Sex and Love

[Islander55]

I think with any relationship, you need to decide what you want from it and find out what the other expects of you. I have been married over 40 years and we have a strong and loving relationship. And yes we have had a lot of good sex over the years with each other and with others. If I date another man, my husband and I know it is just for sex and I need to make sure the other man is looking for the same thing. In any relationship you need good communication so everyone knows what to expect. If two people are just looking for sex, it can be very satisfying but you can't have one just looking for sex and the other looking for love.

 

[Live4themoments]

Without reducing my respect for other opinions, I agree with this. love is love, sex is sex. love with all its tenderness as a glue to build a committed relationship between husband and wife. Meanwhile, sex, with all its variations and fantasies, tends to be full of violence to achieve sexual pleasure. I can't imagine when I get gentle sex treatment, like slowmotion. I couldn't orgasm for two days. Meaning: sexual pleasure is obtained through violence

Interesting, and I agree with the exception that at least for me sex has nothing to do with violence or aggression. Sex is when 2 people connect in a way to help each other achieve physical satisfaction and enjoyment, without the commitments of a relationship. We value each other for who we are, which is different than love sex. Good point though.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

I think you can have sex without love. I also think you can have love without sex.

Exactly

 

[Mike130]

The Liar and the baby with the childish behaviour is You!

And people will see, that now!

Do You make jokes of all the people here? Do You think, we are all Idiots!

I think you are not real, and I am angry, no furious! What things you write!
Btw Your Avatar pic, is stolen I think from the internet!

If You not understand „sub“ why you talk about it? And sorry, you seem really live in the clouds, when with 25! You never heard about any of this


You should be aware, she not will answer because she believes what You think, she only does because she is a liar!


Look how in every writing, she plays exactly a role! Once she is a "sub" next time she not know anything about subs and bdsm!
And so on, and because I told her she is a liar and not real, all she can say is to be rude and awful!




Thread 'What is the difference between bondage and fetish?' https://forum.literotica.com/threads/what-is-the-difference-between-bondage-and-fetish.1640442/

Well, not sure how this started, but in Literotica, I don’t think we always take strangers at face value. As has been pointed out before, many of the people posing as women on here are actually men. Hopefully nobody is looking for a real romantic connection.

That said, Ms (or Mr, if you prefer) Lee brings up some valid points about sex and love and we should probably just look at it as a philosophical discussion in this thread. I personally don’t care if the persona associated with Ms/Mr Lee is real or fake, I’m not here to make a personal connection. But if you have some proof that Ms/Mr Lee is impersonating someone else (I have not seen the pictures) then by all means, please report it, it will make us all safer, and thank you for your vigilance!

 

[Britva415]

I think sex because of love will eventually become a boring routine

If "love" is the only reason for the sex, then it's already boring as hell.

But "sex because of love" isn't the only way for two in-love people to have sex with each other. They can also love sex, and love sex with each other, in ways which don't have to do with whether they love each other or not.

A person who doesn't love sex but will have sex with someone they love just because they love them... and still not loving sex... Yeah, that's going to be boring and it might be incompatible with a person who actually loves sex.