Emily’s NEW positivity and being nice to each other thread

[SimonDoom]

We need to get you to appreciate the female orgasm more

Em

I think most men are all in favor of the female orgasm. They just like knowing they have a role to play.

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

I think most men are all in favor of the female orgasm. They just like knowing they have a role to play.

Yup, men do like to be able to say, "See, I did that."

 

[StillStunned]

And yet women always say we're so selfish!

 

[Devinter]

Yup, men do like to be able to say, "See, I did that."

This definitely works both ways. I was with a lady once that was unable to make me climax from oral pleasure. She just wasn't very good at it. (Teeth scraping, etc.) - and even though I was super nice about it, her confidence plummeted and she even began crying. I think, generally speaking, it is easier to make a man orgasm - but I assume that makes it all the more devastating if one should fail. At least within a loving relationship.

 

[StillStunned]

The clicking of toes curling, the breathy little moaned "don't stop", the brief, hot, needful silence leading to la petite mort.

Ah, so you've had my chocolate cake then, have you?

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

And yet women always say we're so selfish!

Dammit. There you go again, illustrating how women's powers of observation are better than men's

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

The clicking of toes curling, the breathy little moaned "don't stop", the brief, hot, needful silence leading to la petite mort.

Mm. Sign me up. I don't care how she gets there, just let me listen to those five seconds and I'm a happy girl.

Damn, you're good. Your word choice is perfect. You should write...

 

[StillStunned]

I think, generally speaking, it is easier to make a man orgasm

Shirly Schmidt: "Two words. Denny... Crane."
Denny Crane: "Hnnngh!"

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Speaking of positivity and being nice.

Call out to @StillStunned on one of the best avatars in the forum. His cat gets my attention every time I see it and immediately draws me to whatever he has to say like it's important or something. Of course, his wit and sentience keep me following hi,.

Great advertising.

 

[SimonDoom]

Yup, men do like to be able to say, "See, I did that."

Of course. And as Devinter says, it works both ways. We like to believe we give pleasure to our partner and that we have an essential role to play. It's normal to want that.

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Of course. And as Devinter says, it works both ways. We like to believe we give pleasure to our partner and that we have an essential role to play. It's normal to want that.

Totally agree. Though I do feel the motivations and rewards manifest differently for women and men. I don't mean the way an orgasm manifests, rather that when a woman makes her partner cum, she feels it differently that when a man does.

 

[MrPixel]

Okay, I’m sold. Now I know what present to give C for Epiphany. She likes her… oh, never mind… TMI.

 

[MillieDynamite]

There are women who fake orgasms to avoid hurting their partner's feelings. It's a staple trope in cheating stories (she cheated because he didn't satisfy her in bed), but in the real world, I don't believe most of these women cheat if they are happy with their husbands in other areas.

Totally agree. Though I do feel the motivations and rewards manifest differently for women and men. I don't mean the way an orgasm manifests, rather that when a woman makes her partner cum, she feels it differently that when a man does.

 

[StillStunned]

Speaking of positivity and being nice.

Call out to @StillStunned on one of the best avatars in the forum. His cat gets my attention every time I see it and immediately draws me to whatever he has to say like it's important or something. Of course, his wit and sentience keep me following hi,.

Great advertising.

Just so you know: what I say is rarely ever important. As for wit... Well, my dear old Mum always tells me, "If wit were shit, you'd be constipated."

(But thanks, I appreciate your kind words. I just have difficulty dealing with compliments.)

 

[MillieDynamite]

Come on, man, you're a yuckster!

Just so you know: what I say is rarely ever important. As for wit... Well, my dear old Mum always tells me, "If wit were shit, you'd be constipated."

(But thanks, I appreciate your kind words. I just have difficulty dealing with compliments.)

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Okay, I’m sold. Now I know what present to give C for Epiphany. She likes her… oh, never mind… TMI.

Really... I here... Have you been paying attention. LOL

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Just so you know: what I say is rarely ever important. As for wit... Well, my dear old Mum always tells me, "If wit were shit, you'd be constipated."

(But thanks, I appreciate your kind words. I just have difficulty dealing with compliments.)

Understood. Don't understand why, but my friends don't seem to think I'm near as funny as I think I am.

 

[Kelliezgirl]

Yup, men do like to be able to say, "See, I did that."

It's the modern equivalent of dragging a huge hunk of mastodon back to the cave.

 

[Kelliezgirl]

This definitely works both ways. I was with a lady once that was unable to make me climax from oral pleasure. She just wasn't very good at it. (Teeth scraping, etc.) - and even though I was super nice about it, her confidence plummeted and she even began crying. I think, generally speaking, it is easier to make a man orgasm - but I assume that makes it all the more devastating if one should fail. At least within a loving relationship.

One of my friends dated a guy who had delayed ejaculation. (It's a real thing https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/delayed-ejaculation/symptoms-causes/syc-20371358 )

It was a mixed bag for her, on one hand he lasted for over an hour, on the other hand he sometimes wouldn't orgasm at all. That was tough for her to reconcile with the societal "norm".

 

[StillStunned]

It's the modern equivalent of dragging a huge hunk of mastodon back to the cave.

Cavemissus: "I want hairy mammoth for dinner this month."
Cavemister: "Seriously? You know how much work it is to kill one of those things!"
Cavemissus: "Well, how about you get me off instead?"
Cavemister: "Right. Mammoth burgers coming up."

 

[StillStunned]

Returning to the positivity that's the supposed purpose of this thread, I'd like to give a shout-out to the magic of sweeps. The Countesses of Tannensdal has somehow leaped from an average rating of 4.83 to 4.94!

(I requested a sweep the other day because someone seems to be going after my stories with pairs of 3s. So far a bunch of my ratings have shot up.)

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Cavemissus: "I want hairy mammoth for dinner this month."
Cavemister: "Seriously? You know how much work it is to kill one of those things!"
Cavemissus: "Well, how about you get me off instead?"
Cavemister: "Right. Mammoth burgers coming up."

In reflection, I'm pretty sure the first 'Hitachi' as carved from mastodon horn...

 

[StillStunned]

In reflection, I'm pretty sure the first 'Hitachi' as carved from mastodon horn...

Cavemissus: "No darling, you go off with your friends and play with fire. I'm in the mood for the horn. Horny, so to speak."

(In my imagination cavepeople were quite sophisticated.)

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Cavemissus: "No darling, you go off with your friends and play with fire. I'm in the mood for the horn. Horny, so to speak."

(In my imagination cavepeople were quite sophisticated.)

Etymology in a writer's forum. Who woulda thunk?

 

[Kelliezgirl]

(In my imagination cavepeople were quite sophisticated.)

Fred and Wilma were...