Endless Curiosity

As for physical attractiveness - well, one may find sculpted bodies of whatever aesthetic pleases one easily. What means more to me is the trust given when allowed to learn about someone's sexuality and fantasies, and being able to provide that (aural or textual) spark that helps them to pleasure. In that context, a picture of someone is more a sign of intimacy, and hence endearing AND exciting, regardless of how objectively attractive someone is. Or y'know, something like that!

Nice. :)

<snip> What's his number? I need to talk to him about something ... totally unrelated to the question, I swear ... uhh ... shoes! I need to tell him to buy you some new shoes! Yeah, that's it!

*squints suspiciously*

Hmmmm. What kind of shoes? :cattail:
 
I have told this to the woman (age 52) I'm dating, along with the comment "After all, we have to do something else with the OTHER 20 hours a day, and we can only sleep for so much of it!". Fortunately for me, she loves musicals and SF literature and movies and Galavant, so we have plenty of fodder for repartee.

As for physical attractiveness - well, one may find sculpted bodies of whatever aesthetic pleases one easily. What means more to me is the trust given when allowed to learn about someone's sexuality and fantasies, and being able to provide that (aural or textual) spark that helps them to pleasure. In that context, a picture of someone is more a sign of intimacy, and hence endearing AND exciting, regardless of how objectively attractive someone is. Or y'know, something like that!

Welcome :)

*squints suspiciously*

Hmmmm. What kind of shoes? :cattail:

Strappy, sexy, and expensive. :D
 
I am unsure about this one.

I have seen just as many stories about people who fall in love on line, meet up and end up not liking each other as I have seen the opposite. Are platonic friendships any different? More to the point, are our expectations of platonic friendships so very different from our expectations of romantic relationships so as to allow for a more positive outcome for platonic relationships?

Probably :) I would put myself out there for a few people I have met on here, yes.

So, as I was lying here, nursing a hangover :rolleyes:, I started wondering….

What if you met a Lit friend and they chewed with their mouth open? Or picked their noses? Or smacked their gum? Or - :eek: - had ugly shoes???

Something to thing about….

Errrr, sorry about the backtrack. :eek:
 
So, as I was lying here, nursing a hangover :rolleyes:, I started wondering….

What if you met a Lit friend and they chewed with their mouth open? Or picked their noses? Or smacked their gum? Or - :eek: - had ugly shoes???

Something to thing about….

Errrr, sorry about the backtrack. :eek:

*sigh* Now I'm worried about my shoe collection.
 
It's finally here, Sex in Public Saturday!

The stage is available, show us what you've got. :devil:

For the spectators, let's assume for a moment that public sex is completely legal and acceptable. Why don't you do it? What is holding you back?

Bonus questions: If you happen upon someone having sex, do you stop and watch? Would your answer be different if they couldn't see you?

But where is the question for the participants? :confused:

I have actually had sex publicly a few times. Hot! Hot hot hot! It has never lasted long, some of it astonishingly quick, as a matter of fact :devil: But I have actually never spectated. Your questions are skewed, VT. Skewed, I say! Shame! :p

*squints suspiciously*

You look suspicious .
And you should put your glasses back on.

*sends PM*

And stop sending me PMs!
I SAID no fisting already!
:p :p
 
But where is the question for the participants? :confused:

I have actually had sex publicly a few times. Hot! Hot hot hot! It has never lasted long, some of it astonishingly quick, as a matter of fact :devil: But I have actually never spectated. Your questions are skewed, VT. Skewed, I say! Shame! :p

We were answering questions to entertain ourselves while we waited for you to put on a show. :rolleyes:
 
What is it that you like to showcase on Lit, either in general or as far as potential partner’s go? The default answer is that we are all ourselves when we’re logged onto the board, but surely that’s not entirely true. Even real time we tend to put our best qualities on display those first few dates. Do you like to show your smarts, your sense of humor, explore the sexy? Is Lit an opportunity to put forward something different than in real life?
 
For me, I like to showcase the intrigue. The hint that there could be something more there but is there? I don't like to box myself into corners.

Then again, being vague is also inside the showcase.
 
For me, I like to showcase the intrigue. The hint that there could be something more there but is there? I don't like to box myself into corners.

Then again, being vague is also inside the showcase.

Chainey is here!! *happy dance*

A little mystery is a beautiful thing. I do love puzzles. ;)

I mostly put my foot in my mouth and look like a dumbass. :p

Aww, nothing wrong with that. At the very least, it shows that you're limber. :D
 
Confession: I was in Such. A. Bad. Mood. Yesterday. So abysmal, in fact, that I missed Publuc Sex Saturday *tear

Perhaps, VT, it could become a recurring event?

What do I showcase on Lit? *blinks*

Basically anything my mom would flip out over if she read it on Facebook :p
 
For me, I like to showcase the intrigue. The hint that there could be something more there but is there? I don't like to box myself into corners.

Then again, being vague is also inside the showcase.

Ahhh. This makes perfect sense. I am now picturing you as the protagonist of a thriller. :cool:

You look suspicious .
And you should put your glasses back on.

And stop sending me PMs!
I SAID no fisting already!
:p :p

You promised our PMs would stay private!!! :eek:

*straightens glasses*

:p
 
Confession: I was in Such. A. Bad. Mood. Yesterday. So abysmal, in fact, that I missed Publuc Sex Saturday *tear

Perhaps, VT, it could become a recurring event?

What do I showcase on Lit? *blinks*

Basically anything my mom would flip out over if she read it on Facebook :p

Hmmmm. Public Sex Saturday. Could be interesting. What say, VT? Are we going to have recurring events?

* * *

As to the question, I'll be back later to answer. This one requires some thought....

Besides, I have stuff to do. :p
 
Oh, I could show you some things. ;)

You've got my full attention, Sir. :D

Confession: I was in Such. A. Bad. Mood. Yesterday. So abysmal, in fact, that I missed Publuc Sex Saturday *tear

Perhaps, VT, it could become a recurring event?

What do I showcase on Lit? *blinks*

Basically anything my mom would flip out over if she read it on Facebook :p

Consider it done. :D
 
What is it that you like to showcase on Lit, either in general or as far as potential partner’s go? The default answer is that we are all ourselves when we’re logged onto the board, but surely that’s not entirely true. Even real time we tend to put our best qualities on display those first few dates. Do you like to show your smarts, your sense of humor, explore the sexy? Is Lit an opportunity to put forward something different than in real life?

Yes, yes, yes, and yes.
 
What is it that you like to showcase on Lit, either in general or as far as potential partner’s go? The default answer is that we are all ourselves when we’re logged onto the board, but surely that’s not entirely true. Even real time we tend to put our best qualities on display those first few dates. Do you like to show your smarts, your sense of humor, explore the sexy? Is Lit an opportunity to put forward something different than in real life?

Hmmm. I would have to say...
*rainbow hand gesture*
Imaginaaaaaaation. :D
I like my interactions to be imaginative. All of them. Whether we are exchanging pleasantries, discussing something serious or sexting, I like a good imagination. I don't want trite, "look how cool I am" crap, or a ho hum, everyday exchange. I want to stretch my brain like Endless' heels stretch her poor, long suffering feet :p I want to cover territory I have never covered before, even with a simple How do you Do? :) So I would say that imagination is my Best Foot Forward. This is no different than in real life.

As a matter of fact, where I get into trouble here (and real life :rolleyes:) is trying to rein that in. Trying to fit into the mundane usually ends up with me right beside Ricky, foot in mouth. At least mine are tasty, not sure about his :p
 
Hmmm. I would have to say...
*rainbow hand gesture*
Imaginaaaaaaation. :D
I like my interactions to be imaginative. All of them. Whether we are exchanging pleasantries, discussing something serious or sexting, I like a good imagination. I don't want trite, "look how cool I am" crap, or a ho hum, everyday exchange. I want to stretch my brain like Endless' heels stretch her poor, long suffering feet :p I want to cover territory I have never covered before, even with a simple How do you Do? :) So I would say that imagination is my Best Foot Forward. This is no different than in real life.

As a matter of fact, where I get into trouble here (and real life :rolleyes:) is trying to rein that in. Trying to fit into the mundane usually ends up with me right beside Ricky, foot in mouth. At least mine are tasty, not sure about his :p

Another limber Litster? Now I'm really sad that you didn't put on a show yesterday. :(
 
To answer the question:

I’m not entirely what I do here counts as showcasing, more setting a part of myself free that rarely sees the light of day. The opinions I express on Lit are my own, they remain the same no matter if I’m traversing real life or online. My persona, however, is quite different in the two places.

Off Lit I am assertive, impatient, articulate, bossy and quite serious. Certainly not shy or easily embarrassed. And I certainly wouldn’t be caught dead foot stomping! :eek:

Lit is about letting loose the dichotomies that surround my sexual persona, the ones I normally keep under lock and key. Here I let out the silly, the bratty, the insecure, all things that make up the sexually submissive side of my character.

Rather like letting my inner child run free, perhaps.

Except an over 18, interested in sex kind of inner child. :p

Another limber Litster? Now I'm really sad that you didn't put on a show yesterday. :(

Don't worry. She'll have another chance next Public Sex Saturday. :D
 
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