Erotic Massage
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I have a tip, its not the most erotic but it makes your arms and back feel like you just got back from a massage therapist.
Have him lay on his stomach, reach 1 arm at a time behind his back. So his shoulder blade is kind of sticking up. And massage under the shoulder blade - kind of soft at first so as not to hurt him, then ask him if he wants you to go harder - and gradually increase the amount of pressure. Dont go over board with it, it can be a sensitive spot to massage because its never really touched.
Have him lay on his stomach, reach 1 arm at a time behind his back. So his shoulder blade is kind of sticking up. And massage under the shoulder blade - kind of soft at first so as not to hurt him, then ask him if he wants you to go harder - and gradually increase the amount of pressure. Dont go over board with it, it can be a sensitive spot to massage because its never really touched.
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It really depends on where HIS most sensitive and pressure sensitive areas are. And that will differ with every person you're with. Some love deep probing into the muscles and others like it light and relaxing.
Due to our musculature, skeletal arrangement and all the day to day stresses on same you might concentrate on the neck, lower back shoulders (but you know of these already) and then switch slowly from the basics into the erotic ... upper thighs, inner thighs, bum (big muscles there and when they tense it affects the lower back area). Many people do backs ONLY. A nice chest and abdominal massage feesl great too and don't forget the front of the thighs and areas of the face .... you'll find those special spots on a lover that drive them crazy/horny or drop them into such a relaxed state that they are asleep in a few minutes. That can bee good too. Never get pi$$ed if that happens. You've done a good job. Just expect payback when he wakes up. If not make sure the next massage is one where he doesn't / CAN'T fall asleep on you.
He should let you know what feels best but like sex it may depend on his work, the AHs in his life, his physical condition - all factors in what works best AT THAT TIME and it will change. Over time if you're with him for awhile, you'll know what to do, where, how hard (or soft) just based on his mood. Whether it is sex, massage or just company / conversation THAT is diff between a relationship and sportfu¢king just some bod you grabbed at closing time at the bar!
OH and don't forget for the EROTIC massage ... don't JUST use your hands !!!!
Due to our musculature, skeletal arrangement and all the day to day stresses on same you might concentrate on the neck, lower back shoulders (but you know of these already) and then switch slowly from the basics into the erotic ... upper thighs, inner thighs, bum (big muscles there and when they tense it affects the lower back area). Many people do backs ONLY. A nice chest and abdominal massage feesl great too and don't forget the front of the thighs and areas of the face .... you'll find those special spots on a lover that drive them crazy/horny or drop them into such a relaxed state that they are asleep in a few minutes. That can bee good too. Never get pi$$ed if that happens. You've done a good job. Just expect payback when he wakes up. If not make sure the next massage is one where he doesn't / CAN'T fall asleep on you.
He should let you know what feels best but like sex it may depend on his work, the AHs in his life, his physical condition - all factors in what works best AT THAT TIME and it will change. Over time if you're with him for awhile, you'll know what to do, where, how hard (or soft) just based on his mood. Whether it is sex, massage or just company / conversation THAT is diff between a relationship and sportfu¢king just some bod you grabbed at closing time at the bar!
OH and don't forget for the EROTIC massage ... don't JUST use your hands !!!!
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I find it will keep him from falling asleep if as i'm massaging his back, im straddling one of his legs, or bum, depending on the part of back your working on...as you massage and move about grind into the back of his thigh, or bum.
its worked every time for me!
I find it will keep him from falling asleep if as i'm massaging his back, im straddling one of his legs, or bum, depending on the part of back your working on...as you massage and move about grind into the back of his thigh, or bum.
its worked every time for me!
As a man I can testify that this strategy works on me
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As a man I can testify that this strategy works on me
I agree
when burkina does that its hard to let her finish the massage lol, grinding against your man and occasionally biting his back or ear will make it a fantastic erotic massage 
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Few Things
I throw in some kisses, licks and quick nips. Just to switch up the feel of my hands on his back.
Also sides can be very sensitive and are often over looked, if you keep your nails, VERY light scratches down his sides. It should make him shiver.
I throw in some kisses, licks and quick nips. Just to switch up the feel of my hands on his back.
Also sides can be very sensitive and are often over looked, if you keep your nails, VERY light scratches down his sides. It should make him shiver.
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