I have a question for you ladies that have received facials. How did your partner broach the subject? Is there anything pleasurable for the girl that I could use to help when I bring the subject up? I don't know why I find the thought of cumming on a girl's face so erotic. I don't think it is a humiliation thing, because I like her very much.
Facials?
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ayrton said:
Just make sure you aim away from her eyes 'cause that stings like a bastard
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Maybe it's the novelty or taboo ofit? Or BECAUSE you like her so much and view it as an intimate activity that requires a lot of trust?
Whatever the reason(s), I'd figure it out and explain it to her in a loving way, asking how SHE feels about it. If she's ambivalent, ask if she'd ever be willing to try it. If she's not interested, thank her for hearing you out, and ask her to let you know if she ever changes her mind, then drop it.
Good luck!
Whatever the reason(s), I'd figure it out and explain it to her in a loving way, asking how SHE feels about it. If she's ambivalent, ask if she'd ever be willing to try it. If she's not interested, thank her for hearing you out, and ask her to let you know if she ever changes her mind, then drop it.
Good luck!
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ayrton said:
You say; "I don't think it is a humiliation thing...".
I think you should "rethink" that part. I don't recall any of the "facial porn" that I've seen that had anything to do with a loving attitude. It's mostly about humiliation and domination. Not saying anything is wrong with "humiliation" games, but for the most part I think they are only fun when both parties know and agree that is what they are "playing". Suggest you talk about this subject in conjunction with the facial part. Perhaps she would enjoy being in that position if she knew it was just for play.
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How much porn in general has anything to do with a loving attitude?alaskabibear said:
Sure, there's amateur couples and some female-oriented porn that tries to portray some love and intimacy, but the vast majority shows fake-looking people having fake-looking sex because it's so devoid of emotion, the problems we all encounter, etc. I don't think facials are necessarily about humiliation, domination or degradation. Just because porn might portray them as negative toward the recipient, doesn't mean they truly are when done with positive intent and in a caring relationship. If the OP has thought about it and doesn't think it's about degrading his partner, it most likely isn't. He could be attracted to the way some female porn stars seem to love it (you know, so much they just can't help coming from it
), or something else. And since when are domination and humiliation between people who enjoy it NOT loving activities? For many of us, they have nothing to do with playing roles; they're all about embracing who we are, what we enjoy with our partners, mutual thrills, and, yes, love.
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I am not into facials myself, i'm all about swallowing or getting it elsewhere, however I would think that women like getting a facial for two reasons, hate to swallow so either he cums on her face or breasts, and some women find it erotic to be covered in that hot white goo, well whatever color it happens to be coming out as anyway.
Don't look at me like that, apprently it can be found in other colors, all I know is it is always white when it comes out of me.
Just a guess here, but some women probably like being marked as his by his orgasmic fluids. If you want to do it to your girlfriend, talk to her about it, tell her you find it incredibly hot to see that in porn, I personally don't but hey my kink not yours, or hers, well probably not hers anyway.
So like the next time your alone with her, after tends to be good, we usually want to talk after anyway. Just tell her that you find facials to be really hot and you want to try it on her. I mean what is she going to say, no? How hard is a no to take? If she doesn't like to let you cum in her mouth or swallow she probably will thank you for letting her get out of that anyway.
Don't look at me like that, apprently it can be found in other colors, all I know is it is always white when it comes out of me.
Just a guess here, but some women probably like being marked as his by his orgasmic fluids. If you want to do it to your girlfriend, talk to her about it, tell her you find it incredibly hot to see that in porn, I personally don't but hey my kink not yours, or hers, well probably not hers anyway.
So like the next time your alone with her, after tends to be good, we usually want to talk after anyway. Just tell her that you find facials to be really hot and you want to try it on her. I mean what is she going to say, no? How hard is a no to take?
If she doesn't like to let you cum in her mouth or swallow she probably will thank you for letting her get out of that anyway.
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You know, upon thinking about this more, if you've never come elsewhere on her, you might want to ask about doing so first, kind of working up to the facial if it goes well.
I think most women are less likely to find cum on their ass, back, breasts, stomach, etc., offensive than cum on their face. Even as openminded as I am, I'd probably want to see how I reacted to my partner coming on other areas first, because a lot would have to do with the context and what he did in the aftermath (for me, gratitude, praise and affection are usually needed after something that's potentially emotionally or mentally difficult, but this isn't the case for everyone).
If she likes to be dominated somewhat (some bondage, blindfolds, aggression, etc.), that might be a safer way to try coming on her body, provided you ask her if she's okay with that kind of thing before anything starts. If she says she's fine with the body, you could ask her if she'd be willing to try a facial, and go from there.
I think most women are less likely to find cum on their ass, back, breasts, stomach, etc., offensive than cum on their face. Even as openminded as I am, I'd probably want to see how I reacted to my partner coming on other areas first, because a lot would have to do with the context and what he did in the aftermath (for me, gratitude, praise and affection are usually needed after something that's potentially emotionally or mentally difficult, but this isn't the case for everyone).
If she likes to be dominated somewhat (some bondage, blindfolds, aggression, etc.), that might be a safer way to try coming on her body, provided you ask her if she's okay with that kind of thing before anything starts. If she says she's fine with the body, you could ask her if she'd be willing to try a facial, and go from there.
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If your partner likes something, be it a facial, anal, etc... I don't think it's degrading. Especially if you both like to do it and it gets you off. Some people think WS is degrading, but if your partner likes it, how is it degrading when they enjoy it?
I would think degrading is when you do something they donot necessarily like or enjoy and you knowingly continue to do it just for your own satisfaction.
Seriously, does no one ever talk to their partners about sex anymore? I know it's not easy sometimes but something as important should be talked about on a regular basis.
Then, you wouldn't have to wonder if your partner likes or hates whatever you are trying to introduce to the bedroom. And that's just one less thing to worry about in a relationship.
Just my $0.02
I would think degrading is when you do something they donot necessarily like or enjoy and you knowingly continue to do it just for your own satisfaction.
Seriously, does no one ever talk to their partners about sex anymore? I know it's not easy sometimes but something as important should be talked about on a regular basis.
Then, you wouldn't have to wonder if your partner likes or hates whatever you are trying to introduce to the bedroom. And that's just one less thing to worry about in a relationship.
Just my $0.02
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my g/fs attention was drawn to facials as she thought it would be such a naughty & raunchy thing to do.
when she asked if id like to try it she saw straight away the high level of excitement & great affect it had on me.
she loved this most of all.
she also joked that her friends said it was good for the complexion.
the first time i came all over her lovely face was ecstatic & we both now incorporate this quite often.
my g/fs attention was drawn to facials as she thought it would be such a naughty & raunchy thing to do.
when she asked if id like to try it she saw straight away the high level of excitement & great affect it had on me.
she loved this most of all.
she also joked that her friends said it was good for the complexion.
the first time i came all over her lovely face was ecstatic & we both now incorporate this quite often.
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My BF likes to cum on me - he says that it's a primal thing guys like to do....sort of like how other animals mark their property/mates/etc. I don't mind it if he cums on my body, but I have to admit that I don't like it all over my face because it's sticky! If my BF didn't mind me having a shower afterwards I'd have no problems at all.
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um i was asked to at frist i did not want to but the pretty eye's an moan looking up at me, I gave in and love it.She ways he like it becase it a gift to her, she get look in my eyes and watch me do. But i say it alot know a days to each there own. Good luck
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I think I agree with Erika about doing it elsewhere on her body. My boy and I frequently engage in this sort of activity which began with my breasts and expanded more to stomach, thighs, etc. One time he sort of hinted/mentioned he wanted to cum on my face and while I was a little apprehensive about it, I decided to go for it ... 'cause if I didn't like it then, well, we didn't have to try it again.
The first time I don't think I cared for it too much. But we've done it a couple of times since and it's not a humiliation thing for me at all ... not really a domination thing, either. To me, it's just hot ... it's intimate, and I guess it's kind of like my man staking a claim, but not necessarily that ... dominating-sounding.
I think it's a work-in-progress thing depending on your relationship and how it grows. Some people aren't into it. Some people are. ;D
The first time I don't think I cared for it too much. But we've done it a couple of times since and it's not a humiliation thing for me at all ... not really a domination thing, either. To me, it's just hot ... it's intimate, and I guess it's kind of like my man staking a claim, but not necessarily that ... dominating-sounding.
I think it's a work-in-progress thing depending on your relationship and how it grows. Some people aren't into it. Some people are. ;D
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I love ghetting a facial from my man, nothing about humiliation. I agree, stay away from the eyes, but if the woman is in control of the cock, as she should be, you point it where you want it and it's no problem. My man loves shooting his cum on my boobs too, then i rub it in and it turns him on even more.
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I guess it's what feels right for both people, not one just using/abusing the other.
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I've never really enjoyed giving any of the girls I've dated a facial. I enjoy cumming on their breasts, but cumming on her face just didn't do anything for me. A girl I dated for a while actually preferred it on her face, but most of the time the girl I'm with will say "anywhere but my face". That generally solves the problem before it arises.
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I don't have a problem with it but these days the things I have a problem with can be written on the back of a postage stamp.
Like others have said, try her breasts/ass/belly first. Another sly technique that worked for my ex was to start cumming in my mouth and then pull out just enough so that it went over my lips and chin. Having already experienced a 'half-facial' before he bothered to ask my permission I didn't see the point of splitting hairs.
I think it depends what mood you're in too. Sometimes Master gives me a facial as a bonding thing because he loves me to death and wants me never to forget hat I am his slave. Other times he is in 'fucking' mode rather than 'lovemaking' mode and I get a face full because he's just pounded the fuck out of me and wants to remind me that I'm his filthy little whore.
Both get me going but I'm not your gf. Figure out your motivation and what mood of sex you want the facial to take place in. Some women even find the idea more palatable as a 'quickie' hot hard fuck thing than if the guy was all considerate and made slow love with sweet nothings before blowing a load into her face.
I guess my point is that although you want to be considerate about this request, the context has to be right. Otherwise she won't understand why you find it a turn on and it may not even serve it's purpose if when you do get to give a facial it's in nothing like the scenario you wanted in the first place.
Make sense?
Like others have said, try her breasts/ass/belly first. Another sly technique that worked for my ex was to start cumming in my mouth and then pull out just enough so that it went over my lips and chin. Having already experienced a 'half-facial' before he bothered to ask my permission I didn't see the point of splitting hairs.
I think it depends what mood you're in too. Sometimes Master gives me a facial as a bonding thing because he loves me to death and wants me never to forget hat I am his slave. Other times he is in 'fucking' mode rather than 'lovemaking' mode and I get a face full because he's just pounded the fuck out of me and wants to remind me that I'm his filthy little whore.
Both get me going but I'm not your gf. Figure out your motivation and what mood of sex you want the facial to take place in. Some women even find the idea more palatable as a 'quickie' hot hard fuck thing than if the guy was all considerate and made slow love with sweet nothings before blowing a load into her face.
I guess my point is that although you want to be considerate about this request, the context has to be right. Otherwise she won't understand why you find it a turn on and it may not even serve it's purpose if when you do get to give a facial it's in nothing like the scenario you wanted in the first place.
Make sense?
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I don't quite remember how my ex broached it. However, I do remember having a "HOW GROSS IS THAT?" feeling but that could be because the first time we did it I got shot in the eye. Now though I love love love it and would define my face as the best place to get cum on 
just for my 2 cents ~~~> I kind always thought it was somthing you saw in the movies, and never had a nother thought about it UNTIL my gf asked me to do it a few nights ago. At first i was like wtf? are you seriouse, but then kinda the same as someone else above in this forum said, I looked down at er eyes as she asked for it and couldnt say no... We both liked it !! I found it fun because of being new, and I think it was the same for her.. New things are always good.
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we have had me cum on various parts of her body but one of the best times was the other night. we were doing it doggy style and i pulled out and came without having to stroke my cock. i came right on her lower back and rested my surging cock between her ass. she then finished my cock off but moving her ass up and down the shaft of my cock. that had to be the best yet.
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Just reading the number of posts on this thread gets me wondering; how common is it for women to enjoy facials / playing with cum?
As a bloke I can appreciate the appeal, even if I don't understand why. Maybe because I've seen it on TV who knows. My wife hates getting cum anywhere near any part of her body, but then she hates all bodily fluids (has blood phobias and whatnot). Then again some of the ladies I've roleplayed online with seemed to think it was a good idea.
As a bloke I can appreciate the appeal, even if I don't understand why. Maybe because I've seen it on TV who knows. My wife hates getting cum anywhere near any part of her body, but then she hates all bodily fluids (has blood phobias and whatnot). Then again some of the ladies I've roleplayed online with seemed to think it was a good idea.
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Personally I dont see what the big thing about cumming ON a woman instead of IN her is about. If Im in her and close to cumming, the last thing I want to do is worry about pulling out, moving around and jerking off on her. For me thats bye bye orgasm. I want to cum inside her. Same with a blowjob. I dont want to leave a nice, warm, wet, inviting mouth or pussy to jerk off.
If shes giving me a handjob or Im between her breasts thats something else but I would still let it go wherever it wanted to. My opinion and YMMV.
If shes giving me a handjob or Im between her breasts thats something else but I would still let it go wherever it wanted to. My opinion and YMMV.
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I agree with asking her how she felt about cumming on other parts of her body first and see what she thinks and then maybe working your way up from there. I have never personally given anyone a facial, never really even thought about it. I guess for me I would think that a woman would not be into it and in most cases a guy is only interested in cumming so there might not be any real preference as to exactly where he did, other than in her pussy, ass, and mouth. I think it is more of a primal instinct brought out by porn. I believe if there wasn't any porn one wouldn't be inclined to even think about a facial. I agree it is hot to watch though. I wouldn't be against it if my partner brought it up.
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Interesting that the last few posts are all guys....
I don't really understand why it's a big deal - to do it or to receive it - but if it makes my partner hot or adds something, I'll try it, why not? Afterall, I'm willing to swallow. I wouldn't want him to pull out and deprive me of an O just so he could give me a facial tho!
As I understand it, that fluid really can provide the benefits of a salon facial, kinda like a nutrient mask...maybe you just need to package it like that, lol.
I don't really understand why it's a big deal - to do it or to receive it - but if it makes my partner hot or adds something, I'll try it, why not? Afterall, I'm willing to swallow. I wouldn't want him to pull out and deprive me of an O just so he could give me a facial tho!
As I understand it, that fluid really can provide the benefits of a salon facial, kinda like a nutrient mask...maybe you just need to package it like that, lol.
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None of my ex's have liked it too much, possibly because my first blast or two are a bit powerful. Only had a couple that didn't gag when they swallowed as it was half way down their throats before they knew it. Several have loved it elsewhere on their bodies because they were able to rub it into their skin afterwards, but mostly being able to see it "cum" out my cock.
