to know if this was a problem inside her or what. The doctor gave her some purple urine dye tablets and instructed her to take one when she felt that special "pressure" or "conjestion" she described to him building up. She was to wait about a half an hour and then masturbate until she ejaculated, and then go pee afterwards. When she did this the fluid was clear that she ejaculated
but when she went to urinate....she pee'ed purple. Thus the Dr. was able to
help her see that the ejaculate wasn't pee.

The first time I saw anything about this in print with a video disk that showed a model doing it was in the web site of "Loompanics com" in a book titled, "The Miracle of Female Ejaculation".

http://www.loompanics.com/Links/Links.html

And for the record, that ejaculate is the most wonderful "lube" to prep for anal sex I've found. So if you're a girl who squirts and knows the joys of anal
you're blessed. If you're a girl who squirts and are afraid of what you can do,
you're missing out on the ride of your life.

The only thing that could be hotter for a girl, in my opinion, beyond squirting and doing anal would be to have a nice set of puffy nipples. (and long hair that hangs to a length between her sholders and nipples)

The plug in the wall vibe I purchased was this one. If ya can't afford a Sybian
for your lady at least get her one of these.

http://www.conair.com/images/hw_hm11m.jpg

If you're the girl who receives one, fold up a couple bath towels to sit on for an absorbant pad before you try it out. Keep the vibe above you or in front, but never under you where you may squirt into it. It's best to use it where it won't fall any distance if you have an "out of body" orgasm where you feel like you're going to pass out from it. (and drop the thing and break it)

Believe me, one of these can fly a girl to the moon, stars, and beyond. The way you see it in the photo is all you need. Just apply it gently to the clit and
experiment from there.

I purchased a cigarette lighter "inverter" for the car so we could bring it along for outdoor sex. It cost about the same as the vibe. The vibe is less than 20 watts so a 100 watt inverter will do it. She won't mind letting it
squirt when she knows it's going on the ground etc. Got that guys ? ;)

http://www.cpapsupplyusa.com/Images/thor-power-supplies/TH100-Thor-100w-power-inverter-1.jpg
 
I squirt. It all started for me about 2 years into my sexual experiences. Over time you sort of learn what makes you squirt the hardest and the most often. During very intense sessions that last about an hour I typically orgasm every 2-5 minutes. The more I orgasm the harder I squirt. It's pretty amazing and my boyfriend loves it. We keep incontinence pads in the room and lay them down to soak it all up and have a plastic sheet on the mattress just in case :D
 
Interesting to come across this thread. I did this for the first time just the other night. It totally shocked my husband, but I think it turned him on tpp. I thought I may have peed, but nope...definitely not that. I have tried, but I'm unable to do it again. Maybe we need practice.
 
Female ejaculation

Another man's standpoint:

A couple women in my sexual experience have learned to ejaculate and I must say that it is very intense for me as well, and a HUGE turn on to know the extent of her pleasure and amount of her relief. It is a very sensual and intimate experience, yet realizing the extent of her satisfaction gives me high gratification. Plus, the extra wetness makes me drive and pound inside her even more!
 
My GF has only done this twice in the last 3 years.... She admitted she probably could have done it earlier but felt like she had to pee.... I wish she'd do it more...
 
I'm in heaven

I have just discovered I've been ejaculating when all this time I thought I might be peeing. It has only happened with this new partner I'm with. He fingers me by rubbing my g-spot and I melt in his hands. Literally within 10 minutes I am so wet. But after he does it once, I can keep going and going. It seems that my juices never stop flowing. As far as the word ejaculating, it's not like when a guy squirts, mine just flows out of me all over his hand, down my leg. It's the most unbelievable feeling. I thought I could only have an orgasim one way by stimulating my clit. But not anymore. I'm in heaven and feel like a kid in a candy shop. Now I'm 50 and I didn't know I could do this. YIpeee!!!
 
I have done this, without the earth shattering orgasms people report. Very high quality ones, mind, but not necessarily worse or better than the regular less fluid drenched kind.

I've done it solo and only a couple of times with no idea why then and not other times.

Frankly, it's kinda neat, but I'd find it really annoying to do it *every* freaking time.
 
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I just started to "ejaculate" or squirt and was wondering how many women have done this. OR if you are a man, have you had women that you have been with ever do this.

I haven't squirted with my hubby, but just with masturbation on my Sybian, it was amazing!!

Thanks! :)

My wife had her first FE while we were fucking using Nexus Jr. double dildo and the Buzz Me Tender harness. The combination of the vibrator in the harness and the end of the Nexus Jr. in her pussy did it for her. When she came I came immediately.:D
 
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