Escorts, prostitutes and paying for sex.

[working_girl]

Bit presumptuous of me but I've been lurking here for ages and I've despaired of some of the daft ideas guys have posted about female sex workers. I'm here to dispel the myth and to advise those who are determined to take that route to satisfy their needs. I'm a bisexual escort and pro-switch so there isn't a great deal that I haven't dabbled in.

Go on... you know you want to.

 

[crashD]

Bit presumptuous of me but I've been lurking here for ages and I've despaired of some of the daft ideas guys have posted about female sex workers. I'm here to dispel the myth and to advise those who are determined to take that route to satisfy their needs. I'm a bisexual escort and pro-switch so there isn't a great deal that I haven't dabbled in.

Go on... you know you want to.

ok, i'll start - i don't even know what a pro-switch is, enlighten me please...

 

[working_girl]

Sorry.

Professional switch, as in someone who is paid either to sexually dominate or submit to another.

 

[crashD]

Sorry.

Professional switch, as in someone who is paid either to sexually dominate or submit to another.

ahh, thanks.

 

[werdsmith]

Bit presumptuous of me but I've been lurking here for ages and I've despaired of some of the daft ideas guys have posted about female sex workers. I'm here to dispel the myth and to advise those who are determined to take that route to satisfy their needs. I'm a bisexual escort and pro-switch so there isn't a great deal that I haven't dabbled in.

Go on... you know you want to.

welcome! What's the strangest thing that anyone's ever asked of you?
Is there anything that you deem "off limits" w/ your clients?
-werd

 

[working_girl]

welcome! What's the strangest thing that anyone's ever asked of you?

Um... how long have you got?

Seriously, weird is becoming more common than 'normal' these days. Everyone seems to have some odd fantasy they want fulfilled. Also, because I paddle in the kinkier end of the escorting pool, I encounter more weirdness than a lot of other escorts. Recent weirdness includes: -

Guys wanting their genitals kicked or stomped on in platform boots.

A guy who answered his front door naked but for about 30 clothespins, which I had to pull and twist while he fucked me.

A booking where I accompanied a CD/TV guy to a bar and had a drink with him as though he was a girlfriend. I also helped with his hair and makeup before we left.

A booking to a couple who wanted their sex life spicing up. I had seen them a couple of times before but on this occasion, the guy wanted me to fuck him with a strap-on, while he was fucking his wife. Took some fine tuned coordination I can tell you.

P.S. How does the 'list' icon work exactly? I pressed it and wrote the above list between the

• thingys but when I previewed the post it hadn't worked.
  
  

  Is there anything that you deem "off limits" w/ your clients?
  -werd

  
  Plenty. Off the top of my head...
  
  I don't have unprotected penetrative sex of any kind. I don't let guys cum in my mouth. If a cock looks less than daisy fresh and 100% healthy, I don't give unprotected oral. I don't allow dominant guys to play with bondage or anything until I know them well. I don't allow any kind of play that marks, bruises or scratches me. I don't have anal with guys who are hung like donkeys - no matter how much they beg. I don't attempt anything that might cause a guy real harm, no matter how much they want it.
  
  And numero uno at the moment.
  
  Don't ask me to tell you what my real name is. Why do they even care?

 

[rosco rathbone]

Do you get many/any clients with pimp fantasies?

 

[pellso27]

Human Jack off device is what you sound like.

 

[Dreamliner]

Would you like not to be an escort?

 

[unregistered]

 

[WhimsyOne]

How often do you get tested? Do you provide the condoms or do your partners, I mean me thinking about it, that has got to be a pretty big expense right there.

 

[hamishmacbeth]

have you or do you participate in pissing` and is the demand for your services as busy as before with the current financial climate?

 

[working_girl]

Do you get many/any clients with pimp fantasies?

I'm not sure exactly what you mean by this. Nobody has ever wanted to pretend to be my pimp.

 

[working_girl]

Human Jack off device is what you sound like.

How very astute. Being a 'jack off device' is highly lucrative. What's your point exactly?

 

[working_girl]

Would you like not to be an escort?

I know escorts have a short shelf life and I'm storing money, assets and business ideas away for the future. I would like one day to have a relationship, a regular life etc but for now I am happy as I am. I work privately, therefore I don't see clients that I dislike. I have a good circle of friends and playfriends. I don't feel I'm missing out on other options, I'm just having fun procrastinating.

 

[working_girl]

Not being in any way judgemental, but your choice isn't one I'd want for my daughter. Also, we had a saying in the Navy, "If you pay to get it, you'll pay to get rid of it."

'Not being judgemental in any way?' That one's right up there with 'I don't mean to be rude but...'

Nothing is foolproof and I accept that I run a risk of infection. I consider the compensation to be worth the risk. If I was some young bloke sowing his wild oats for free you'd be applauding me as long as I professed to practice safe sex. I'm actually much more self aware and responsible than most men I know. You're the voice of the eternal double-standard. Congratulations.

I wouldn't choose it for my daughter either but I hope I would accept that, while I could advise her against escorting and from a position of far greater knowledge than most mothers, her choices are hers to make. I wouldn't alienate or withdraw love from a daughter for escorting. As far as I know at this stage in my life anyway.

 

[working_girl]

How often do you get tested? Do you provide the condoms or do your partners, I mean me thinking about it, that has got to be a pretty big expense right there.

I get tested monthly for everything at a clinic provided for sex-workers in London where real names are not required. I buy condoms in bulk on the internet and although I select clients carefully, I prefer to supply them myself. I get an extra-safe brand that has plenty of lubricant. Lack of adequate lubrication is the most common cause of condoms breaking. Nobody gets to fuck me using one of the thinner, lighter kinds.

 

[working_girl]

have you or do you participate in pissing` and is the demand for your services as busy as before with the current financial climate?

I do golden showers. Mostly I give them but occasionally I will receive one. I do not allow clients to pee into my mouth. It's all very much about how I feel at the time, how considerate/hydrated I think the client is etc. It is an extra service above the basic fee for my time.

I find that regular clients book less frequently but they want/need the release even more with their current financial pressures. Some book less often but treat themselves to more time with me than usual when they do splash out. I have taken on more new clients over the last few months than usual but things have balanced out. My fees have not been lowered at all and I've had no complaints or attempts to haggle so far.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

My question is:

How many crude, nasty pms from judgemental pricks or horny geeks seeking wank fodder have you received so far?

We actually have a 'best and worst pms you've received' thread over in the BDSM Cafe.

 

[human_male]

Would it be alright if we just, y'know... cuddle?

 

[working_girl]

Would it be alright if we just, y'know... cuddle?

Sure, although I don't think I can reach to NZ.

I do have clients who don't actually want penetrative sex. Some of them want something specific that they can't get from a spouse, others have rather special and optimistic ideas about what constitutes adultery. I have also been hired to attend events with people who have not wanted any kind of sexual service. An escort is not just a prostitute.

 

[working_girl]

Yay! I'm 'experienced' already.

 

[working_girl]

My question is:

How many crude, nasty pms from judgemental pricks or horny geeks seeking wank fodder have you received so far?

We actually have a 'best and worst pms you've received' thread over in the BDSM Cafe.

Haha! At last count... 32. My current favourite is 'u gonna burn in hell u dirty whor cunt im gonna find u and rape u'

I just love the idea that rape is less of a vile sin than prostitution or that rape is completely justified if it's a 'dirty whor' who's on the receiving end. Also, the fucktard in question is in the USA. Word to the wise poppet, pick your battles.

PMs like that make me wonder why I'm not a lesbian yet.

 

[BenDover4]

Therapist

working_girl:

Do you consider a massage therapist who provides 'extra' services during the course of a massage session a prostitute, assuming money for those services exchanges hands??

 

[working_girl]

working_girl:

Do you consider a massage therapist who provides 'extra' services during the course of a massage session a prostitute, assuming money for those services exchanges hands??

Yes. Wouldn't you?

Most massage parlours (in the UK anyway) are a flimsy cover for brothels. Very little massage actually takes place. If you look on their websites you'll see the masseuse's advertised in flimsy lingerie with their faces blurred. Very legit.