CelticFrog
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Okay.
So I am wanting experiences from people who have started out kinda slow with sexual experimentation but increased it.
This is going to be a conversation about communication and experimentation and fun and NEWNESS.
Random (hypothetical) situation:
Female in a longterm relationship decides that she wants to try something she may have seen somewhere (just for the fun of it, we'll say Lit) and isn't sure how to bring it up with her male SO.
For whatever reason, she's a little leery of talking about it with him. She could be afraid that he'll look at her like she's crazy. She could have a fear of sexual talk. She could have any number of reasons for being afraid of bringing up the topic. Yet she is still interested in trying those new things and wants to figure out a way in which to do so while minimalizing the likelihood of being rejected.
So I guess here's the basics:
Someone wants to experiment a little more. For whatever reason.
What are different ways you've introduced more experimentation? In any situation?
How did you overcome fear of rejection?
How did you overcome *mild* taboo worries?
(I'm not talking deep seated convictions here)
How did you encourage your SO to talk about their interests beyond what you've already tried?
How have you encouraged that sort of communication in general?
Discuss.
Ang
So I am wanting experiences from people who have started out kinda slow with sexual experimentation but increased it.
This is going to be a conversation about communication and experimentation and fun and NEWNESS.
Random (hypothetical) situation:
Female in a longterm relationship decides that she wants to try something she may have seen somewhere (just for the fun of it, we'll say Lit) and isn't sure how to bring it up with her male SO.
For whatever reason, she's a little leery of talking about it with him. She could be afraid that he'll look at her like she's crazy. She could have a fear of sexual talk. She could have any number of reasons for being afraid of bringing up the topic. Yet she is still interested in trying those new things and wants to figure out a way in which to do so while minimalizing the likelihood of being rejected.
So I guess here's the basics:
Someone wants to experiment a little more. For whatever reason.
What are different ways you've introduced more experimentation? In any situation?
How did you overcome fear of rejection?
How did you overcome *mild* taboo worries?
(I'm not talking deep seated convictions here)
How did you encourage your SO to talk about their interests beyond what you've already tried?
How have you encouraged that sort of communication in general?
Discuss.
Ang