End of a first date

[Guest]

Okay ladies, I'm really confused....I went on a date tonight, we had a great dinner,great conversation and we BOTH had a lot of fun. Well at the end of the night we each went to our respective cabs, but before we left we both said we had a good time and then I went in for the kiss....she turned her head and all I got was cheek!....what's the deal, I know she had a good time...why do you woman do that...what should I read into this, if anything?


Confused Male

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

That may either be that she really isn't interested in you or that she wants to take things really slow. Don't read too much into things. One word of advice unless you are a woman you will never understand us. We just change the rules all the time.LOL

 

[April]

It might not mean anything other than she's not comfortable with you kissing her on the lips on the first date. Some people are like that. It might just be a personal space issue. If she goes out with you again, then that is a good sign. Don't feel bad or think that she doesn't like you unless she gives you a clear sign. Like telling you "I don't like you." LOL

 

[Naked Hunny]

she could even be playing hard to get!! You never know! i admit it women are fickle!!

 

[Lasher]

Could I suggest a breath mint?

 

[Skitten]

You said it was the first date right? I know a lot of people who don't kiss on the first date and that is her right, she may not be ready, in fact if you think about it she just went out with you there isn't anything there yet. Sometimes women need more than just a date. A kiss means a lot more to a women sometimes than to a man. So don't read too much into it. Give it another try call her and go out with her again she will know when she is ready to kiss you and it may not be right away be prepared for that.

 

[Never]

Sorry bub, you're lost. If a woman doesn't at least let you lick her tonsils on the first date it's a lost cause.

How old are you anyway?

 

[KillerMuffin]

LMAO NEVER!!!!!!

I'm an odd duck, if I really really liked a guy, I wouldn't let him do more than kiss my cheek either. If I just sorta liked the guy I'd play tonsil hockey on the first date. Not much more usually. The one guy I did get all hot n bothered for on the first date and do some all night sheet wrasslin with, I never wanted to see him again. Nothin against his performance or anything, I just didn't respect him in the morning.

The only safe assumption here darlin, is that whatever you assume is gonna be wrong. Anyway, ya'll can try askin her, sometimes women like open dialog. Sometimes they don't.

Sometimes you're the windshield, sometimes you're the bug.

 

[Melody_lane]

"I'm an odd duck, if I really really liked a guy, I wouldn't let him do more than kiss my cheek either. If I just sorta liked the guy I'd play tonsil hockey on the first date. Not much more usually. The one guy I did get all hot n bothered for on the first date and do some all night sheet wrasslin with, I never wanted to see him again. Nothin against his performance or anything, I just didn't respect him in the morning. "


I must be an odd duck, too.

 

[*Eve*]

Actually Melody I don't think you're an odd duck at all. I'm kind of the same way. Guys aren't the only ones who put women on the category as someone you want to settle down with or someone you just want to have a good time with. If it's a guy I think I can see my self being with for a long time with the chance of more developing, I take things really slow and I wouldn't even let him kiss me at all on the first date, but if it's just a gy I want to hook up with my tongue may be so far down his throat he may gag. So, you're not the only one.

 

[KillerMuffin]

I'm not a weirdo after all? Holy cow and all that rot.

 

[Bliss]

Upon closer examination...

what should I read into this, if anything?
Confused Male

Since when do men try to read into things? Felix Unger aside, men who date women don't tend to want to hear what we're actually saying out loud, that we are in possession of several versions of "what we really mean" never enters their minds.

 

[Never]

I get the feeling she was implying something but I'm darned if I know what.

 

[Havocman]

*slowing down for a moment, reminiscing about my Senior Prom, then moving on...*

"All alone at the end of the evening
And the bright lights have faded to blue
I was thinking 'bout a woman
Who might have loved me
And I never knew
You know I've always been a dreamer
(spent my life running 'round)
And it's so hard to change
(Can't seem to settle down)
But the dreams I've seen lately
Keep on turning out and burning out
And turning out the same

So put me on a highway
And show me a sign
And take it to the limit one more time"

Havoc the Wandering Minstrel

 

[Bliss]

Don Henley IS God. Discuss.

*dabbing eyes with Kleenex*

I'm so blessed! Two second bananas, and one has a worn out tape of Chris LeDoux.

 

[Skitten]

There must be a lot of us old ducks out there because I am with Killer Muffin on this one.