Everyday Sex - Ours (and Your) Sex Diary

[Wonderer67]

I thought I’d give this a go and see if it takes.

This is not just for us, feel free to share your own every day sexual experiences: the wild and wacky, the hot and memorable and even the mundane.

I love sharing but also feeling how couples have sex.

We have been married for nearly 10 years and together for almost 15. It’s a second marriage for both of us: I am 57 and my wife is 67.

Sex is integral to our to our relationship. We used to have sex 4-5 times a week and now it’s dipped a bit to 2-3. But quality over quantity I always say!

 

[Wonderer67]

Monday morning: 10/21

This one fell in the hot category! we stayed overnight in Philly after seeing a band Sunday night and had some great hotel sex.

I knew I’d be in for a treat because my wife told me to pack her g spot vibrator. She is a gusher/squirter so I knew she wanted to get me wet!

I woke first and started by putting her hand over my hard cock. I’m 57 but still wake up every morning with a raging hard on. She rubbed me and teased me for maybe 20 minutes, till my underwear was a little bit wet with pre-cum.

We started out by 69ing. I love having big lips right in my face and feeling her sucking my cock. After some of that, I pushed her up so that she could ride my cock reverse cowgirl.

(I did preemptively get some towels out of the bathroom…) She mounted me and came almost immediately. Something about that position puts my cock so intensely and perfectly on her G spot, causing her to orgasm and gush. We went at it several times, for about 10 minutes or so. She cums so easily from this position, she probably came 6-7 separate times, really soaking me. (Remember, I put down those towels preemptively…)

Then we fucked in missionary for a while. I love holding her wrists while I power fuck her. The room was a bit small and the bed considerably lower than our bed at home, so it was actually a little bit tricky. I fucked her several times till I was very close and then withdrew, sometimes rubbing her lips and clip with my cock, causing her to gush a tiny bit more.

She controls my orgasm, so I was not “ allowed” to cum.

Finally, I was so close that I wanted to take a little break. we lay in bed catching our breath for a few minutes and my wife told me to get out her vibrator.

We reconfigured the towels so that they were under the pillow now. She stood up on the bed and straddled me and began to fuck herself with her pink g spot vibe. Within a minute, she was gushing all over my face. How I love that!!!

We continued this for about 10 minutes and she must’ve come five or six times all over me.

It was hot and it makes me ridiculously hard.

Then she got up and literally swapped positions, me I top of her. She held her G spot vibe on my balls in the underside of my cock. it felt amazing, and I had to have her stop when I was close a few times.

Unfortunately, I could hold it. As much as we practice orgasm control, she took me over the edge. I came very hard, with four or five really hard ropes all over her hair.

She deliberately did not wash her hair Monday and we went out to breakfast that way. Amazing session!!

 

[ZfrkS62]

I'll add to this for a thread bump.

A few nights ago, my wife was heading out to the living room after her shower. I was already in bed, toothpaste still tingling from brushing my teeth. She was wearing her thin pajama top which has zero chance of keeping her nipples from poking through, and panties. For an Asian woman, she has an ass, and i can't get enough of grabbing it.

She came over to the bed and climbed in on my side when she saw me reach out for her butt. She was reclined on my pillows. Legs open, I'm on my stomach between them, and decided to pull her panties aside and start licking. Of course she started tingling because of the mint still on my tongue and was quickly getting into it.

I spent quite a bit of time alternating between licking and eating her pussy. I was trying different techniques and places and she was scratching and raking at my back, but lost her orgasm just before it hit several times.

She must have gotten annoyed with losing it and pulled me up to suck on her tits. My fingers slipped inside her and quickly gave her the orgasm that had been eluding her.

After licking her cum off my fingers, i started kissing and licking the side of her neck as she came down from her climax. We don't know what changed, but she started acting like she was going to cum again. I kept going to see if she would, but it really going to happen just by that.

It's not that I wasn't in the mood for sex, i just didn't go into this expecting to get my dick wet but i couldn't let this go, so i gently pressed into her while staying focused on her neck.

The way she had positioned herself meant i needed to stand with in foot on the floor and the other leg on the bed. She was easily able to grab the back of her knees to pull her legs up a little further. I kept a slow rocking cadence and she was going insane. Counted three orgasms after i started counting, two of which induced deep grunts.

I could feel her pussy convulsing around my cock, and by her body language, i could tell she was running out of stamina so i stroked longer and harder until the could feel the imminent finish line approaching.

Pulling out, i was just able to aim it above her pubic hair. I started ejaculating, but my orgasm was delayed until i was halfway done and hit like a Freightliner. I couldn't move despite wanting to lick my cum off of her. I had hoped she'd push me down (still waiting for her to do that) but neither of us were able to move.

We did try to recreate it two days later, but she wanted to get on top after a bit which cut my stamina down. She wanted me to finish behind her that time, which i did. Haven't had sex since.

 

[emme8]

I orgasmed this morning just from nipple stimulation. Hubby spooned behind me to wake me up very early. Held me close to him and tweaked my nipple for about 5 minutes.

Mentally I let myself slip into submission and just expirence it. Soon I was tingling, the squirming, then shaking, the shivering in a very happy way.

I thanked him, kissed him, then sent him to work horny.

 

[Wonderer67]

I'll add to this for a thread bump.

A few nights ago, my wife was heading out to the living room after her shower. I was already in bed, toothpaste still tingling from brushing my teeth. She was wearing her thin pajama top which has zero chance of keeping her nipples from poking through, and panties. For an Asian woman, she has an ass, and i can't get enough of grabbing it.

She came over to the bed and climbed in on my side when she saw me reach out for her butt. She was reclined on my pillows. Legs open, I'm on my stomach between them, and decided to pull her panties aside and start licking. Of course she started tingling because of the mint still on my tongue and was quickly getting into it.

I spent quite a bit of time alternating between licking and eating her pussy. I was trying different techniques and places and she was scratching and raking at my back, but lost her orgasm just before it hit several times.

She must have gotten annoyed with losing it and pulled me up to suck on her tits. My fingers slipped inside her and quickly gave her the orgasm that had been eluding her.

After licking her cum off my fingers, i started kissing and licking the side of her neck as she came down from her climax. We don't know what changed, but she started acting like she was going to cum again. I kept going to see if she would, but it really going to happen just by that.

It's not that I wasn't in the mood for sex, i just didn't go into this expecting to get my dick wet but i couldn't let this go, so i gently pressed into her while staying focused on her neck.

The way she had positioned herself meant i needed to stand with in foot on the floor and the other leg on the bed. She was easily able to grab the back of her knees to pull her legs up a little further. I kept a slow rocking cadence and she was going insane. Counted three orgasms after i started counting, two of which induced deep grunts.

I could feel her pussy convulsing around my cock, and by her body language, i could tell she was running out of stamina so i stroked longer and harder until the could feel the imminent finish line approaching.

Pulling out, i was just able to aim it above her pubic hair. I started ejaculating, but my orgasm was delayed until i was halfway done and hit like a Freightliner. I couldn't move despite wanting to lick my cum off of her. I had hoped she'd push me down (still waiting for her to do that) but neither of us were able to move.

We did try to recreate it two days later, but she wanted to get on top after a bit which cut my stamina down. She wanted me to finish behind her that time, which i did. Haven't had sex since.

Thanks for sharing. I love hearing about every day sex. It’s just so real, which I love!!

 

[Wonderer67]

I orgasmed this morning just from nipple stimulation. Hubby spooned behind me to wake me up very early. Held me close to him and tweaked my nipple for about 5 minutes.

Mentally I let myself slip into submission and just expirence it. Soon I was tingling, the squirming, then shaking, the shivering in a very happy way.

I thanked him, kissed him, then sent him to work horny.

Sounds lovely emme!

If you don’t mind me asking, was your orgasm different than a vaginal orgasm?

 

[emme8]

It wasn't as intense. It was more diffuse through all my skin.
He doesn't completely believe that I came, especially with limited stimulation. (But that's for another thread)

 

[Wonderer67]

Wednesday 10/23

I had to go to the office and forgot to set my alarm. I usually work out on Mon, wed and Fri, but there was no way that day.

My wife was up too and I had 45 mins before I had to leave work, so we had a little bit of time.

My wife is very touch sensitive and I was horny thinking about our session on Monday. So I spooned up against her and put a hand on the back of her neck. She was moving and moaning in no time and my right hand was just touching her left breast, down her side to her ass. Then back up.

She was getting pretty worked up and I was def hard. Our go-to is spoons position. She loves it, as she can lay there and cum fairly easily. I pulled her old yoga pants down so her bum was sticking out, adjusted position and tried to enter her. Takes a little time to get the door open as they say, but she is almost always sopping wet once it’s inside.

Today was no different. Really had to pull her apart to finally get inside but she was wet and warm once I got in there. I started slowly. She typically doesn’t like things rough or hard to begin with. It’s actually nice and romantic when it’s slow. Sometimes she reaches back to guide the pace.

I gradually built up speed and soon was fucking her hard. I grabbed her upper arm and used it as leverage to really ram her hard. That’s how she typically orgasms in this position and today was no different.

I think we went at it for about 10 minutes in the spoons position. She came a few times. (She sorta squeals
when she cums which is so hot to me.)

Before I blew my load on Monday, we talked about maybe fucking doggy style. I hadn’t forgotten about it and asked her if she’d be OK with me fucking her doggy on the chair. This necessitated her getting out of bed and she did so and got into the bedside chair, on her knees facing away. We fucked like that for about five more minutes, but it was not all that comfortable. She was up a little bit too high.

I asked her if she wanted to get onto the floor and we could fuck that way, and she said “sure.” I like this position a lot, because I can pretend that we’re having anal sex. (she hates anal - it’s a no go for her… ). Butt, in this position I can pretend, and I got up above her and fucked her hard from above and behind.

Like I said, in my first post, we normally practice orgasm control, but I was so hot and worked up that I felt my orgasm rising. I told her I was going to cum… annd ansked for her permission to cum. She told me to go for it.

I came hard all over her ass, and cleaned it up with my tongue!

God, I love that woman!

Jumped in the shower and left a few minutes late for work…

 

[Wonderer67]

It wasn't as intense. It was more diffuse through all my skin.
He doesn't completely believe that I came, especially with limited stimulation. (But that's for another thread)

There are many ways to cum or orgasm.

My wife is able to have several different types of orgasms as well. I was reading this thread to her and she totally nodded in agreement.

Make him a believer!!

 

[ArseGratiaArtis]

When I was married we did a lot of what we called "maintenance sex." We both worked, sometimes long hours, but we were young and horny, too. So some evenings we'd get into bed and she would stroke my cock until I got good and hard. Sometimes she would suck me a little, and I'd finger her pussy or play with her tits. When she brought her legs up, that was my cue to get on top. She usually came within a couple of minutes, and usually more than once. We would enjoy some hot kissing while I was in her, and I'd fuck her until, at her insistence, I came hard in her. Total time, 20 to 30 minutes, followed by blissful sleep.

 

[Wonderer67]

When I was married we did a lot of what we called "maintenance sex." We both worked, sometimes long hours, but we were young and horny, too. So some evenings we'd get into bed and she would stroke my cock until I got good and hard. Sometimes she would suck me a little, and I'd finger her pussy or play with her tits. When she brought her legs up, that was my cue to get on top. She usually came within a couple of minutes, and usually more than once. We would enjoy some hot kissing while I was in her, and I'd fuck her until, at her insistence, I came hard in her. Total time, 20 to 30 minutes, followed by blissful sleep.

Sounds wonderful!

 

[lit_ch3]

I orgasmed this morning just from nipple stimulation. Hubby spooned behind me to wake me up very early. Held me close to him and tweaked my nipple for about 5 minutes.

Mentally I let myself slip into submission and just expirence it. Soon I was tingling, the squirming, then shaking, the shivering in a very happy way.

I thanked him, kissed him, then sent him to work horny.

Sending him to work horny has both an erotic thing about it, and a humorous one as well....I like it.

 

[ZfrkS62]

I orgasmed this morning just from nipple stimulation. Hubby spooned behind me to wake me up very early. Held me close to him and tweaked my nipple for about 5 minutes.

Mentally I let myself slip into submission and just expirence it. Soon I was tingling, the squirming, then shaking, the shivering in a very happy way.

I thanked him, kissed him, then sent him to work horny.

There are definitely mornings i go to work with precum in my pants because of being teased. It's an endless loop because it turns me on more. But then the work day starts and kills the mood.

 

[emme8]

Sending him to work horny has both an erotic thing about it, and a humorous one as well....I like it.

He's cumming good tonight. I'm not wasting it on a quickie.

 

[emme8]

There are definitely mornings i go to work with precum in my pants because of being teased. It's an endless loop because it turns me on more. But then the work day starts and kills the mood.

Work has a way of killing the mood.

It is extremely rare for me to have a sexual thought even cross my mind at work

 

[ZfrkS62]

Work has a way of killing the mood.

It is extremely rare for me to have a sexual thought even cross my mind at work

I have dirty thoughts constantly, but my cock refuses to react to them at work.

 

[Wonderer67]

Sending him to work horny has both an erotic thing about it, and a humorous one as well....I like it.

My wife and I practice orgasm control and rarely do I cum.

When we have sex in the mornings before work, she will tell me to keep a certain thing in mind or how badly I want to cum while I’m in a big meeting or something.

It’s super sexy and frustrating too!

 

[Wonderer67]

It's been a busy month. As parents we don't get much alone time. We work different days to aid childcare. See is usually at night when tired or Sunday morning when we are together.

Thursday 10/10 was a rare day I chose to attend the late meeting by video from home. As its my partner of 20yrs day off she was home. Arriving home we could have had the 'routine' conversation in the living room but I took her hand, wirh no words lead her to our room and undressed her. Getting the hint she reciprocated.

There was unfortunatly no sex but we got 3hrs of afternoon kissing/ touching and adult only conversation while naked and the sun lighting the room. A rare for us.

After I had to attend the meeting and the children came home so life resumed. I did find her naked, sleeping where I left her.

Thank you for sharing that. It shows that sex is not the only endgame.

Intimacy and connection with our partners is critically and vitally important too.

It is very difficult with children to keep things going. I will admit, that we are empty nesters now so it is easier now.

Keep up the good connection!!

 

[ZfrkS62]

After I had to attend the meeting and the children came home so life resumed. I did find her naked, sleeping where I left her

I love it when she falls asleep naked or bottomless. She always sleeps in a t shirt or pj top and shorts so anything less is like a reward for a job well done. Especially since i sleep nude.

 

[Wonderer67]

Saturday 10/26

My wife and I looked at this thread this morning when we woke up in bed and read through some of the entries.

We love hearing about every day sex.

My wife was not in the mood for intercourse, so I asked her if she would mind watching me edge and masturbate. She likes to watch me and I like to be watched. I talked about some of my fantasies of her being with another man.

I out stretchable cock bands around the base of my cock and around my balls which makes the masturbation even more intense.

Last Sunday when we were at a club in Philly, there was a guy who is hitting on her pretty hard while I was on the dance floor… we talked about what might have happened as I masturbated for her. I edged and backed off and edged again for about 20 minutes.

The. We used an attachment on her hitachi and I edged used that for another 10-15 minutes.

Then I was spent and stopped. I did not cum.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I orgasmed this morning just from nipple stimulation. Hubby spooned behind me to wake me up very early. Held me close to him and tweaked my nipple for about 5 minutes.

Mentally I let myself slip into submission and just expirence it. Soon I was tingling, the squirming, then shaking, the shivering in a very happy way.

I thanked him, kissed him, then sent him to work horny.

Would love to get this right. She has super sensitive nipples and gets really turned on when I suck them but she feels it would never be enough to her her over the edge.

I think I must persevere.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I thought I’d give this a go and see if it takes.

This is not just for us, feel free to share your own every day sexual experiences: the wild and wacky, the hot and memorable and even the mundane.

I love sharing but also feeling how couples have sex.

We have been married for nearly 10 years and together for almost 15. It’s a second marriage for both of us: I am 57 and my wife is 67.

Sex is integral to our to our relationship. We used to have sex 4-5 times a week and now it’s dipped a bit to 2-3. But quality over quantity I always say!

I love this thread. Its great to hear of couples in our generation who still love their sex lives.

I often hear about couples whose sex lives get derailed by the pressures of life. We were starting to get into that rut and saw a program on Netflix about building a sex room. As we are empty nesters and have 2 spare rooms it was not a huge problem to be discreet. When building it she was big on it being like when we stay in a hotel and have lots more sex than at home where there distractions. It also means we can have a session that can get a little messy and then pull the door closed and go to bed and deal with the cleanup tomorrow.

I do think that it boosted our sexlife and the ability to try new things.

 

[Wonderer67]

I love this thread. Its great to hear of couples in our generation who still love their sex lives.

I often hear about couples whose sex lives get derailed by the pressures of life. We were starting to get into that rut and saw a program on Netflix about building a sex room. As we are empty nesters and have 2 spare rooms it was not a huge problem to be discreet. When building it she was big on it being like when we stay in a hotel and have lots more sex than at home where there distractions. It also means we can have a session that can get a little messy and then pull the door closed and go to bed and deal with the cleanup tomorrow.

I do think that it boosted our sexlife and the ability to try new things.

i am glad you enjoy the thread.

I don’t know if we could do a sex room, but yes, we stay at hotels every so often and there is a very different feel… where you can let go.

Agree. There are distractions in our every day lives.

I will say it ruined my former marriage. Takes two to tango, and our lives (never mind our sexual lives) got really routine. We grew further and further apart.

But we got it right this time.

 

[aya_amano]

Saturday 26/10 - Tokyo (setagaya), Japan.
I just got my first threesome with 2 men.

I've met up with a fwb that I know since high school.

Another old friend of him was there as well when I arrived.
I've met him before but we never were close.

His wife left him a few months ago and since then they often go out or visit each other.

After dinner, we drank a bit and my fwb got horny and undressed me.
He made me get on all fours and started to fuck me while his friend was watching.

When he finishes he asked his friend if he wanted to take me as well.
He asked me to get on the sofa while he climbed on me.
It didn't take him long to finish.

After that, they took me a few more times.

 

[Wonderer67]

Wow. Thank you for sharing that!

I love hearing about people’s intimate lives. And I appreciate you sharing that.