Extra-Marital Sex - Pregnancy Risk

[Archie89]

Hey guys, I'm just wondering about the issue of pregnancy risk when a married wife has unprotected sex with another man.

1. Turn on or not?

2. How would you lead the story to risky bareback sex?

 

[sr71plt]

I'm sure it has a fetish audience. It has the problem for many readers of stories to be mostly dilemma and buildup with few options for a killer resolution--unless you do a "what happened years later when child meets real father" tacked-on ending--and then you are watering down the original fetish.

 

[Hypoxia]

Hey guys, I'm just wondering about the issue of pregnancy risk when a married wife has unprotected sex with another man.

1. Turn on or not?

For some, yes. For others, feh. For yet others, it's part of the storyline -- where does it go from there?

2. How would you lead the story to risky bareback sex?

Depends on the wedded folks' personalities. Are either simple and easily manipulated? Is he impotent, she's desperate for a child, and there's no other way? Is she seriously cuckolding him, fucking around behind his back, heedless of consequences? Is he a masochistic wittol anxious to be humiliated? Is she only a careless drunk? Do racial factors intrude?

More important: How do you want the story to end? What fallout do you see?

 

[Handley_Page]

Depends on the wedded folks' personalities. Are either simple and easily manipulated? Is he impotent, she's desperate for a child, and there's no other way? Is she seriously cuckolding him, fucking around behind his back, heedless of consequences? Is he a masochistic wittol anxious to be humiliated? Is she only a careless drunk? Do racial factors intrude?

More important: How do you want the story to end? What fallout do you see?

To say nothing of WHEN the story is set.
These days, most women would be on the Pill.

 

[Hypoxia]

To say nothing of WHEN the story is set.
These days, most women would be on the Pill.

What comes to mind is an old mainstream story set on a midwestern US Army base in the late 1930s when military pay and respect were low. A sergeant can't keep his slutty wife from fucking everything that moves whilst he's off on maneuvers. She's not always insistent on condom use. Will her next child be white or black or brown or what?

I'd twist that, staying in the same space-time locus. He's a wimpy Captain from a prominent family (the officer corps were class-based then) with a bitchy blue-blood slut-wife. She fucked her way through prep school and women's college and she fucks all hubby's superiors to ensure his promotions. He can't quite stop her and he maybe wouldn't mind if she has a colonel's or general's kid, so long as he makes Major this year. Does he encourage her bareback infidelity?

 

[Carnevil9]

To say nothing of WHEN the story is set.
These days, most women would be on the Pill.

Many women can't take The Pill. Even more can't take it when they get a little older: late thirties, forties, early fifties. Just the time when an unexpected pregnancy would be even more inconvenient.

That said, my old pappy always told me, son, never hesitate to fuck a married woman. Ain't nobody gonna miss a slice off a cut loaf. And if you knock her up, its on the other fella's tab.

 

[Handley_Page]

Many women can't take The Pill. Even more can't take it when they get a little older: late thirties, forties, early fifties. Just the time when an unexpected pregnancy would be even more inconvenient.

That said, my old pappy always told me, son, never hesitate to fuck a married woman. Ain't nobody gonna miss a slice off a cut loaf. And if you knock her up, its on the other fella's tab.

I reckon your ole' Pappy was right!

 

[OliviaM]

Many women can't take The Pill. Even more can't take it when they get a little older: late thirties, forties, early fifties. Just the time when an unexpected pregnancy would be even more inconvenient.

Women have also become pregnant when they thought they were in menopause, or thinking they were too old and there's no way it would happen after all this time. Turns out, nope! Just a last minute pregnancy.

That said, my old pappy always told me, son, never hesitate to fuck a married woman. Ain't nobody gonna miss a slice off a cut loaf. And if you knock her up, its on the other fella's tab.

That is super depressing.

 

[lovecraft68]

Many women can't take The Pill. Even more can't take it when they get a little older: late thirties, forties, early fifties. Just the time when an unexpected pregnancy would be even more inconvenient.

That said, my old pappy always told me, son, never hesitate to fuck a married woman. Ain't nobody gonna miss a slice off a cut loaf. And if you knock her up, its on the other fella's tab.

Nice guy sounds like my uncles and my birth father. They were all pieces of shit. One was stabbed to death by the husband of a woman he was 'getting a slice of'

My old man told me "If its not yours don't touch it because no piece of ass is worth the drama." He'd go on to say that when you screw around with married women or even 'attached' women some day a mad dog is going to show up with your name on his lips. My aforementioned uncle proved that right.

I think married people who cheat tell you everything you need to know about that person right there. First and foremost, could you be less trust worthy.

Any man who fucks a married woman is a piece of shit and she's no better.

 

[lovecraft68]

That is super depressing.

No its called being a 'real man'

 

[geronimo_appleby]

put it in fetish.

and there are a gazillion ways to lead in to it (no pun).

it could be her fetish?

 

[Hypoxia]

That is super depressing.

Reality has a manic-depressive bias. Manic for the predator, depressive for the prey. Biology is not necessarily destiny but it sure can be hard to avoid.

it could be her fetish?

Which is her fetish: Risking pregnancy? Or demanding and expecting it? Does she depend on coitus interruptus, or spider-wrap him to keep him inside?

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Reality has a manic-depressive bias. Manic for the predator, depressive for the prey. Biology is not necessarily destiny but it sure can be hard to avoid.

Which is her fetish: Risking pregnancy? Or demanding and expecting it? Does she depend on coitus interruptus, or spider-wrap him to keep him inside?

her fetish is the bareback element. there's some medical reason for being unable to conceive. she blanks that out - for the purposes of our story. ergo, there is no risk in reality.but it's all about the psychology.

still, there's an issue of STDs...

so her partners have to be vetted - in a non-medical sense!

...or, maybe her partners are all jaffas?

 

[lovecraft68]

To bad this thread couldn't be linked in every Loving wives story due to release tomorrow. Pure apoplexy

 

[Hypoxia]

her fetish is the bareback element. there's some medical reason for being unable to conceive. she blanks that out - for the purposes of our story. ergo, there is no risk in reality.but it's all about the psychology.

still, there's an issue of STDs...

so her partners have to be vetted - in a non-medical sense!

Non-medical vetting for a medical issue?

Let's see if I have this. Sterile, she has no get-me-pregnant fetish, but the usual fuck-me drive. Baeback, she is at risk of STDs but screens potential partners to avoid such. She has a bareback-sex fetish -- with no risks. Where is the drama? Is she cheating? Then it's just another LW story -- which Naoko won't approve of.

...or, maybe her partners are all jaffas?

I had to look that up. I don't suppose you meant the Cadbury candy. STARGATE stuff, huh? I saw the original film but nothing newer. They're alien symbiote hosts? Is that sexy?

Bareback sex implies risks. With humans. The riskier the humans, the better. Some of her raw partners scratch and bite, and she claws and bites back. Hope they've all had their rabies shots! She feels guys about to cum inside her and she pushes them out for external ejaculation -- hopefully before hot sperm find her hungry ova and spirochetes invade her.. The risks are the thrills. Her bareback fetish leads her to the edge of disaster. Nothing hotter than that!

 

[sr71plt]

If you write GM, the whole pregnancy thing becomes a nonissue.

 

[EverLux]

If you write GM, the whole pregnancy thing becomes a nonissue.

Damn shame, too! GM is one of my favorite categories to read, but it would be so much better if men could get pregnant. (IMO, of course )

 

[sr71plt]

Damn shame, too! GM is one of my favorite categories to read, but it would be so much better if men could get pregnant. (IMO, of course )

This thread could be combined with the research thread to create a GM story where men are getting diseases that make them capable of getting pregnant. That would open up a whole new plot line field (if it hasn't already been done, which it probably has).

 

[OliviaM]

No its called being a 'real man'

I was about to get mad and then saw it was you. Carry on.

All of this is reminding me of an article/personal essay some guy wrote earlier in the year -- I want to say it was on Salon -- about how he and his wife had gone through years of expensive infertility treatments and how his marriage fell apart. (I remember the article came across as him trying to seem so grounded and self-aware but in reality he was probably a total jerk. The article was just a way to punish her.) He pushed for an open marriage after fooling around at Burning Man. So the wife started seeing someone else and got pregnant almost immediately, with twins, iirc. She ended up divorcing him and marrying the father. Crazy.

Edit: Forgot to add the point I was going to make. I don't wish to get into the realm of "women have ways of shutting that down" in regards to pregnancy, but there is something to be said for a woman feeling loved and safe and that leading to the right conditions for pregnancy. Stress, sometimes caused by not completely trusting your partner, can be a huge factor in not being able to get pregnant.

 

[Sammael Bard]

I think extra-marital sex should be categorised as fetish (not Literotica categorisation). Some may like that. Some won't. If you're going to post it in Loving Wives, remember to grow a thick skin. The comments section will be very, very ugly.

Risk of pregnancy can be inserted by doing it 'in the heat of the moment'. You really want to have sex but don't want to get pregnant.

"I can't let you cum inside me.."

"I'll pull out."

And the man may or may not forget to do a coitus interruptus. That's one way to do it.

You can also make the cheating partner a bit reluctant to engage in bareback. But once they're doing it, they forget about the risks etc etc.

 

[EverLux]

This thread could be combined with the research thread to create a GM story where men are getting diseases that make them capable of getting pregnant. That would open up a whole new plot line field (if it hasn't already been done, which it probably has).

The closest I've found to that is when one man spills his "seed" into another's "man pussy." I vaguely remember a story where that led to a pregnancy, but it came out of nowhere, and there was no explanation for it. Plus, it was poorly written.

I wouldn't be surprised if someone made a gay porn parody of Junior with this twist on it.

 

[EverLux]

"I can't let you cum inside me.."

"I'll pull out."

And the man may or may not forget to do a coitus interruptus. That's one way to do it.

Probably the most realistic reason for it.
This is exactly how my friend became pregnant.


To the OP: Search "pregnancy risk" on tumblr. Plenty of ideas there.

 

[lovecraft68]

My wife never wanted kids so not long into our marriage I got clipped. Her reasoning was career, and she wants to do as she wants and most importantly be the only spoiled brat in the house. I think there was also the factor of seeing my daughters from my first marriage and thinking "I am not making one of those!"

But a few times over the years if we're role playing in the middle of it she starts with, whatever you do, don't cum inside me! I can't get pregnant! My husband...which of course is all code to do it then when I do she acts turned on and offended at the same time like "No, stop! No, ohhhh."

And people think I'm the sick one of the two of us.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Non-medical vetting for a medical issue?

Let's see if I have this. Sterile, she has no get-me-pregnant fetish, but the usual fuck-me drive. Baeback, she is at risk of STDs but screens potential partners to avoid such. She has a bareback-sex fetish -- with no risks. Where is the drama? Is she cheating? Then it's just another LW story -- which Naoko won't approve of.

no. fetish.

 

[BuckyDuckman]

There's a faction out there who like the idea of "Did she get pregnant?"

Many of these people also seem to think every women gets pregnant from a single episode of unprotected sex.

If it works for your story, or adds to YOUR thrill, go for it. Otherwise, don't add shit in hopes of a better score. Write the best you can and the scores will eventually come.