Eureka Moment!!!

YinandYang

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I have been trying to get the hang of Deep throat for a what seems like ages, but never quite managed to get past that gagging stage. I always found at that point I would start to panic and then give up. My SO has been very patient, although I think last night he decided that it was time to give me a helping hand. I found the best position was with me kneeling between his legs, that way I didn't feel like he had total control (mind thing lol). When it got to the crucial point, I could feel myself starting to gag, but he held my head down fast by my hair. When he felt me starting to panic, he screwed his fist tighter in my hair, the pain of that totally distracted from the fact I thought I was going to 'reject' him....and it happened! Yippeee! Once I got past that gagging stage it was a breeze, and I found I could re do it without panicking!

So...for complete beginners like me...don't give up! I feel the proudest happiest sub alive today, and can't wait to get over my next limit :D
 
:) Cngratulations!! Another position that makes it easier for some is laying on your across the bed with head hanging back over the edge.....just seems to slip right down, even better with a little push for those larger endowed. :p ...of course I would not know about large endowments, just assuming....not. :D

Catalina :rose:
 
:nana: Great! I bet you will be on a high all day.


catalina_francisco said:
:) Cngratulations!! Another position that makes it easier for some is laying on your across the bed with head hanging back over the edge.....just seems to slip right down, even better with a little push for those larger endowed. :p ...of course I would not know about large endowments, just assuming....not. :D

Catalina :rose:

The bonus of this position...for me...is the feeing of total helplessness.
 
I'm going to have to get past that problem too, probably, perhaps I'll take your advice.
 
laurel-marie said:
:nana: The bonus of this position...for me...is the feeing of total helplessness.

Thankyou :) I think the totally helpless thing put a block up for me for ages, it made me even more scared and therefore mind wise I couldn't do it. The position that I used, kind of told my mind if I wanted to pull back I could, and that in turn helped me relax more. Mind over matter I guess! That and the fact I didnt stand a chance of backing out :D
 
Congrats! :)

I have always experienced the gag-reflex problem too... Not that it keeps me from trying, but I've yet to accomplish it. Course, I don't think any of the pansies I normally have relationships with wanted it enough to really urge me to give it my all... Hopefully with the next guy I am with I will be able to jump the gag hurdle and have one of those proud moments for myself. :nana:
 
Killishandra said:
Congrats! :)

I have always experienced the gag-reflex problem too... Not that it keeps me from trying, but I've yet to accomplish it. Course, I don't think any of the pansies I normally have relationships with wanted it enough to really urge me to give it my all... Hopefully with the next guy I am with I will be able to jump the gag hurdle and have one of those proud moments for myself. :nana:

Wouldn't that be just grand?
 
Anyone ever see www.Ideepthroat.com ?

A delicious sub if ever I saw one, as talented as she is pretty. She has an instructional video which I've downloaded to my computer as a teaching tool.
 
Marquis said:
Anyone ever see www.Ideepthroat.com ?

A delicious sub if ever I saw one, as talented as she is pretty. She has an instructional video which I've downloaded to my computer as a teaching tool.

Jesus, I'd do just about anything for a deepthroat from that chick.

I don't know how the fuck she does it.
 
jasonlf said:
Jesus, I'd do just about anything for a deepthroat from that chick.

I don't know how the fuck she does it.

She claims to have been offered $50K before. Maybe $100K will do it.
 
YinandYang said:
Thankyou :) I think the totally helpless thing put a block up for me for ages, it made me even more scared and therefore mind wise I couldn't do it. The position that I used, kind of told my mind if I wanted to pull back I could, and that in turn helped me relax more. Mind over matter I guess! That and the fact I didnt stand a chance of backing out :D

Thank you! Your post gives me hope that I can learn to do this continuously without panicking! I'm able to get His cock down my throat but can't hold it there, because I tend to panic if I can't get my breath :rolleyes: Of course Master encourages me to push my limits but I'm starting to get impatient with myself :mad: However He is not worried, He loves our prectice sessions! ;)
 
My problem isn't so much with gagging as it is with breathing! I feel like I'm suffocating and and I can't get a rhythm down as to when to draw in my breath and when to exhale. *sigh*
 
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