Ever fallen for someone

[Beck31]

you don't know all that well based on the kinds of conversations you had with them?

 

[islandman]

That's called 'desperation', no?

 

[BiTodd]

you don't know all that well based on the kinds of conversations you had with them?

who me..... never.

 

[Beck31]

I have. I seem to do that a lot. A friend of mine even joked I fawn over any woman who gives me the time of day.

 

[dolf]

no. i've become aroused, attached, been intrigued & wanted to know more.
but not to the point i'd be heart broken without them.
falling requires a lot more than that.

 

[evesdream]

you don't know all that well based on the kinds of conversations you had with them?

I have crushes like that all the time. At the drop of a hat really.

 

[IndieSnob]

That's called 'desperation', no?

So, I'm just desperation for you?

I'm gonna go piss on your toothbrush now.

 

[Recidiva]

Oh yeah. Met my husband online. Only conversations online or by phone. Took six years to work it all out, but I knew he was the guy way before I met him in person.

 

[Beck31]

Thats really awesome. Congratulations. I met a now ex gf online and met her person. I also had an attraction to a few others I just had conversations with. It seems to be in my blood.

 

[BotanyBoy]

Oh yeah. Met my husband online. Only conversations online or by phone. Took six years to work it all out, but I knew he was the guy way before I met him in person.

 

[islandman]

So, I'm just desperation for you?

I'm gonna go piss on your toothbrush now.

Are you going to squat or will you do it the big boy way and just whip it out?

 

[Aquagal]

Oh yeah. Met my husband online. Only conversations online or by phone. Took six years to work it all out, but I knew he was the guy way before I met him in person.

I read this and thought you said ...but I knew he was the guy way before I met him in prison.

 

[blobfish]

Yes, I have. I love Missy Franklin.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

no. i've become aroused, attached, been intrigued & wanted to know more.
but not to the point i'd be heart broken without them.
falling requires a lot more than that.

But....

You said you loved me.

It was all a ruse.

I feel so violated.

 

[Recidiva]

Yeah. It sucked. He was married and then I was married and then we made ourselves both not married. But it worked out in the end. Yay!

Met in a roleplay game...uh...*looks at watch* lord...20 years ago more or less. Only contact was online and phone for a few years really. Took about six years of yearning and drama. He was just the person I most wanted to be with and still is. Been together now for 14 years in reality.

 

[blobfish]

Yeah. It sucked. He was married and then I was married and then we made ourselves both not married. But it worked out in the end. Yay!

Met in a roleplay game...uh...*looks at watch* lord...20 years ago more or less. Only contact was online and phone for a few years really. Took about six years of yearning and drama. He was just the person I most wanted to be with and still is. Been together now for 14 years in reality.

How long did it take before he believed that you were a real female?

 

[Recidiva]

I read this and thought you said ...but I knew he was the guy way before I met him in prison.

LOL! No, we were online doing roleplay and just joking about how people get attached to other people in reality when it's just a game, ha, ha.

And then someone got on the subject of voices and we were both typing in outrageous boasts about how great our voices were. "I get marriage proposals from phone operators!" "I get marriage proposals from gay men!" "Me too!"

Then we just dared each other to call and do a "Voice Off"

I think he said "Hello" and I my best contribution was "Uh oh. I'm in trouble."

He agreed.

So we started something for just fun and we ended up with something that tore our lives apart until we put 'em back together with each other.

You really never know what comes from the most casual and humble of beginnings.

Granted, I've also fallen for people online that I couldn't stand to be around after 24 hours of meeting them...but those are different stories. Also begun as fun and casual that just didn't make it to the big time.

 

[Recidiva]

How long did it take before he believed that you were a real female?

We joked around that I was a 300 pound truck driver named Earl and he was probably a 12-year old female Asian cheerleader. We really didn't care and knew that you can't trust what people say online about themselves, so we didn't bother. Phone call dispelled that joke though.

 

[Generic_chick]

So, I'm just desperation for you?

I'm gonna go piss on your toothbrush now.

Are you going to squat or will you do it the big boy way and just whip it out?

You two remind me of these guys.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

How long did it take before he believed that you were a real female?

that is still in the air.

 

[Recidiva]

Thats really awesome. Congratulations. I met a now ex gf online and met her person. I also had an attraction to a few others I just had conversations with. It seems to be in my blood.

Yeah, it's not infallible, but it's just as valid of a way to meet a person as any.

 

[parodyluvr75]

Nope, but there is a first time for everything. Except minature golf, I refuse to indulge.

 

[blobfish]

that is still in the air.

I don't think she's a tranny. I wouldn't have sent all those pictures if I thought that.

 

[islandman]

You two remind me of these guys.

Will you be Indie's beard?

 

[Angeline]

Yes. I met him here on the poetry forum and we started messaging and then talking on the phone and though we were a thousand miles apart, within six months we were together for real. We'll celebrate our ninth anniversary in the fall.