Fallacious assumptions people make about threesomes

[DPprettyPLEASE]

The threesomes I have are amazing. But in the event you are ever a member of a threesome do not assume the following;

Just Bc ur invited in the bedroom once or twice does not mean you are permanently invited. It's proper to wait to be approached or ask every time this takes place.

Just Bc my husband enjoys watching his slut handle and hold down cocks of her choice does NOT mean he's gay. He does not take any sexual interest in you.

Just Bc my husband is ok with watching me play does NOT mean I want to watch him play. Don't come into my room and lecture me on how I should reward my husband with another lady! I'm the biggest reward he could ever get! Don't assume that just Bc he's a guy he has an issue with this either.

And last but most least... Don't try to hookup with me outside the threesome it's rude. Your lucky my guy allowed u to have me. Don't push it!

 

[blu3tooth]

I'm so much in agreement with you, you could almost be agreeing with me!

 

[HussarVanburen]

Just Bc my husband enjoys watching his slut handle and hold down cocks of her choice does NOT mean he's gay. He does not take any sexual interest in you.

Actually, it almost certainly -does- mean that.

It's very peculiar for a man to be so fascinated in seeing his woman used. It's highly submissive, and as evidenced elsewhere on this board, so often fixated on the semen of the intruders.

 

[goofygus42]

My wife and I have been involved in quite a few threesomes, most were fun and no problems. I totally agree with you DP.

 

[blu3tooth]

You are a dumb cunt

Actually, it almost certainly -does- mean that.

It's very peculiar for a man to be so fascinated in seeing his woman used. It's highly submissive, and as evidenced elsewhere on this board, so often fixated on the semen of the intruders.

I'll probably get banned or suspended for that headline, but some things have just got to be said, and in as few syllables as possible.

 

[DPprettyPLEASE]

That's the problem with the world today, don't you know it's only gay if you look em in the eye lol (dear gay people I mean no offense by that comment just laughing off a douchebags naive comment, I support whatever, love who u want)

 

[Ex Princess]

That's the problem with the world today, don't you know it's only gay if you look em in the eye lol (dear gay people I mean no offense by that comment just laughing off a douchebags naive comment, I support whatever, love who u want)

Even though you typed it as a joke, I have to say that isn't funny at all to me. That being said:

DP, people will always criticize your relationship, especially when they don't understand it. Don't take anyone else's ignorance and turn it to anger on a message board. People are allowed to voice their opinions (as I just did on your joke) and you are totally allowed to ignore them.

Labels don't work always:

Men have threesomes involving other men, but don't identify themselves as gay.

Women have sex with many men and don't identify themselves as "slutty."

Couples invite someone else into their bed and are not swingers.

People are different and thank God for that. If we were all the same, and acted or expected the same from one another the world would be a dull place.

Just take any comments you don't appreciate gently. Some people have good intentions, others just want to get you fired up.

 

[Sundayschild]

Well said that princess. Labels mean nothing

 

[jman1968]

visitor

DP,
Am I to take it your visitor didn't work out well?

 

[DPprettyPLEASE]

DP,
Am I to take it your visitor didn't work out well?

Oh no my visitor worked out just fine

 

[gregy70]

ICT I am turned on by the original post & her attitude

 

[DPprettyPLEASE]

ICT I am turned on by the original post & her attitude

Glad to be of assistance!

 

[DPprettyPLEASE]

Oh and sorry princess I didn't mean to offend u.

 

[MatthewVett]

Just Bc ur invited in the bedroom once or twice does not mean you are permanently invited. It's proper to wait to be approached or ask every time this takes place.

I'm sorry, but this just makes me imagine a comedic scene where the person just keeps showing up in their house constantly, waiting for them to offer to fuck him again.

 

[DPprettyPLEASE]

I'm sorry, but this just makes me imagine a comedic scene where the person just keeps showing up in their house constantly, waiting for them to offer to fuck him again.

It's happened. You suddenly are the best friend when u open your legs

 

[amofiga]

The threesomes I have are amazing. But in the event you are ever a member of a threesome do not assume the following;

Just Bc ur invited in the bedroom once or twice does not mean you are permanently invited. It's proper to wait to be approached or ask every time this takes place.

Just Bc my husband enjoys watching his slut handle and hold down cocks of her choice does NOT mean he's gay. He does not take any sexual interest in you.

Just Bc my husband is ok with watching me play does NOT mean I want to watch him play. Don't come into my room and lecture me on how I should reward my husband with another lady! I'm the biggest reward he could ever get! Don't assume that just Bc he's a guy he has an issue with this either.

And last but most least... Don't try to hookup with me outside the threesome it's rude. Your lucky my guy allowed u to have me. Don't push it!

Well said.
A threesome does NOT imply an unhappy relationship and that the "star" of the threesome wishes to meet and cheat on the sly.

A threesome does NOT imply that the guest has the right to "drive the bus". He/she is a passenger, not the conductor.

The guest should know he/she can overstay the welcome and should recognize when to leave the party graciously.

It is usually wise not to play with total strangers. However, if the invited guest is a friend or acquantance, they should also know that the visit is a privilege and not a right, and that they should keep their nose out of the "real lives" of the principles. When the party's over, it's over.

The invited guest must know how to be discreet and keep his or her mouth shut.