Ever been REALLY turned off?

[glorfindale39]

Have you ever been either just talking with someone, or even worse, in the throws of passion when they did something that absolutely shut you down. I don’t mean a little thing you can recover from, but I mean something that stopped the show right there. Every sexual feeling in you went running stage left…..


Cheers,
G.

 

[PepperminTrish]

Yes

 

[glorfindale39]

Yes

LOL, Okay I guess I did forget to say GIVE DETAILS of how and why etc.....

G.

 

[floridaguy64]

Yes

What Trish said........... yes!


You try having an SO that turned into..... (not going there cuz she visits here.......as JW Bobbit might muse, dayummit!......Again?!?!)

 

[Rubyfruit]

Absolutely.

I dated a man who once we got horizontal, I learned he sweated, a lot, during sex. I mean, it was literally pouring off of him and onto me, dripping on my face from his. That kinda turned me off even though it wasn't his fault. It was probably the drugs we all did back then.

I made it through that night, but politely declined further invitations.

 

[juicylips]

I've been in the middle of a conversation with someone and all of the sudden I'm asking myself WTF am I doing here listening to this. So, I just fake the orgasm and hang up the phone.

 

[J.B.]

yes.

 

[PepperminTrish]

LOL, Okay I guess I did forget to say GIVE DETAILS of how and why etc.....

G.

Yes, you did. What can I say? You need to be REALLY specific with me?


Ok, this happened to be not all that long ago. I was in the midst of a very enjoyable phone call and in the course of it, he mentioned wanting to do the one thing to me that I'd rather die than have actually happen. I literally felt myself shutting down at that very moment. I'm side stepping exactly what 'it' was on purpose. He knew nothing about this being an issue for me and it took everything I had in me not to slam down the phone and give into the panic attack I felt coming on.

Is that enough details for you?

 

[perks]

When someone says "No" or "stop" that usually puts my brakes on and dampens my mood considerably. Unless it's at that point where they can't handle anymore.

 

[glorfindale39]

yes.

Details?

 

[glorfindale39]

I've been in the middle of a conversation with someone and all of the sudden I'm asking myself WTF am I doing here listening to this. So, I just fake the orgasm and hang up the phone.

Damn it JL, why do you have to go describing our phone call. sheeeesh. Seriously though, was it because of something they said, or was it just a realization that you weren't injoying yourself?

G.

 

[DarkAngel]

Yeah..

Me speaking does that all the time..

My accent scares them away

 

[J.B.]

Details?

can't explain it.

 

[PepperminTrish]

Damn it JL, why do you have to go describing our phone call. sheeeesh. Seriously though, was it because of something they said, or was it just a realization that you weren't injoying yourself?

G.

Your obnoxious new spelling buddy says it's 'enjoying'.

 

[ub6ibfine]

yea where we giving a position a try an i heard her say she had never dont it before an then we kept talking about an i mentioned a remark or two about how she hadnt done it an she said no i said i have done it a few times i was like wtf an it just made me think.

 

[glorfindale39]

Your obnoxious new spelling buddy says it's 'enjoying'.

Here yea, here yea. Glorfindale can not spell! Let it ring through out the land, I can not spell! After three years of Calculus, 2 years of organic chemistry, 3 years of biochemistry, and more physics then I care to remember, there just was no room left for a little thing like grammar and spelling.... heh heh

G.

 

[juicylips]

Damn it JL, why do you have to go describing our phone call. sheeeesh. Seriously though, was it because of something they said, or was it just a realization that you weren't injoying yourself?

G.

I was just joking with you. Seriously.

 

[littlekateyes]

Have you ever been either just talking with someone, or even worse, in the throws of passion when they did something that absolutely shut you down. I don’t mean a little thing you can recover from, but I mean something that stopped the show right there. Every sexual feeling in you went running stage left…..


Cheers,
G.

Yes, but it is very hard to explain.

 

[Pixie]

Yes, when he asked me to do something I'd already said no to.
And the wording he used was, well offputting at best.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

I just ate a gnarly public school thanksgiving lunch with thirty screaming kids dressed up in paper native american and pilgrim outfits. My youngest, three, decided he did not like his mashed whatever that crap was and proceeded to create a food fight. My oldest, seven, the student and host at this glorious institution of white trash food, smacks said younger brother in head with cranberry sauce.

At this moment, even when taking into consideration I have endured hearing my mother talk about her sex life with dad one evening, I have never been more turned off in my life.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

last night. Honey and I were making love in the missionary position... there was a full-moon outside which lit up his room a little bit through the trees by the windows, and it allowed me to see his shape, but not his face.... and then I had a flashback. Completely intense flashback. And I had to stop.

 

[BgMma]

Absolutely.

We are in the middle of being intimate and I am really going strong and he makes a joke.

You know, if it's that funny you have to tell it during sex, can you tell me before? I mean, really. Was what I doing so amusing you had to do a joke?

That, or a screaming kid. That'll do it every time.

You know what I am saying, don't you, G?

 

[penguindance]

 

[JerseyBoy]

Have you ever been either just talking with someone, or even worse, in the throws of passion when they did something that absolutely shut you down. I don’t mean a little thing you can recover from, but I mean something that stopped the show right there. Every sexual feeling in you went running stage left…..

one word: ONIONBREATH

ugh

 

[Guest]

The sentence 'I wanna fuck your brains out' just hits the off button... *cringes*