Erotic moments

[MissTaken]

How do you define eroticism, erotica and erotic moments?

Then, add to that, definitions of same in a BDSM context.

They may or may not be separate things.

 

[A Desert Rose]

oh my, let me think on this one, ok? I know I can address this given time. ~smiling~

 

[MissTaken]

Trod carefully.

I find thinking about those erotic moments really distracts me!

 

[A Desert Rose]

Erotic moments are the ones that take my breath away and I am left speechless.









yea yea, ok.. I know it's hard to believe but I can be speechless on occassion ~smiling~

 

[artful]

How do you define eroticism, erotica and erotic moments?

Then, add to that, definitions of same in a BDSM context.

They may or may not be separate things.

As you well know,...along with most who read my posts,...me and *Webster's*, just don't get along as far as definitions go.

I will admit to Webster's superiority,...but we often clash, as to perceived interpretations of words, and/or phrases, sentences, (context), etc.

What is eroticism, or erotica to ME,...may not be how OTHERS define it.

To me, an highly erotic moment is that moment when I can view, and/or hear, a woman enter into an *EXPRESSIVE* orgasm. It is the *height* of erotic moments, and OFTEN, is the catalyst that pushes me into my own orgasm.

THERE,...is where she truly submits, in such a way as to be completely out of control. THERE is where she is MOST submissive,...THERE, is where neither her nor myself, exert ANY control.

Speaking as a male, having only het desires, I hope all others that may wish to, can interchange the male/female for my post.

I will admit to the possibility of a GOOD actress, being able to fool me, but in REAL LIFE, it will not happen often, (there is no need to).

Porno films tend to have a lot of poor acting in them, (a lot of XXX rated action, but not much else), and therefore not much, of erotic value.

(JMHO),...but it's mine,...and I own it.

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Re: Erotic moments

As you well know,...along with most who read my posts,...me and *Webster's*, just don't get along as far as definitions go.

I will admit to Webster's superiority,...but we often clash, as to perceived interpretations of words, and/or phrases, sentences, (context), etc.

What is eroticism, or erotica to ME,...may not be how OTHERS define it.

To me, an highly erotic moment is that moment when I can view, and/or hear, a woman enter into an *EXPRESSIVE* orgasm. It is the *height* of erotic moments, and OFTEN, is the catalyst that pushes me into my own orgasm.

THERE,...is where she truly submits, in such a way as to be completely out of control. THERE is where she is MOST submissive,...THERE, is where neither her nor myself, exert ANY control.

Speaking as a male, having only het desires, I hope all others that may wish to, can interchange the male/female for my post.

I will admit to the possibility of a GOOD actress, being able to fool me, but in REAL LIFE, it will not happen often, (there is no need to).

Porno films tend to have a lot of poor acting in them, (a lot of XXX rated action, but not much else), and therefore not much, of erotic value.

(JMHO),...but it's mine,...and I own it.

Damn Art, you just took my breath away with that one. Good post.

 

[artful]

Des

Damn Art, you just took my breath away with that one. Good post.

You say the sweetest things. Just wait till Dream and I have about 90 days together in R/L, (skin-to skin),...THEN,...I will post a true experience, and you won't have need for a vibrator or a dildo, to accomplish an AWESOME orgasm.-LOL-

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Des

You say the sweetest things. Just wait till Dream and I have about 90 days together in R/L, (skin-to skin),...THEN,...I will post a true experience, and you won't have need for a vibrator or a dildo, to accomplish an AWESOME orgasm.-LOL-

I'll be waiting (and sharing your post with Sackman).

 

[artful]

Re: Re: Des

I'll be waiting (and sharing your post with Sackman).

Congrats to you and Sackman both. I think you both, won't be able to read it all the way through together,...at one sitting.

(Just my arrogant opinion)-LOL-

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Des

You say the sweetest things. Just wait till Dream and I have about 90 days together in R/L, (skin-to skin),...THEN,...I will post a true experience, and you won't have need for a vibrator or a dildo, to accomplish an AWESOME orgasm.-LOL-

Can we all hold you to that promise?

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Re: Re: Des

Congrats to you and Sackman both. I think you both, won't be able to read it all the way through together,...at one sitting.

(Just my arrogant opinion)-LOL-

It sounds like a good plan to me

 

[artful]

MissT

Can we all hold you to that promise?

You have my word on it.

 

[quietwillow]

Erotic memories

The only way I could really define being erotic is to share this erotic and very good memory of mine:

Freshly showered and cleaned, I placed the black leather cuffs on each
wrist and ankle. As I locked them into place I wondered what I was aboutto experience. Master and I had only begun playing weeks before and I was a bit nervous about what this night would entail. I trusted Master though so any fears or anxiety were calmed by the knowledge of His care for me. As He ordered me to kneel. I felt Him placing a blindfold over my eyes. As the darkness overcame me, I felt the thrill of butterflies in my stomach just thinking about what was about to happen.
I wanted to focus on Him and I began to follow His every word. I relaxed some as He directed my every move. He placed a leash around me and said, "crawl". The floor felt cold on my knees and even colder as I crossed the threshhold into the playroom. He talked reassuringly to me and had me stand slowly as He hooked my hands to the chains I heard rattling. He took off my blindfold and I gasped as I saw the chains, my feet locked in place by the spreader bar. The playroom was dimly lit with
candles. The shadows dancing across the room along with the sweet smell of incense He had lit gave me a warm excited feeling as the anticipation to submit and serve Him swept over me. He kissed me softly and asked me if I was going to please Him. I replied yes Sir and He ordered me to bend over as He inserted and inflated the vibrating butt plug into my ass. I tried very hard to relax as the urge to get it out of me began. He ordered me to stand and let me know under no circumstances was I to let it out until He gave me permission. He walked around and kissed me and told me to look at Him and ordered me to stand and placed a small rope in my hand as i stood. He then explained to me that the rope was my safe word and I was to drop it as soon as I felt I had to stop. He placed a ball gag in my mouth and began flogging me sofly at first and I heard myself moaning as each
stroke warmed my skin. He picked up a candle and held it in front of me,close enough for me to feel the heat from the flame. Instantly i knew what He would do. My body shuddered and I nodded as He slowly poured the hot melting wax onto my breasts. I groaned as the hot scented wax dripped down my breasts and onto my tummy .... He said He wanted to be pleased and it pleased Him as I took His torture so well... as He picked up the flogger I was determined not to drop the rope at all proving to Him and myself my determination to be His hands glided the floger softly over me as He turned on the vibrating butt plug. I moaned as the wet dripped down my thighs and I heard the tails of the flogger as they whizzed through the air...Soon He was whipping the wax off of me and i was crying in passion and pain and began to softly cry as I floated off into subspace. He unchained me and took the other toys out of me and held me up. My legs were like jelly i could not believe it was so freeing and I could not even look at Him... I just whispered over and over thank you Sir... oh god I was gone ....all i could do was kneel and sob and kiss His feet afterwards....He said i was His littleone His good girl and i knew at that moment this was the Man i had been searching for all my life. It felt like it took me an hour to come down from subspace. Afterwards we talked out the whole experience and then went to bed... as I fell asleep in His arms I knew I had found the right Dominant for me.

That happened almost two years ago. We are now a married BDSM couple and everyday we count the many many blessings we have as individuals and as a team. Ok was that erotic enough or just a bit mushy? <grin>

Edited to add a P.S. I did not drop the rope or buttplug LOL

quiet

 

[Red Menace]

Re: Erotic memories

That happened almost two years ago. We are now a married BDSM couple and everyday we count the many many blessings we have as individuals and as a team. Ok was that erotic enough or just a bit mushy? <grin>

quiet

Oh gawd.... that was beautiful. I'm feeling a little mushy now.

My confession is that serving Sir is a huge turn-on. A few days ago He was working at His computer and mentioned being a little hungry. I went to the kitchen and found some grapes. As I was sitting at His feet feeding Him, He looked down and smiled at me. This electric charge ran through my body and the wetness that had been building was now running down my thigh. With much amusement, He asked me if I was ready to cum. I said Yes Sir, and all He had to do was touch me.

I had no idea anyone could have that much power over me, but I'm in a constant state of arousal around Him and it doesn't take much to put me over the edge.

 

[MissTaken]

For me the erotic moments occur when he touches my face, or holds me between activities.

For me, erotic moments are intimate moments.

If we are at a family BBQ and he whispers certain words, that is erotic.

My heart races.
My face gets flushed.
My eyes may even tear up a bit.
My hands may tremble.


I was chatting with someone on IM the other night. He wanted me to talk about things I find erotic and expected me to discuss ropes and floggers and all that stuff.

I told him erotic =intimacy for me.

You can change the oil in the care, and it can still be erotic.

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Des and Master

You say the sweetest things. Just wait till Dream and I have about 90 days together in R/L, (skin-to skin),...THEN,...I will post a true experience, and you won't have need for a vibrator or a dildo, to accomplish an AWESOME orgasm.-LOL-

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Definately definately BELIEVE what the man says Des,He drove me absolutely WILD over the webcam the other night and I think we are BOTH still recovering from that one!! if ever there was an 'Erotic" moment in My life it was "hearing His voice instructing me ,bringing me to my intense orgasm,yet needing desperately to TOUCH Him ,FEEL Him next to me to share the moment Skin to Skin also.it was overwhelmingly a Passionate ,exciting turn in our relationship,to me anyways
Still "reliving' it in my head

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Erotic memories

The only way I could really define being erotic is to share this erotic and very good memory of mine:

Freshly showered and cleaned, I placed the black leather cuffs on each
wrist and ankle. As I locked them into place I wondered what I was aboutto experience. Master and I had only begun playing weeks before and I was a bit nervous about what this night would entail. I trusted Master though so any fears or anxiety were calmed by the knowledge of His care for me. As He ordered me to kneel. I felt Him placing a blindfold over my eyes. As the darkness overcame me, I felt the thrill of butterflies in my stomach just thinking about what was about to happen.
I wanted to focus on Him and I began to follow His every word. I relaxed some as He directed my every move. He placed a leash around me and said, "crawl". The floor felt cold on my knees and even colder as I crossed the threshhold into the playroom. He talked reassuringly to me and had me stand slowly as He hooked my hands to the chains I heard rattling. He took off my blindfold and I gasped as I saw the chains, my feet locked in place by the spreader bar. The playroom was dimly lit with
candles. The shadows dancing across the room along with the sweet smell of incense He had lit gave me a warm excited feeling as the anticipation to submit and serve Him swept over me. He kissed me softly and asked me if I was going to please Him. I replied yes Sir and He ordered me to bend over as He inserted and inflated the vibrating butt plug into my ass. I tried very hard to relax as the urge to get it out of me began. He ordered me to stand and let me know under no circumstances was I to let it out until He gave me permission. He walked around and kissed me and told me to look at Him and ordered me to stand and placed a small rope in my hand as i stood. He then explained to me that the rope was my safe word and I was to drop it as soon as I felt I had to stop. He placed a ball gag in my mouth and began flogging me sofly at first and I heard myself moaning as each
stroke warmed my skin. He picked up a candle and held it in front of me,close enough for me to feel the heat from the flame. Instantly i knew what He would do. My body shuddered and I nodded as He slowly poured the hot melting wax onto my breasts. I groaned as the hot scented wax dripped down my breasts and onto my tummy .... He said He wanted to be pleased and it pleased Him as I took His torture so well... as He picked up the flogger I was determined not to drop the rope at all proving to Him and myself my determination to be His hands glided the floger softly over me as He turned on the vibrating butt plug. I moaned as the wet dripped down my thighs and I heard the tails of the flogger as they whizzed through the air...Soon He was whipping the wax off of me and i was crying in passion and pain and began to softly cry as I floated off into subspace. He unchained me and took the other toys out of me and held me up. My legs were like jelly i could not believe it was so freeing and I could not even look at Him... I just whispered over and over thank you Sir... oh god I was gone ....all i could do was kneel and sob and kiss His feet afterwards....He said i was His littleone His good girl and i knew at that moment this was the Man i had been searching for all my life. It felt like it took me an hour to come down from subspace. Afterwards we talked out the whole experience and then went to bed... as I fell asleep in His arms I knew I had found the right Dominant for me.

That happened almost two years ago. We are now a married BDSM couple and everyday we count the many many blessings we have as individuals and as a team. Ok was that erotic enough or just a bit mushy? <grin>

Edited to add a P.S. I did not drop the rope or buttplug LOL

quiet

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that was one of the most beautiful posts I ever read,and still tearing up at it ,ty so much for the bit of "humor 'added at the end I needed it!!

 

[lovetoread]

Erotic to me is not all about sex.

Give my hair a touch.

Rub a hand across my back.

Send me a sexy note on an email.

Leave a hot message on my icq.

Take the kids out to play and leave me to soak in a tub with a romance book.

Put out a couple of "toys" to tease me.

Any or all of those things are what I like.

 

[Ebonyfire]

You know me

Like my sexuality, erotica, and sensualism is not confined to BDSM. Also, I find that my male subs are generally speaking the same way. There may be overlap, but to me sex is sex, erotic is erotic whatever the context.

I make no distinction.

But that is me. YMMV.

Eb

 

[Ghost's amaris]

To me there are alot of things that are erotic moments.

I consider certain parts of the subspace very erotic, but i also find the cuddling and touching of my body and the love. I find the tender moments the most erotic and I can say that in my Master and I play he will get tender while i am in subspace and it can even help me go deeper into my subspace.

Those are all erotic moments, but when ever I am around Master all he has to do is look at me the right way and i can cum.

Well those my my piddly thoughts on the matter.

Ghost's amaris

 

[~Dream~]

amaris..

To me there are alot of things that are erotic moments.

I consider certain parts of the subspace very erotic, but i also find the cuddling and touching of my body and the love. I find the tender moments the most erotic and I can say that in my Master and I play he will get tender while i am in subspace and it can even help me go deeper into my subspace.

Those are all erotic moments, but when ever I am around Master all he has to do is look at me the right way and i can cum.

Well those my my piddly thoughts on the matter.

Ghost's amaris

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"all he has to do is look at me the right way and i can cum."_Boy Do I ever know that feeling sweety!"

your thoughts are wonderful,never belittle them..

 

[pierced_boy]

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