Fabulous Phone Sex

[texasgemini2002]

Hello LIT posters...

I need a little help.

I have had an amazing opportunity to experience some really HOT phone sex recently...it's his voice...his confidence...mmm...and I don't know what else that just sends me over the edge! I am finding this really exciting and look forward to each time we talk...

My question is this...I don't want the passion and excitement to die...it is too good.

I would love any advice, ideas, or stories that other LIT posters might have to give me some ideas...keeping my experiences fresh and exciting with my phone guy

TexasGemini

 

[Lust Engine]

What is it exactly is he saying that's driving you over the edge? Are there particular actions he's describing, particular words, the tone of voice, the grunting/ groaning/ moaning...? Is it the entire package of things that sends quivers up your spine? Describe to us a little more as to exactly what he does that makes you go googily & maybe we can help you tailor something more to help you keep the fires going.

Because right now all I can suggest is reciprocate in your own way.

 

[SexyChele]

Keep your imagination in gear! It can be easy to simply slip into a pattern that becomes boring and routine. Or one in which one partner feels they are doing more or less.

Think of scenarios during breaks in your day. Imagine things you would like to do with this person. And most of all - relay your fantasies, things you would like to try, and how you think you would like to see them played out.

Take clues from him, listen to what gets him off, and come up with ideas involving that.

Good luck!

 

[watergirl]

i had my second phone sex experience last night. It was amazingly different from my first - as to be expected, since it was with an entirely different person!

Last night was really wonderful, because although it was the first time we've spoken, we've chatted enough that I felt very at ease with him, and he has a great voice - just relaxed, and energetic, and friendly - much different than the first guy, some weeks ago, who sounded tense and furtive, as if he was trying to sneak around, or get away with someone, or intimidate me somehow.

I haven't got any suggestions, but will be keeping half an eye on reading anything else that crops up here!

 

[rumncokeguy]

Just wondering what you look for in your phonemate it always puzzles me that it is easy for women to act out their fantasy over the phone with a magical mystery man yet a man must pay 2.99/ min yes I admit i tried it once but never really could get off really not in a way that would substantiate calling again is there something wrong here? Just a rant

 

[watergirl]

welcome welcome, rumncokeguy...

hey, i'm too new at this to have much to say about phonesex...

it has to be someone i'm comfortable chatting with online, tho...

and it's not something i would ever pay for... i prefer online, or reading lit stories, as far as getting off - but that's just me, not saying that as a blanket statement for all women.

my two cents

 

[SexyChele]

Rumncokeguy, not everyone gets off on phone sex so don't feel bad!

Some people can hook up with just about anyone and get off. That has not been the case with me. As with most things I do, I tried it once a while back with guys I met online. The problem was that almost all of them either used their cell phones (free minutes, no charge for long distance) and were cut off. Or there is the guy who calls you 3 seconds before he is ready to come, he explodes at the sound of a woman's voice, and then hangs up. Then there is the guy whose wife is in the next room - all goes well, until she walks in unexpectedly and you get a click as he hangs up on you. (Of course, you never knew he was married until you meet up with him online later)

For me, phone sex is only reserved for men who I've met online and have chatted with over an extended period of time. I used to have an excellent phone sex partner, but unfortunately that has ended. I'm not anxious to pursue another one, but am open to future possibilities. It has to be some one I respect and admire, and some one I can chat with about other things. I hate it when men get on the phone and immediately "dive in". I usually end up hanging up!

As for cost, the best thing that I have found is phone cards. You can buy them at any convenience store and they come in various demoniations. It is cheaper than your regular phone - a lot cheaper! Just something to consider.... (They make great gifts as well!)

 

[watergirl]

also, I think things get better with time. The first time will be strange. The second time with someone, you'll both be more comfortable, and so forth..

 

[StevenWill]

good points

Everybody here has good points. Like most men, I have had less phone sex that I would have liked. For me, it is best when we chat and get to know each other and get comfortable. It's like any relationship in that finding out about them makes them more of a total person. Then you can explore what each of you find exciting. You could each suggest a story from Lit that the other can read and then you have something to talk about. As in face to face sex, I like the build up to be there before the sex begins. On the phone, it's better for me if both get to the point of being really excited and receptive. Jumping in with "I wanna lick you pussy and fuck you baby" will probably not work. You both wont be at the same place. Take it nice and slow until you are both ready to let go.

My 2 cents.

Steve (1-800-PHONE ME)

 

[watergirl]

"It's easier to turn a friend into a lover than to turn a lover into a friend."


I've done both, and you are right.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I need practice at phone sex...I never know what to say!!!

 

[RomanHans]

I need practice at phone sex...I never know what to say!!!

I just discovered that my phone was having sex without me. I feel so betrayed.

Roman

 

[SexyChele]

I just discovered that my phone was having sex without me. I feel so betrayed.

Roman

I hate when that happens! The damn thing has more fun than I do!

 

[Spenser41]

Ok
I am going to share my experiences. About 7 yrs ago, I meet on line an older woman (yea I know... lol) She was like 55 and I was 41. This woman and I chatted for a long time and finally she asked me to call her. I did and well, I heard this buzzing noise in the background. LOL Yes you guessed it. This was my first phone sex call and I had no idea what to do. To be honest she did it all, and man was it hot. I never did like cyber, but phone can be so hot because you hear the other person getting hot and excited. However, if the person is very shy and does not talk much it kind of kills the mood. Over the years I have had phone sex many times. I have been told I have a very nice sexy voice ( was in radio for years) and what I did for my partner was just discribe what I would do if I was there, tell her what to do, how to touch herself, what I was doing... almost create a erotic story time on the phone. Most have loved it and enjoyed it and there is nothing more exciting them hearing a woman climax. This is a great thing to do if your lover lives far away or if you have to travel or if you just have a friend you do this with for mutal release. If she loves toys encourage her to have them around. Some women love them , some women hate them... but the main thing is paint an exciting image and talk as if you were there making love to her and most of the time, it is enjoyable for both of you.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

OMG...I'm such a dork

I have a problem with phone sex...I'm not bad at it, but I have a hard time catching the hints that it is TIME for phone sex....subtlety is wasted on me. I feel like such a jackass, and I could use some help in figuring out when and how to start it.

 

[sheath]

Re: OMG...I'm such a dork

I have a problem with phone sex...I'm not bad at it, but I have a hard time catching the hints that it is TIME for phone sex....subtlety is wasted on me. I feel like such a jackass, and I could use some help in figuring out when and how to start it.

Ideas...here are a few just thrown out there...

If she casually mentions that she is lying in bed...how comfortable it is...

If she says something about what she is wearing or how she wished you were there RIGHT NOW...

If she steers the discussion toward sex and you begin to discuss it in any way, you just might have a lead-in to more...

If her voice drops seductively...

Or you could just casually ask, "what are you doing right now?" She answers with something random. You say: (in your deepest and sexiest voice) "Know what I would love you to do right now?"

If she takes the hint, you're in, baby.

S.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Re: Re: OMG...I'm such a dork

Ideas...here are a few just thrown out there...

If she casually mentions that she is lying in bed...how comfortable it is...

If she says something about what she is wearing or how she wished you were there RIGHT NOW...

If she steers the discussion toward sex and you begin to discuss it in any way, you just might have a lead-in to more...

If her voice drops seductively...

Or you could just casually ask, "what are you doing right now?" She answers with something random. You say: (in your deepest and sexiest voice) "Know what I would love you to do right now?"

If she takes the hint, you're in, baby.

S.

Thank you sweetie...I just hope she gives me another chance! I spent about 3 hours missing clues this morning...

 

[texasgemini2002]

I am so excited that you all are posting your thoughts on this thread...I waited and didn't hear anything for a while...made me kind of sad

But now...seems things are on a roll!

TexasGemini

 

[Spenser41]

Well
If she likes you, I am sure there will be more clues to follow.

 

[Spenser41]

I am so excited that you all are posting your thoughts on this thread...I waited and didn't hear anything for a while...made me kind of sad

But now...seems things are on a roll!

TexasGemini

Glad we could make you day!

 

[texasgemini2002]

Re: Re: OMG...I'm such a dork

Ideas...here are a few just thrown out there...

If she casually mentions that she is lying in bed...how comfortable it is...

If she says something about what she is wearing or how she wished you were there RIGHT NOW...

If she steers the discussion toward sex and you begin to discuss it in any way, you just might have a lead-in to more...

If her voice drops seductively...

Or you could just casually ask, "what are you doing right now?" She answers with something random. You say: (in your deepest and sexiest voice) "Know what I would love you to do right now?"

If she takes the hint, you're in, baby.

S.

I think this is really good advice...from my experience...this is where it does start.

I only hate when it happens too soon...I have to have time to get into the mood. As mentioned earlier...the experience is so much better when you know the person and little details about them out of the "bedroom"...this way these details can be brought in and make things all the better.

TexasGemini

 

[texasgemini2002]

Glad we could make you day!

Oh Spenser...you have made my day!

This is a hot topic for me right now...I only want to be able to make things hotter...

TexasGemini

 

[texasgemini2002]

Johnny Mayberry

What kinds of clues do you think you were missing?

And, what brought about the call? Had you talked before on the phone? Just curious what was involved with the lead in...

TexasGemini

 

[Spenser41]

Re: Re: Re: OMG...I'm such a dork

I think this is really good advice...from my experience...this is where it does start.

I only hate when it happens too soon...I have to have time to get into the mood. As mentioned earlier...the experience is so much better when you know the person and little details about them out of the "bedroom"...this way these details can be brought in and make things all the better.

TexasGemini

Yes I do agree with this. Most of the women that I did have phone sex with, we did talk about other things. Became friends. But then there were those days when it was like... I NEED YOU NOW! LOL those were fun too. But it is nice when you take your time and enjoy. For many, LD charges can get high if you talk for a long time. So one thing to do is talk about it here on line. This could be a form of foreplay, then when you call you can keep it going instead of starting off cold.

 

[Spenser41]

Oh Spenser...you have made my day!

This is a hot topic for me right now...I only want to be able to make things hotter...

TexasGemini

Let me tell you, there are few women, in my opinion that can not make this topic hotter. Most of the women here on lit are very open and very hot and if I were to ever do phone with one of the ladies from here, I am sure we would melt the phone lines.