Fantasies in relationships?

[Up North Guy]

A question about "relationship morality" -

Is it wrong for me to fantasize about women other than my partner (whom I do love very much) while masturbating...or while engaged in sexual activities? (People I k now, as it is...)

Or, even if not fantasing about her _being_ another woman, to fantasize about someone else being present while we have sex/she gives me a blow job/etc, watching us and masturbating themselves?

...I'm slightly disturbed by the fact that I do this, but sometimes am turned on...

Right? Wrong?

 

[juicylips]

Key word here is fantasy

If that is all it is..then there is nothing wrong with it. But if you're fantasizing about someone in particular over and over again and it's someone you see on a daily basis, then you need to find out why you are so attracted to someone else.

A little fantasy never hurt any relationship. I think it's normal.

 

[Sillyman]

You are fine, and perfectly healthy as long as you keep two key points in mind:

1) Don't actually fuck anyone else,

2)Don't fantasize about people you know.

The first one is important, and I'm sure you are capable of handling it. The second one is just a good idea, since it's best not to be subject to temtation.

 

[Anais Dahl]

I have a pretty consistant fantasy about Orlando Bloom (see Legolas the Elf in Lord Of The Rings, or Black Hawk Down) but it is a fantasy so it's all good.


But if I ever had a chance to fuck him, I would. My man would understand. If he had a chance to fuck Lucy Liu, I'd let him.