Explain Online Attraction to Me.

[juicylips]

I realize there is instanteous physical attraction, but online you don't have that. It is through words.

Two guys can say almost the exact same thing to me..one will click and one won't. Some do more than just click, they send me over the fucking edge.

How does it work for you? How do you know you are attracted to someone here at Lit or someplace online? Do you always persue a relationship, whether it be just friends or maybe lovers?


JL

 

[riff]

I stumble through the neon night.... LOL

Jumping Jesus On A Pogo Stick, JL, how do you answer a Q like that?

 

[SpectralDragoon]

*slams an ice cube down on juicy's computer desk*


alright, now that i've broken the ice, can i take you upstairs and fuck you? *cheesey sexy grin*




so... how was that, drive ya over the edge?

 

[RawHumor]

It's the way the words are strung together along with your impression of that person before you read those words.

For example, if I were to say to you:
"I'd love to approach you from behind, cupping and squeezing your breasts, pinching your nippls just a bit as my mouth moved to your neck... inhaling the intoxicating fragrance of your perfume... my excitement and desire for you pressing against your ass as your nipple respond to my touch..."

You'd likely respond better than someone you really dislike saying:
"Hey baby, I wanna dry-hump your ass and squeeze your tits while I dribble all over your neck!"

 

[Behind the mask]

Well I'd just nod and agree and hope she left it at that

JL

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Juicy honestly I belive it has to do with the spirit
your spirt is atracted to other spirtis
so you can see two guys that are clones of each other and you like one more cause of who they are inside.

that's how I am. I"m atracted to the inside before I am the body.

and yes I presue a relationship with all I click with. Freindships mean the world to me.

 

[sabbathstorm]

It's the way they word things that gets my attention. Sometimes the way they approach me in PMs or a thread. There are certain qualities I appreciate in real life that transfer to here. I have gained a few good friends here that I'd be friends with if I met in person. They're just the type of people I get along with.

 

[Nicodemus]

It is all about how you say what you say. Online is based on your words but is also affected by mood. If you are in a particularly randy mood then raw direct may work better. A bit more laid back and you may need to be wooed a bit.

Nic,

 

[SpectralDragoon]

Hey baby, I wanna dry-hump your ass and squeeze your tits while I dribble all over your neck!"

[/B]

Whoa, you go to the same chat network I do? Weird!

 

[lovetoread]

Its not what they say, its how they say it.

Write me something that catches my eye...thats what you need.

 

[SpectralDragoon]

To answer your question though...

I think that if the person really makes you laugh and smile alot while they're on line, and you think about them and miss them while they're not around, and share things with them that you may not with any other, you know it's more than a friendly attraction. You're right though, they've definitley gotta be your type.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[brokenbrainwave]

Take a woman that I talk to constantly in another chat forum, we at times spend hours talking about dreams desires, fantasies, and sometimes it's purely inane blather. Like myself she is also married. While hers is not that happy she understands that mine is, and nothing physical can ever come from our "relationship". The main reason, I have no reason or desire to be unfaithful to my wife. In a different time and place, she and I would become a couple, there is no doubt about it in either of our minds because we just "click". Have from the day we met online and months later the attraction is still strong, if not stronger. Can I explain the feelings we share, never. It's like when you meet someone in real life and your heart flutters a tad for you know there is something there. Online attractions are the same way, even if there is not the instant "wow, she's a babe" or "My God he is fine". Visual stimilation only carries a relationship so far, but mental stimuli makes a much more profound impact.

 

[juicylips]

*slams an ice cube down on juicy's computer desk*


alright, now that i've broken the ice, can i take you upstairs and fuck you? *cheesey sexy grin*




so... how was that, drive ya over the edge?

Actually....

that was pretty good.

JL

 

[weed]

love at first mind's sight

The spirit, yes, fly

SpectralDragoon To answer your question though...

I think that if the person really makes you laugh and smile alot while they're on line, and you think about them and miss them while they're not around, and share things with them that you may not with any other, you know it's more than a friendly attraction. You're right though, they've definitley gotta be your type.

Definately, SD

The kindness and respect he shows others in his postings. The way the things he says to me makes me soooooo hot and wet. The way he gets turned on by me. The way he accepts me no matter what I tell him. The way I can tell him anything and feel safe about it. Trust. The way he looks for me and only me. The way we can love and still be practical with it, even if its wild and overwhelming at times......oh, I could go on.

 

[plasticman33]

On line attraction is different, you get to know someone for their mind. In RL most people are attracted by physical appearance, on line the physical side doesn't inhibit getting to know someone very well or even developing a strong relationship. Maybe it's a better way of learning about individuals, being attracted by a persons mind rather than their body.

 

[SpectralDragoon]

Actually....

that was pretty good.

JL

Wait... it was?

*Swoon*

wooohooo

 

[Rex1960]

On line attraction is different, you get to know someone for their mind. In RL most people are attracted by physical appearance, on line the physical side doesn't inhibit getting to know someone very well or even developing a strong relationship. Maybe it's a better way of learning about individuals, being attracted by a persons mind rather than their body.

i second that...
posting anything more would lead me too far away from the one who attracted me ever since i met her on the board.

love at first sight on the internet - weird ?

Rex

 

[SpectralDragoon]

I agree back atcha weed.

Respect is needed, trust is B I G.
When you can feel safe with someone, you know it's a different type of relationship. How many of your so called friends can you really feel safe with?

Throws it into a good perspective.

 

[weed]

I agree back atcha weed.

Respect is needed, trust is B I G.
When you can feel safe with someone, you know it's a different type of relationship. How many of your so called friends can you really feel safe with?

Throws it into a good perspective.

Been a long time since I had a friend (and lover) in RL like this
And there's nothing unreal about it.

 

[SpectralDragoon]

seems easier to find on-line.
recently made one of these good friends I can trust. Tis a good thing indeed!

 

[juicylips]

It's the way the words are strung together along with your impression of that person before you read those words.

<snip>

But...

What if you have NO impression of the person. It has happened before. I don't know that person from Adam..and something just ignites in a post. (Usually the way it happens for me)

It's not to say that someone can't catch my attention in a pm, but most usually it is a spontaneous happening.

JL

 

[lovetoread]

What if you have NO impression of the person. It has happened before. I don't know that person from Adam..and something just ignites in a post. (Usually the way it happens for me)

Heh,ya know I never had a clue who Tiger was until one day he posted on my thread....

and well the rest is history.

 

[Astro]

Spanner in the works

Looks like I am the first negative on this thread.

Any way, I dont trust online attractions and yea I have had them and I think they are great. However As much as I might click with a lass online, I need to click with her physicaly. The internet is a great place to meet people, esp those with similiar views as one's self but personally for me I need both the physical and the mental.

 

[juicylips]

Heh,ya know I never had a clue who Tiger was until one day he posted on my thread....

and well the rest is history.

A very happy ending, I must say.


My attractions haven't quite ended that way, lol. I usually just want to fuck their brains out.

JL