Ever think about the "ONE" that got away?!

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Do you ever reminisce about the girl or guy that got away or you let go... it's that time of year when I'm thinking about them again. Anybody else out there thinking the same?
 
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Yes, probably more often than I care to admit.

I know her name, visualize her, and think of her frequently, but have no idea where she is at now.

I have thought of what it might be like to try and locate her.... maybe through Facebook or something.
 
Do you ever reminisce about the girl or guy that got away or you let go... it's that time of year when I'm thinking about them again. Anybody else out there thinking the same?

It happened a long time ago...I still regret it today...and will tomorrow..
 
Do you ever reminisce about the girl or guy that got away or you let go... it's that time of year when I'm thinking about them again. Anybody else out there thinking the same?

Sadly yes. We met here way back in 2015. She was so beautiful. A woman with a big heart and someone I thought I could spend the rest of my life with. We shared everything. Skyped when we could. Phoned when we could. She abruptly disappeared one morning when I told her I would call her back. Never answered her phone. No emails or texts.

It gets upsetting at times. Even more so that I still miss her and it will be 2 years now in March.
 
Fate is fickle...things happen ...because its meant to be that way. In my case I wasn't ready...I will always wonder but, I am very happy and wouldn't change anything!
 
Yes, recently

We met, dated a few times, loved being with him, sex was amazing. He got cold feet, pushed me away. We happened to see each other a few months ago. Sparks flew, still chemistry, he said he didn’t realize what he gave up. Wanted to try again. That was a week before my wedding. Talk about bad timing!
 
Just one? Also, what about the ones we got away from? The one you dumped then regretted it?
 
I wouldn't exactly call it the "ONE" that got away. But sometimes I do regret how I ended one particular one. Unkind -- and I regret being unkind and would like to make up for that. Particularly because it wasn't necessary.
 
I lamented about the one that got away for years. He was a high school sweetheart that grew up to be very handsome and somewhat successful in life. We did talk many years later and it cured me. He's still a good looking guy, and very nice, but just not at the meeting of the minds intellect, which is a make or break for me.
 
I don't really think about any particular "one," but I do wish I were less fearful of women when it comes to asking them out and shit like that. I mean, when it comes to IRL face-to-face, I'm just like "Nope, fuck it. I'm not asking." Getting shot down is like getting a bullet to the chest.
 
I do it all the time and wonder what might have been , if I hadn't fucked up every relationship I was in.
 
Actually, no. Never. I do remember good sex and good times but I prefer to live in the here and now.
 
Yes, despite being married to another woman now.

I have never seen her since our divorce, but hope she is okay. Through a mutual friend I found out she was being abused by her new husband, which is too bad. I feel so guilty about that, realizing mistakes I made as a husband (though I was faithful throughout our marriage) caused her to seek other men, and eventually a poor situation for her.

I have a best friend who is a police officer, and because of her former habits, and the opiate epidemic, have wondered if she is even alive anymore.
 
I see her name and picture on Facebook and it's hard not to think.... we were both never single at the same time. I was in a relationship, she was single. She was in one, I wasn't. So it just never worked out. But yeah, I think about her.
 
You mean The One that flounced himself back across state lines last year, after being caught cheating online, without a word and who never gave me a chance to rip him a new anatomical hole?

Yeah. He crosses my mind from time to time. But not in a wistful, "I miss him" kinda way ...
 
Nope. Things happen for a reason. I still have faith and fate will make it so. If it doesn’t, I’m content and grateful with no regrets.
 
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