Endless Curiosity

[EroticRomanticMan]

I see we're starting the educational portion of the evening.

*settles in to be educated*

I'm genuinely curious. Shouldn't you gals know already! I know when I get a man boner! Lol

 

[Endless_Night]

*slips back out the door*

Jenny. Are you slipping out to go stalk, Barbie style?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

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[aussiegeekygal]

I'm genuinely curious. Shouldn't you gals know already! I know when I get a man boner! Lol

It's much more subtle for us, but there is a noticeable engorgement if you know what you're looking for.

Mine can throb at times. Them the good times.

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

It's much more subtle for us, but there is a noticeable engorgement if you know what you're looking for.

Mine can throb at times. Them the good times.

Now I'm getting a man boner! Hee hee hee

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Now I'm getting a man boner! Hee hee hee

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[JennyNo1]

Jenny. Are you slipping out to go stalk, Barbie style?

Just getting out of the way.

 

[ydahecnot]

Yeah, we don't know how big that lady boner is gonna get

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

Yeah, we don't know how big that lady boner is gonna get

Ha ha ha ha!

 

[Mrtenant]

Ha ha ha ha!

He's just like me, only more bold, and sexy, knows just how to treat the fairer sex, I just wonder, how much is he packing? Perhaps we can compare together at the bonfire on the beach while the radio plays our favorite love song!

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

He's just like me, only more bold, and sexy, knows just how to treat the fairer sex, I just wonder, how much is he packing? Perhaps we can compare together at the bonfire on the beach while the radio plays our favorite love song!

I have a 30/30 but it's in the closet right now!!

 

[Mrtenant]

I have a 30/30 but it's in the closet right now!!

time to come out of the closet, you sexy romantic hunk! 30 on each cheek! :caning:

 

[ydahecnot]

Dude, are you suck-hunting or something?

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

Dude, are you suck-hunting or something?

If so he's barking up the wrong tree!

 

[MrRetro]

We have no intimacy at all anymore. This question is the crux of my life. When is your sexual (intimate) satisfaction more important than the love, history and life you have together? I don't know the answer yet.

I think a lot of people are searching for this answer.. Myself included.. It is very difficult to not listen to a raging desire sometimes..!

 

[SassySheDevil]

He's just like me, only more bold, and sexy, knows just how to treat the fairer sex, I just wonder, how much is he packing? Perhaps we can compare together at the bonfire on the beach while the radio plays our favorite love song!

This is going to be fun.... *grabs popcorn*

 

[SassySheDevil]

I have always been a flirt, but I'm not the kind that will comment on guys pic or whatever by telling them all the whorish things I'd like to go to them, just to get their attention. If I say it, I typically mean it. I like to save the real whore for real life. If it moved past flirting, he knew.

My husband knows I'm here and is not worried. He has even talked with two of my closest friends.

 

[ViciousTease]

Lit is a place to explore sexual interests. Most of us try to be open-minded, even if what’s on the table isn’t exactly or cup of tea. After all, if a thread’s content holds no interest, it’s simple enough to wander off. But, what if it becomes more personal? What if you’re chatting with a Litster and a little item comes up that seriously squicks you out? Not necessarily during sexy talk, perhaps just general conversation. Do you say something? Bite you tongue and avoid further conversation? Do your best to ignore the information, run screaming into the night?

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

Lit is a place to explore sexual interests. Most of us try to be open-minded, even if what’s on the table isn’t exactly or cup of tea. After all, if a thread’s content holds no interest, it’s simple enough to wander off. But, what if it becomes more personal? What if you’re chatting with a Litster and a little item comes up that seriously squicks you out? Not necessarily during sexy talk, perhaps just general conversation. Do you say something? Bite you tongue and avoid further conversation? Do your best to ignore the information, run screaming into the night?

I will say that if she's a Trump supporter I'll probably be like "Uh, I gotta go." Lol

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Lit is a place to explore sexual interests. Most of us try to be open-minded, even if what’s on the table isn’t exactly or cup of tea. After all, if a thread’s content holds no interest, it’s simple enough to wander off. But, what if it becomes more personal? What if you’re chatting with a Litster and a little item comes up that seriously squicks you out? Not necessarily during sexy talk, perhaps just general conversation. Do you say something? Bite you tongue and avoid further conversation? Do your best to ignore the information, run screaming into the night?

I don't know that I've ever not been curious enough to not want to discuss something, although i think it's more likely that i just haven't crossed paths with anyone whose particular fetish really turns me off.

And because I came in late...

To start the conversation, I have question (or 20):

For those that come here to explore interests and ideas that you SO doesn't share, is this enough? What if, upon exploration, you find that Lit is not enough? At what point does the gap between your interests become too wide to bridge? Will you seek a better fit or accept your limited reality?

I came here after I had separated from my SO, but before I was ready to pursue anything irl, and that's still the case to some degree, but not for much longer, I hope. Why stay? It's familiar, it's convenient, I know the rules and I know where I fit in. It's been a 'safe' place to explore my sexuality, although it has come at a price that I wasn't expecting. At some point the gap will become too wide to bridge, because...

...I guess I've reached a point where fantasy often leads to more frustration than satisfaction...

This.

I think it'll be a good thing for me, pushing me out into the world, in search of something real. But I think it'll be painful, too, leaving behind those I've come to cherish. I suspect that I'll miss them more than they'll miss me, but still.

I'm not very good at letting go.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I leave for the weekend and it takes me two days to catch up. Lesson learned

I have talked to several people that have interests in my squick zone. I have to say that it really depends on their attitude as to if those conversations continue our not. If they can grasp the fact that I am squicked out but respectfully curious about their kink, then we can have an enlightening conversation. I will draw out my boundaries and let them know.. your kink is cool with me, but I don't want to participate. Most people with kinks that are off the beaten path can live with this.

If, on the other hand, they are shoving their icky in my face all the time...
BZZZZZZZZT. Next!

 

[islandjoe2]

Lit is a place to explore sexual interests. Most of us try to be open-minded, even if what’s on the table isn’t exactly or cup of tea. After all, if a thread’s content holds no interest, it’s simple enough to wander off. But, what if it becomes more personal? What if you’re chatting with a Litster and a little item comes up that seriously squicks you out? Not necessarily during sexy talk, perhaps just general conversation. Do you say something? Bite you tongue and avoid further conversation? Do your best to ignore the information, run screaming into the night?

As previously mentioned, we all try to stay open minded, myself included. Personally, if it has gotten to the point of having a serious conversation with someone, I'm there because I want to learn more about them. I never go into something expecting someone to be perfect, that's just not a realistic expectation, and honestly there are very few things that someone could say that would make me flee in terror....it's part of the rainbow of Lit.

 

[midwestyankee]

I leave for the weekend and it takes me two days to catch up. Lesson learned

I have talked to several people that have interests in my squick zone. I have to say that it really depends on their attitude as to if those conversations continue our not. If they can grasp the fact that I am squicked out but respectfully curious about their kink, then we can have an enlightening conversation. I will draw out my boundaries and let them know.. your kink is cool with me, but I don't want to participate. Most people with kinks that are off the beaten path can live with this.

If, on the other hand, they are shoving their icky in my face all the time...
BZZZZZZZZT. Next!

Might I recommend the Evelyn Woods course on speed reading?

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Squick? I sometimes find myself completely lost.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Might I recommend the Evelyn Woods course on speed reading?

You can recommend it, yep!

Squick? I sometimes find myself completely lost.

That was a new one for me as well when I hit these boards.
I just supposed if it's squicky, it's icky