Extraordinary people

[Starlightangel]

I have a question. It is something that has come up a lot.

If you met someone you truly felt was an extraordinary person, wouldn’t you want to keep them in your life?

 

[SoulAssasin247]

Of course, I would improve myself and get inspiration. I live the extraordinary and dislike the basic

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Of course, I would improve myself and get inspiration. I live the extraordinary and dislike the basic

What about waffles? Would you say using syrup is basic and the best, most awesome extraordinary waffle are topped with strawberries and lots of whipped cream?

 

[SoulAssasin247]

What about waffles? Would you say using syrup is basic and the best, most awesome extraordinary waffle are topped with strawberries and lots of whipped cream?

When I am talking about basic, I am not taking about preference in food. I am not a waffle fan, but they do taste delicious

 

[Starlightangel]

Of course, I would improve myself and get inspiration. I live the extraordinary and dislike the basic

Thank you.

 

[LucianaGrace]

I have a question. It is something that has come up a lot.

If you met someone you truly felt was an extraordinary person, wouldn’t you want to keep them in your life?

I wouldn’t. I would be tempted to hold onto them for as long as I can. But if being in my life is a detriment to their extraordinary qualities and potential, I wouldn’t want that in the slightest. I’d want them to be free to truly be themselves and live their best life. I’d want them to share their extraordinary self with the world.

 

[angelofthenorth]

I wouldn’t. I would be tempted to hold onto them for as long as I can. But if being in my life is a detriment to their extraordinary qualities and potential, I wouldn’t want that in the slightest. I’d want them to be free to truly be themselves and live their best life. I’d want them to share their extraordinary self with the world.

that is a very honest answer Lucy, I'm not sure what I would do. I'm still thinking on it, but it is a very good question

 

[LucianaGrace]

that is a very honest answer Lucy, I'm not sure what I would do. I'm still thinking on it, but it is a very good question

 

[Starlightangel]

I wouldn’t. I would be tempted to hold onto them for as long as I can. But if being in my life is a detriment to their extraordinary qualities and potential, I wouldn’t want that in the slightest. I’d want them to be free to truly be themselves and live their best life. I’d want them to share their extraordinary self with the world.

That’s a beautiful thought.

 

[Starlightangel]

I guess what I’m saying is that I can’t imagine a situation where I felt someone was truly amazing and wouldn’t WANT them in my life. And I sure as hell couldn’t imagine pushing them out.

I’m curious about people who do. Who find amazing and extraordinary people, and then push them out of their lives. I just don’t understand.

 

[LucianaGrace]

That’s a beautiful thought.

I guess what I’m saying is that I can’t imagine a situation where I felt someone was truly amazing and wouldn’t WANT them in my life. And I sure as hell couldn’t imagine pushing them out.

I’m curious about people who do. Who find amazing and extraordinary people, and then push them out of their lives. I just don’t understand.

People who harbour self-hate. People who don’t feel worthy to be around such light-inspiring individuals. People who are fearful of corrupting such beauty.

Self-sabotage is a very real and darkening thing.

 

[Jada59]

People who harbour self-hate. People who don’t feel worthy to be around such light-inspiring individuals. People who are fearful of corrupting such beauty.

Self-sabotage is a very real and darkening thing.

Yes. I feel that each of us has our own vibrational level. Those who are on a higher level would likely not push anyone away unless perhaps that person is really dragging us down in some way.

For instance, in my long ago past, I had a friend who could be amazing in many ways but she also had a serious drug and alcohol problem and became a big problem in my life. As in trying to blame me for bad things that she did. Or expecting me to get her out of bad situations time and time again.

I can remember the day she stood outside my window with her two dogs, drunk and high as a kite around 2:00 a.m. I had to be at work at 6:00 a.m. I told her to leave or I would call the police. That was the last straw for me.

I did see her once many years after that. She was very ill. We spoke briefly.

I am once again in contact with her on social media now. She lives in another state. She seems to have few friends and based on their comments, she still doesn't have her act together. Sad because she was such an intelligent and friendly person at one point in time.

I have other people in my life that I am related to. That to me is the only thing we have in common. I feel some sort of obligation to them and yet I must limit my contact with them because they are such hateful people who love to put down others, wallow in their own self pity, complain about nearly everything and try in vain to control everything and everyone they can.

I also remember telling my now ex some years ago that he wasn't treating me well. Because he wasn't. And that I chose to spend my time with people who did treat me well. He didn't get it. That's why he's my ex.