Female Ejaculation - can it be taught?

[dreamer]

Female ejaculation is nice....having a chick gush in my face would be too lovely...

It is <grin>

 

[lilfrk]

I posted this in another thread and thought I'd post it here too since I searched forever for it.

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16311

 

[MR.GGG]

GGGSploosh

You might want to read this thread too.

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70892

There are TWO types of muscle contractions during female orgagsm. One is the clitoral where the vaginal muscles PULL up into the body. This includes a heaving UP of the uterus. The GSpot orgasm works the other way and the muscles push OUT or expel from the body. The GSpot orgasm is where a woman if she can will be able to "let go" during a major contraction and as the muscles push OUT there is a gush of fluid. Have a towel handy. It is NOT urine and chemically is almost exactly the same as seminal fluid in men - that's the juice but with no sperm in it...you know...unless you or somebody else left a bunch up there from before....

 

[rrlr420]

I have been able to make my partner squirt almost every time we have sex. For her it takes time, You have to be patient and give your partner serious stimulation. For my partner the easiest way to make her ejaculate is for us to be in the 69 position, me on top. I put her legs behind my shoulders and pull her bottom off the bed so she is spread wide with my hands supporting her ass. She lays motionless and i open her and give her oral and control the motion of me into her mouth. Many times while i am giving her oral I use a dildo in her while i suck her clit. When i feel her begin to lose control i give it hard and deep in both ends. I usually rub her anus without entering and rub my hands all over her lips. She erupts, and continues wave after wave until i get tired. In this position I have made her cum multiple times. Its fun to watch someone cum so hard so much.

 

[osusweetguy]

FYI...what miss says is true

I've actually witnessed "female ejaculation" while I was going down on a ex-girlfriend. It was a one-time thing, but we had read about it, and she wanted to see if she was capable of experiencing "female ejaculation".

From what I've read, it interesting to note that most sexologists and other researchers interested in "female ejacuation" believe that the ejaculate isn't released from the vagina. But it is, as Miss says released from the woman's urethra (Guys -- think of a water fountain splashing your face) Also, it is not urine either as pointed out earlier.

I've heard that female ejaculation can be caused from g-sport simulation or a combination of g-spot and clitoral stimulation, which how my ex-girlfriend experienced "female ejaculation" for the first time. Anyway, I just wanted to say that Miss is correct with her information.

 

[joolushko]

YOU HAVE TO PUSH WHEN YOU FEEL THAT OVER POWERING URGE TO I USED TO BE AFFRAID TO PUSH THINKING I WOULD PISS ALL OVER THE PLACE

That is exactly what I am afraid of, that I will get so close and push and wind up peeing instead. How embarassing!

 

[lilrosie lips]

I always thought female ejaculation was maybe a sexual form of an urban legend ( a sexual legend perhaps)... Until the last two weekends with my "friend/boyfriend/lover". It took a fair bit of clit licking and finger action to it bring it off. But he was quite sure that I "squirted" both times, and it was definetely not urine. Never happended to me before (or maybe my former partners never noticed or thought to mention it) or maybe it has something to do with getting older. All I know is all my hormones seem to totally out of whack these days and I walk around with a constantly throbbing clit lately (I am not complaining!!!). I would second the suggestion of a towel, I soaked the sheet, the mattress pad and the mattress on Saturday nite.... Surprisingly my anal boyfriend was not distrubed... Actually he had a very large, proud grin on his face.

 

[KinkyKat]

I've taught two women how to ejaculate. One was easier than the other as she got very very wet normally, and had a fairly large G-spot.

But, the other learned it as well over time, and said it was the most intense orgasm she'd ever had.

It's worth helping your lady learn how to do it.

 

[Guest]

Squirting can not be "taught" how to do. It is something that NOT every woman is capable of doing. Simple as that. There are, however, many women who have not done it "yet" since they do know it exsists and they have not acheived the "proper" orgasm to push them over the edge!

Or, they are like me, and stopped themselves from the best orgasms of their lives for fear they had to pee.

 

[sivani]

These are natural things. You need to teach these. The knowledge can be gathered through communication. Plenty of the sources are available online.

 

[Benthere8]

My lady gets to the point where g-spot stimulation is just too intense for her and she begs me to stop...any suggestions on how we/she can push her over the edge?

 

[viper2000]

Axel Braun has a ok guide.

Seymore butts also has a ok one to.

 

[rlc32123]

hi

i have written a guide on how to help your woman squirt and will be putting it up here in tthe how to section of literotica for those that want to learn, also its true not every woman can squirt ejaculate like on the porn movies but EVERY woman can squirt it may jsut trickl and mingle with her natural pussy juices but it can be learned and has been said in the past it takes a lot of patence and time and encouragement to help her also if she doesnt do it dont badger her as she wont do it because of worrying abou t doing it
i hope this helps
rob

 

[KaeyMee]

Female Ejaculation

My girlfriend was telling me that one time she had a guy come on to her, and claim that he could teach her how to ejaculate. Surely not the way to get in a girls good graces (when you first meet), but it is an interesting question.

I have heard from women that can, and they say that its really intense.

Anyone in here able to do it, and if so, is it something that can be learned/taught?

Explain?

Steve

I found this over on "BDSM Talk" Female Ejaculation: Pee Or No?

http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm

Might be of some interest. There are a few other educational explicit pictures within the thread.

 

[Mr.G]

""Besides, saying that a man could "teach" a woman to squirt sounds as pathetic of a "line" as a man saying he could "turn" a gay woman straight.""

Ya! It rather unsettled me to think a man could "teach" ....
yes, if it is to be learned, the woman can and should be her own teacher.

I saw this thread as ref'd by questions on the GSPOT and female ejaculation. Funny. It struck HER as chauvanism. It struck me as just plain dumb.

PROPER GSpot stimulation is NOT something that is taught and (not being a female) I don't believe it is something that would come naturally for a woman/girl when she is discovering herself. I mean WHY would she all of a sudden start poking herself "there" with no prior knowledge or advice??

Then along comes a man who KNOWS how to do this and shows her or TEACHES her how. For YEARS I've had women tell me on these threads that there is NO WAY any man knnows something about her body that she doesn't know about. Those women were also convinced that the whole GSpot thing was a MYTH .. so there ya go. Typical the "experts" who say it is a myth giving advice to those who already know it isn't and even worse ... throwing some kind of sexism into the silliness.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

 

[Kat73]

In the last few months I have lerned how to "squirt". The first time I did it I was extremely drunk, therefore relaxed, and as I came, I pushed with my vaginal muscles. The huge gush of fluid was the result. My husband spent the next few months trying to recreate it. We finally discovered that as I approach a g-spot orgasm, that is when I have the most chance of squirting. However in the last week, I have found that the more stimulated I am, that I can actually do it with clitoral stimulation alone. Made for quite a mess on the computer chair and floor last week!! It is a wonderful sensation. I think as women, the more in tuned we are with our bodies, the more spectacular sex can be! Good luck everyone!

 

[rlc32123]

In the last few months I have lerned how to "squirt". The first time I did it I was extremely drunk, therefore relaxed, and as I came, I pushed with my vaginal muscles. The huge gush of fluid was the result. My husband spent the next few months trying to recreate it. We finally discovered that as I approach a g-spot orgasm, that is when I have the most chance of squirting. However in the last week, I have found that the more stimulated I am, that I can actually do it with clitoral stimulation alone. Made for quite a mess on the computer chair and floor last week!! It is a wonderful sensation. I think as women, the more in tuned we are with our bodies, the more spectacular sex can be! Good luck everyone!

i agree kat thats why i think alot of men should have a go at trying to learn how to do it for there women i am a man my self even if she cannot do it at tleast she will be thank full for the amopunt of time and attention you are paying her

 

[Mr.G]

G G G G G G

I think as women, the more in tuned we are with our bodies, the more spectacular sex can be!

I couldn't agree more. Many of the notes back on my TRY THIS thread speak of - first the discovery of the GSpot and that it DOES work and secondly how much closer their relationship has become since the discovery. Her self-confidence goes way up. Her self-esteem as a WOMAN sky-rockets. She become not just addicted to the extra orgasms and the variety but also and much more so to her partner who is giving her all this extra pleasure. Of course the partner feels like a million bucks too being able to use a few variations to keep it always feeling new and exciting and all the while giving her all these orgasms. Often the over stimulation of her GSpot allows her to orgasm through regular intercourse which again is something that most women find quite difficult to do all the time.

Just one more observation. Not ALL women ejaculate during these types of orgasms. SOme do. Some don't. Some do sometimes. Do NOT consider yourselves failures if she cums 40 times but does NOT flood the basement. For many women the faster she G-Gasms the less time and chance she has to engorge her skeenes. If you play for hours and she begins to feel bloated and then does the mighty PUSH OUT as she G-Gasms then you better have you scuba gear already on.

 

[thenewgirlhere]

my boyfriend loves it

 

[Megan26]

I am a gusher, but I don't think I could teach someone else. I don't really know what I am doing differently. Before my first time, I thought all girls did the same thing.

 

[Annabell4you]

what vixen says is true. i never did it til i met this one guy, who i happended to marry. he is the only one that ever made me do this. what a mess! get lots of towels! it is a very different cum than the clitoral kind. it is awesome and he loves it.

I married mine too. I squirt but mine pools rather then projects. It tastes very different too. Mine is very fruity. I make myself do it regularly with my double bullets (g spot friend)

 

[old_scratch]

My girlfriend was telling me that one time she had a guy come on to her, and claim that he could teach her how to ejaculate. Surely not the way to get in a girls good graces (when you first meet), but it is an interesting question.

I have heard from women that can, and they say that its really intense.

Anyone in here able to do it, and if so, is it something that can be learned/taught?

Explain?

Steve

Can a woman be taught to ejaculate? Maybe.

You are asking two questions. First, Can a woman be taught to ejaculate, and secondly, the man who told your girlfriend that he could teach her to ejaculate, was it a “pick-up” line?

To answer the second question first: When a man tells a woman that he can teach her how to ejaculate, yes, it is a pick-up line, and it works surprisingly well. When a woman believes that she can’t ejaculate, and a man tells her that he can teach her how to squirt, he has her undivided attention.

Most women ejaculate without realizing it. After a man and woman have intercourse, there is often a large, wet spot on the bed after they orgasm. This large wet spot is female ejaculation. If you examine the fluid in the wet spot, you will find it is colorless, usually odorless and watery. The fluid is too thin and watery to be either male ejaculate, or the fluids secreted by the vagina for lubrication. It is female ejaculation fluid.

The question isn’t, “can a woman be taught to ejaculate”, (most women ejaculate naturally during intercourse), rather the question is, “can a woman be taught to squirt”, (like you see in the videos on the Internet)? And the answer to that question is maybe.

Someone mentioned that female ejaculation is triggered by the G-spot, this is true. The G-spot is actually a gland that surrounds the female urethra, and when stimulated correctly, this gland swells with fluid; then suddenly forces a large amount of this clear fluid into the urethra, causing it to squirt onto the man’s penis and testicles.

Why this phenomenon occurs is debatable, and I can only give you my opinion based on experience. The fluid when ejaculated onto the man’s penis and testicles is much warmer than his skin temperature, and the sudden stimulation seems to insure that he ejaculates all of his semen against the woman’s cervix, insuring pregnancy, (if she is ovulating). After all, intercourse is about making babies.

Now, if a woman ejaculates naturally during intercourse, then why can’t she squirt when her G-spot is stimulated during foreplay?

There can be a number of reasons; however, when a woman initially starts to ejaculate, it feels very much like she is going pee, and the last thing any woman wants to do is urinate on her lover during foreplay. And because she doesn’t want to pee on her lover, or stop and go to the bathroom, she suppresses the feeling. From that point on, she will subconsciously suppress the feeling, and this prevents her from squirting. When a woman ejaculates during intercourse, her only thoughts are focused on the intense feeling of orgasm, and she doesn’t notice the feeling of ejaculation.

To learn how to ejaculate, you don’t need some guy with a pick-up line to teach you, this is something that you can do for yourself, or if you prefer, have you lover help you. Female ejaculation is triggered by the G-spot, so, you learn how to squirt by learning how to stimulate your G-spot correctly.

Some women don’t know where their G-spot is, or in some rare cases, the G-spot may not be well developed. When this is the case, you first have to find it. Slide you finger, (or your lover’s finger), into your vagina. The walls of your vagina will feel slick and smooth from your natural lubrication, all except one small spot about the size of a dime, (or smaller), and it will feel more spongy when massaged with your finger. You may even feel it swell as it engorges its self with fluid in preparation for ejaculation.

Don’t suppress your feelings, embrace them. As you become more and more aroused, you may feel a tingling in your tummy, or strange feelings in your groin area. Embrace these feelings, let them grow. It may happen on your first try, (or you may have to practice several times), but as you become more and more aroused as you approach orgasm, your G-spot will force the fluid out through the urethra and you will squirt.

If you don’t have a well developed G-spot, sometimes it can be made to develop by repeated stimulation over a period of weeks or months. If you have trouble in the beginning, don’t give up, you can learn to do this.

Don’t worry about ruining anything when you ejaculate. The fluid is clear, usually odorless, and dries without leaving a stain. Any stain the fluid may leave when dried will be minor and wash out easily in the laundry.

If your lover helps you, he/she can encourage you to embrace your feelings as you approach orgasm. Keep confidence in yourself, you can do this.

 

[infinity706]

A woman can be taught to squirt like a lot of videos on the internet, but that's not real squirting in most cases. Filling herself with bottled water and squeezing her muscles to force it out when she fakes isn't what people are looking for.