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t_h_seacrest

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I've lately been waxing wistful about my 30 year old sexual self. Not that I have a lot to complain about because I don't. Life is good.
But sometimes... You know? Start wondering about the possibility of getting it back.
 
Right there with ya bud. It's a damn shame that when we are our very best selves, experienced, educated, wise (hopefully), proficient and confident, the body starts to go to hell.
 
Right there with ya bud. It's a damn shame that when we are our very best selves, experienced, educated, wise (hopefully), proficient and confident, the body starts to go to hell.
Pretty much sums it. Like the way you word it. Oh sure I've built up quite a library of stuff to masturbate to but that 24/7 everpresent horned up readiness... where oh where?
 
Older guys tend to be better lovers as they are more experienced
Seriously, when I was young I could give oral forever, but once it was time for penetration, it wasn't a long event. Now it takes a couple of rounds with breaks before I cum.
 
Seriously, when I was young I could give oral forever, but once it was time for penetration, it wasn't a long event. Now it takes a couple of rounds with breaks before I cum.
It varies a lot with guys. I remember one older gentleman he came so fast in my mouth before we got close to fucking. Was surprised I wasn’t ready he was so disappointed. We cuddled in bed after. I had him hard again after a while he lasted much longer the second time.
 
As I got older, things got better. Was ok when 20-25ish Around 28-29 got way better and was having a lot of sex. I had gf’s telling their gf’s they should seek me out. It was like a self perpetuating machine. Those were the good days!
 
There are a lot of natural supplements on the market that purport to boost testosterone and sex drive in men. I tried one and noticed the main ingredient in it was something called fenugreek extract so now I just take that by itself everyday and it's great. And it's like 90 capsules of them for 8 bucks I take two a day but even one would probably help a lot. It's said to be beneficial to women too.

BTW to be clear I am not a doctor or any kind of medical expert I'm just sharing what I personally take & believe I benefit from.
 
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As I got older, things got better. Was ok when 20-25ish Around 28-29 got way better and was having a lot of sex. I had gf’s telling their gf’s they should seek me out. It was like a self perpetuating machine. Those were the good days!
I will even include early-mid 50s. Seems like it's been just these last couple years... crept up or something.
 
It varies a lot with guys. I remember one older gentleman he came so fast in my mouth before we got close to fucking. Was surprised I wasn’t ready he was so disappointed. We cuddled in bed after. I had him hard again after a while he lasted much longer the second time.
I'm sure getting the first one out helped quite a bit. I think the first time with a new partner has the potential to have so much excitement and build up that shooting with what is normally foreplay probably happens somewhat regularly.

I admire that you were patient and sill spent time and showed care, and were also able to get what you needed. That's hot as hell.
There are a lot of natural supplements on the market that purport to boost testosterone and sex drive in men. I tried one and noticed the main ingredient in it was something called fenugreek extract so now I just take that by itself everyday and it's great. And it's like 90 capsules of them for 8 bucks I take two a day but even one would probably help a lot. It's said to be beneficial to women too.
What effects are you getting from it?
I will even include early-mid 50s. Seems like it's been just these last couple years... crept up or something.
I'm 52 and I can say not only am I having great sex, but I'm performing better than I ever have.
 
I'm 52 and I can say not only am I having great sex, but I'm performing better than I ever have.
Oh to be 52 again!
61 here. Seems the drop or dip crept in around 59-60ish. Don't misunderstand. I function fine. Just seems like the motors are slower to crank up. More at the mercy of changes in atmosphere, mood, etc.
 
Oh to be 52 again!
61 here. Seems the drop or dip crept in around 59-60ish. Don't misunderstand. I function fine. Just seems like the motors are slower to crank up. More at the mercy of changes in atmosphere, mood, etc.
That makes sense. I can say for certain my body, in general, does not act like it did when I was in my 20s.
 
There are a lot of natural supplements on the market that purport to boost testosterone and sex drive in men. I tried one and noticed the main ingredient in it was something called fenugreek extract so now I just take that by itself everyday and it's great. And it's like 90 capsules of them for 8 bucks I take two a day but even one would probably help a lot. It's said to be beneficial to women too.
Will look into this. Thank you.
 
I'm sure getting the first one out helped quite a bit. I think the first time with a new partner has the potential to have so much excitement and build up that shooting with what is normally foreplay probably happens somewhat regularly.

I admire that you were patient and sill spent time and showed care, and were also able to get what you needed. That's hot as hell.

What effects are you getting from it?

I'm 52 and I can say not only am I having great sex, but I'm performing better than I ever have.
Like basically all the benefits that men's testosterone boosting supplements claim to have, just slowly and probably less drastic than taking actual testosterone treatments. I don't know if any of the other ones work, I just believe that this one works for me. To be clear though I'm not any sort of doctor or medical expert whatsover just sharing my experience of a supplement that I buy for 8 bucks or so a bottle (regular price is around 10.)
 
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