fear of rejection or fear of abandonment?

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[mytasteislikecandy]

which one is greater for you?

i don't have a fear of rejection (being an aggressive cougar and all) but i do get scared of being abandoned.

i've always thought an overwhelming fear of rejection makes you live your life in fear instead of just going for what you want.

I have neither. I don't get rejected, and if you abandon me, I'll kill you.

 

[fgarvb1]

Huh!
It adds up to the same thing in the end.

Either way you end up somewhere where they are not.

 

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[Mizz_Erotica]

Ohh I have a big fear of both...but I think I fear abandonment more...and being a psych major I know why, but I still freak out big time..I'm always thinking a guys gonna leave me