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[sr71plt]

I realize that this is still under hot debate, but the general consensus of most open-minded people is that it is not a lifestyle choice.

You would do well to remember that on this site, especially since you seem to have some enemies and probably don't want to make more.

I wonder if wanting to fuck and torture your sister is a life choice.

 

[beatrice_dreams]

Where else? And are you criticizing me for admitting it? I guess I'm supposed to pretend I was right? Is that the way it's done here?

No, you're quite right to admit it, and I commend that. I was merely attempting to make light of our run-in the other night in another thread, particularly as I got a bit overheated over nothing because I didn't read the thread carefully enough either! No malice intended...it's called gentle teasing!

 

[BB47]

Methinks there might be a rivalry fetish afoot.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I realize that this is still under hot debate, but the general consensus of most open-minded people is that it is not a lifestyle choice.

You would do well to remember that on this site, especially since you seem to have some enemies and probably don't want to make more.

A babbling idiot is hardly the kind of enemy one could be proud of having.

 

[BB47]

I realize that this is still under hot debate, but the general consensus of most open-minded people is that it is not a lifestyle choice.

You would do well to remember that on this site, especially since you seem to have some enemies and probably don't want to make more.

That's alright, it's a healthy debate. It makes people actually stop and think about it.

 

[Stella_Omega]

That's alright, it's a healthy debate. It makes people actually stop and think about it.

No, it really doesn't.

People who ignorant will nod their heads, and the people who know better won't bother to respond for the bazillionth time.

 

[lovecraft68]

A babbling idiot is hardly the kind of enemy one could be proud of having.

So are we going to go with the "born this way" theory? You can have that one. I'm not going to debate that with those who claim to be the be all end all on the subject. Which includes safe bet who is due to crash in here any minute now spewing her man hating propaganda

What I will say is homosexuality is not a "fetish" If it was then Heterosexuality would be as well. A sexual preference is not a fetish.

Sexual fetishism, sexual attraction to objects, body parts, or situations not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature.

 

[Stella_Omega]

What I will say is homosexuality is not a "fetish" If it was then Heterosexuality would be as well. A sexual preference is not a fetish.

And that is all that needs to be said.

Really.

 

[lovecraft68]

I wonder if wanting to fuck and torture your sister is a life choice.

No enjoyment of pain during sex is a fetish. Being a switch I enjoy it immensely. The fact that I have never placed you on ignore should prove what a masochist I am.

BTW I finished my series months ago, its time for a new dig SR, your jokes are becoming as unoriginal as your stories.

And please don't get into the debate of homo/bisexuality. Hearing remarks from Stella is one thing, but I'm not going to pay attention to someone who only knows what they can google.

 

[lovecraft68]

And that is all that needs to be said.

Really.

So a woman desiring a woman is a fetish? same for men? That's all it is? I would see that as belittling.

 

[BB47]

No, it really doesn't.

People who ignorant will nod their heads, and the people who know better won't bother to respond for the bazillionth time.

Wow...

 

[sr71plt]

I think you should read through the thread again, Lovecraft68. You are floundering around stupidly not only on what you've posted but on what others have posted as well.

It just doesn't seem to be a very good day for you here, guy--what with both feet in your mouth.

 

[Stella_Omega]

So a woman desiring a woman is a fetish? same for men? That's all it is? I would see that as belittling.

where did you get that from?

ALL I'm saying is that less words are often better than more. You can say that sexual preference is not a fetish, and no one will think you're an idiot. There's no need to talk about "lifestyle choices" in a way that pushes people's buttons. If you want to be an ally-- remember what an ally does.

 

[BB47]

So a woman desiring a woman is a fetish? same for men? That's all it is? I would see that as belittling.

I think she meant the opposite.

 

[BB47]

Hmm, ok quick question..

Do you think a fetish, like foot or bdsm is developed through our formative years (age 2 & 11) or are we born that way?

 

[lovecraft68]

Hmm, ok quick question..

Do you think a fetish, like foot or bdsm is developed through our formative years (age 2 & 11) or are we born that way?

Interesting question.

I believe that it can be a bit of both. I have a distinct memory of being around twelve years old and a friend of mine had gotten a hold of one of his dad's hustlers.

So there's three of us looking at these naked women and the other two are talking about their tits and pussy. I find myself looking at her bare feet.

I had no idea why I was, except I thought they looked sexy. Later on when I went and got one of my old man's magazines I ended up whacking off on one of the pics and it was on her feet. I have no clue what started it, but it's been there ever since.

As for BDSM/Pain I was told by a shrink years ago that my enjoyment of pain could have come from being knocked around as a kid, tends to blur the love/pain line. But who knows?

 

[lovecraft68]

where did you get that from?

ALL I'm saying is that less words are often better than more. You can say that sexual preference is not a fetish, and no one will think you're an idiot. There's no need to talk about "lifestyle choices" in a way that pushes people's buttons. If you want to be an ally-- remember what an ally does.

Mia Culpa,

I think I misunderstood you, too much yammering from someone else.

My apologies if Lifestyle is not the correct word here.

And for the record? You can deny it all you want, but tentacles are a fetish, so there!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Mia Culpa,

I think I misunderstood you, too much yammering from someone else.

My apologies if Lifestyle is not the correct word here.

"CHOICE" is not the right word. Okay?

And for the record? You can deny it all you want, but tentacles are a fetish, so there!

Noooo!

I love the... um, well, the critter that wields them, it's not just a sexual attraction.

Well, I like the critter.

Well, I like the critter's tentacles.

Okay, you got me.

 

[lovecraft68]

I think you should read through the thread again, Lovecraft68. You are floundering around stupidly not only on what you've posted but on what others have posted as well.

It just doesn't seem to be a very good day for you here, guy--what with both feet in your mouth.

I'd reply that it is better than what is in your mouth, but that would lead you to think that I believe you are BI and would enjoy that remark.

Instead just put in your mouth what you always do, anything anyone wants to feed you.

 

[BB47]

I'd reply that it is better than what is in your mouth, but that would lead you to think that I believe you are BI and would enjoy that remark.

Instead just put in your mouth what you always do, anything anyone wants to feed you.

Alright kids, simmer down.

 

[sr71plt]

Whatever that means.

(comment is on Swiftboaters' last post.)

 

[BB47]

"CHOICE" is not the right word. Okay? Noooo!

I love the... um, well, the critter that wields them, it's not just a sexual attraction.

Well, I like the critter.

Well, I like the critter's tentacles.

Okay, you got me.

Tentacles, eh? Where there Is one there are more. What other fetish(es) might you have?

 

[BB47]

Interesting question.

I believe that it can be a bit of both. I have a distinct memory of being around twelve years old and a friend of mine had gotten a hold of one of his dad's hustlers.

So there's three of us looking at these naked women and the other two are talking about their tits and pussy. I find myself looking at her bare feet.

I had no idea why I was, except I thought they looked sexy. Later on when I went and got one of my old man's magazines I ended up whacking off on one of the pics and it was on her feet. I have no clue what started it, but it's been there ever since.

As for BDSM/Pain I was told by a shrink years ago that my enjoyment of pain could have come from being knocked around as a kid, tends to blur the love/pain line. But who knows?

Can you remember back any farther? Anything else?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Tentacles, eh? Where there Is one there are more. What other fetish(es) might you have?

Oh, nothing too unusual-- rope, leather, pain, service, piss, clothing, watching men fuck each other, watching women fuck each other.

And animal play.

Oh, and mud. I almost forgot.

Although some of those might be more kinks than fetishes.

 

[BB47]

Hmm, ok quick question..

Do you think a fetish, like foot or bdsm is developed through our formative years (age 2 & 11) or are we born that way?

My opinion is that it is completely formative. No, I may not remember what caused my obsession with breasts, nor my "choice" (if you even want to call it that) to bind them forevermore to the development of my sexual attractions.. But, born that way? Ha.
What I do see is a lifetime of small nuances, each one furthering my fetish.