enthusiastic blowjobs

[rosebud5446]

Okay... i like giving my boyfriend head, but i don't LOVE it...i know they will be better for him when he can see i am really into it, so i was wondering what makes you so excited when you give blowjobs/eat out someone... like what is going through your mind when you do it that makes it so fun???

 

[devils_daughter]

Knowing it turns him on is the biggest turn on for me. I love having his cock in my mouth as I can see how wild it drives him, Knowing that something I do can make him that crazy is one of the biggest turn ons I can think of. Dammit...now I want to give a bj and he's not here.

 

[Nero-1]

When I eat out the wife I love knowing that I am making her feel that good and it makes me want to do it more and better. It's more about feeding off of the reaction of the other person plus the smells, the tastes and the payoff at the end.

 

[eudaemonia]

Great question!

I love so many facets about this particular act:

-- his trust in me to take his most sexual being into my mouth
-- the tactile feeling on my lips of his crescendoing excitement
-- the control I have to give him so much pleasure
-- the fact that I'm getting wet doing all this
-- the fact that I'm so close to see every minute detail of his beautiful body
-- the fact that he responds differently to my hands, my lips, tounge, hair, eyelashes, breasts on his body

 

[sunshine12]

I love to give head to see his reaction is worth it. testing how far I can go with it I love to do it when were in bed but it's fun when your riding down the road it's like you have control you get him all worked up he enjoys it but you can't do anything else it's fun to tease each other all day because you know by the time your somewhere to get it on you are both so worked up you have better sex that night

 

[Big_Dave3119]

Blowjobs

Knowing it turns him on is the biggest turn on for me. I love having his cock in my mouth as I can see how wild it drives him, Knowing that something I do can make him that crazy is one of the biggest turn ons I can think of. Dammit...now I want to give a bj and he's not here.

Hey Baby I am here right now !! My covck is stiff and ready to fil your mouth

 

[Eilan]

Hey Baby I am here right now !! My covck is stiff and ready to fil your mouth

The Personals forum is down the hall. Maybe you'll have some luck there.

And what's a covck?

 

[dramaqueen47]

I love you Eilan

 

[Eilan]

I love you Eilan

 

[Chicklet]

Okay... i like giving my boyfriend head, but i don't LOVE it...i know they will be better for him when he can see i am really into it, so i was wondering what makes you so excited when you give blowjobs/eat out someone... like what is going through your mind when you do it that makes it so fun???

I tend to rub my pussy against his leg to get myself off while I'm going down on him. It aids my enthusiasm

 

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[november26]

I agree with the majority! I'm a chap so it's slightly different, but when I'm down there, I just love making the other person feel great. I'd be as happy to make her orgasm and call it a night with a big smile on my face than to carry on for some tired sleepy sex.

When you're sucking (his covck ), don't look at his navel, look at his face, his eyes, his mouth, listen to the sounds.... erotica is in the mind, sex is physical....

 

[Eilan]

When you're sucking (his covck ), don't look at his navel, look at his face, his eyes, his mouth, listen to the sounds.... erotica is in the mind, sex is physical....

One post and already a smartass!

Welcome to Lit.

 

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[taolanes]

For me, nothing beats eating out a pussy. And I mean REALLY eating out a pussy. I love the fact that I'm the only person she allows to see her pussy. I love the heart-pounding anticipation of flirting, then slipping off her pants, then her thong....mmmmmm. I love seeing the sexiest part of her body. I love how it gets me sooo hard. I love how it tastes. I love how it makes her squirm and lose all her motor functions. Basically I just love how I could bring someone I love into complete ecstasy and that's why I enjoy every second I kiss, lick, and slurp her DELICIOUS pussy!! yummmmy

 

[LadyJeanne]

For me, nothing beats eating out a pussy. And I mean REALLY eating out a pussy. I love the fact that I'm the only person she allows to see her pussy. I love the heart-pounding anticipation of flirting, then slipping off her pants, then her thong....mmmmmm. I love seeing the sexiest part of her body. I love how it gets me sooo hard. I love how it tastes. I love how it makes her squirm and lose all her motor functions. Basically I just love how I could bring someone I love into complete ecstasy and that's why I enjoy every second I kiss, lick, and slurp her DELICIOUS pussy!! yummmmy

Bless your pussy loving heart!

 

[eudaemonia]

For me, nothing beats eating out a pussy. And I mean REALLY eating out a pussy. I love the fact that I'm the only person she allows to see her pussy. I love the heart-pounding anticipation of flirting, then slipping off her pants, then her thong....mmmmmm. I love seeing the sexiest part of her body. I love how it gets me sooo hard. I love how it tastes. I love how it makes her squirm and lose all her motor functions. Basically I just love how I could bring someone I love into complete ecstasy and that's why I enjoy every second I kiss, lick, and slurp her DELICIOUS pussy!! yummmmy

Very !

 

[TBKahuna123]

For me, nothing beats eating out a pussy. And I mean REALLY eating out a pussy. I love the fact that I'm the only person she allows to see her pussy. I love the heart-pounding anticipation of flirting, then slipping off her pants, then her thong....mmmmmm. I love seeing the sexiest part of her body. I love how it gets me sooo hard. I love how it tastes. I love how it makes her squirm and lose all her motor functions. Basically I just love how I could bring someone I love into complete ecstasy and that's why I enjoy every second I kiss, lick, and slurp her DELICIOUS pussy!! yummmmy

Yeah what he said! You stole the, ummm, words, right our of my mouth.

 

[Kpooh]

I mostly love the way he reacts when he is in my mouth....The way you can feel his cock throb when you hit certain spots

 

[CorsetLvr]

Okay... i like giving my boyfriend head, but i don't LOVE it...i know they will be better for him when he can see i am really into it, so i was wondering what makes you so excited when you give blowjobs/eat out someone... like what is going through your mind when you do it that makes it so fun???

My hubby has told me that if his partner is not enthusiastic about giving him head then he would just as soon move along to something else that they both feel is enjoyable. He says that an unenthusiastic BJ is the only thing worse then no BJ at all. Having received oral from a few less then enthusiastic partners myself, I can understand his point. If its obvious a partner is doing it only because they feel obligated, for whatever reason, its pretty much a turn off.

I suppose this is one of those things that you either enjoy, or don't. I'm with a lot of the other ladies on this one. There is definitely a degree of empowerment I feel when I have a man's cock in my mouth. This power is a turn on for me. Besides, its a favorite technique of mine when he needs a little "encouragement" for round 2, or 3, or....

 

[rosebud5446]

i think a big problem i have as well is... i have braces, and somewhat of a small mouth, and i don't want to hurt him giving a sloppy blowjob, which does sound really fun, but it makes me nervous at the same time... i also get self conscious when i do it alot of the time, does anyone know how to make the nervousness go away?

 

[mastaofhisown]

Try doing different things to him and ask him how he likes it but dont be shy just take his dick in your mouth and go nuts break ya neck from moving your head so hard. Make sure you concentrate on the top of his dick where alot of nerve endings are and dontforget to take it as far down your mouth as you can and just have fun with it sit on his face while you do it and make him eat you out so you get something out of it...

 

[CorsetLvr]

i think a big problem i have as well is... i have braces, and somewhat of a small mouth, and i don't want to hurt him giving a sloppy blowjob, which does sound really fun, but it makes me nervous at the same time... i also get self conscious when i do it alot of the time, does anyone know how to make the nervousness go away?

Rosebud,

Just take your time and don't put any pressure on yourself, or for that matter let your bf put pressure on you. Oral sex can be an acquired taste for a lot of women. Its not necessarily something you may fall in love with from the beginning, despite what some male erotic writers may write on that topic. That's simply a male fantasy about the virgin oral slut. I'd put it more in the category of champagne. I hated champagne the first time I tried it. I was pretty much the same way about oral sex. Now, I love both champagne and going down on men.

 

[eudaemonia]

i also get self conscious when i do it alot of the time, does anyone know how to make the nervousness go away?

Trying thinking of it as you exploring unfamiliar terrain for the first time.

Would you get all nervous and pressured if you were out exploring a new city for the first time? Of course not! You might start out by picking a spot that sounds interesting or you've heard something exciting about and go explore it. You'd meanader around, stopping to linger a while at one palce before moving on to another. You'd probably loose track of time as you take in all the newness. The goal isn't to do anything in particular other than to explore and see what you can see. When you're tired, stop to rest and ponder a bit, and go out for more sightseeing.

If you apply this to going down on a man, once his terrain becomes more familiar, then you can go back to those spots that interest you -- presumably because you found them pleasureable to hit because the company was so inviting. Your enthusiasm will naturally bubble to surface and he can take pleasure in your naturally-occuring excitement.

Hope I didn't, um, milk that metaphor for all it was worth.

Just take your time, explore lots and enjoy yourself. In a sense, you kinda need to focus on your own pleasure quite a bit at first, which sounds backassward prolly. But it worked for me.

Keep trying and HAVE FUN!