Emily’s NEW positivity and being nice to each other thread

[onehitwanda]

Like being bound with a Hitachi strapped to your clit. You can have too much of a good thing…

Em

This is a graphic image. I am 100% committed to it.

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

From the perspective of a watcher, the magic is handwaved.

Um, wand, duh...

 

[SimonDoom]

A recent comment I got objected to my narrator's statement that the Hitachi is unsexy.


Strangely, the objection wasn't about the statement as such - which I was expecting, in fact - but the use of the word "unsexiest".

I have observed the Hitachi in use in person, and I have used it myself on partners, and my experience is that it's one of the most effective means of getting the job done, for the woman. But it's not especially sexy to watch from the man's point of view. It doesn't mimic what a man does, the way a dildo does. It's a disquieting reminder that a man's cock isn't necessarily by itself the key to a woman's fulfillment.

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Um, wand, duh...

And looks who shows up... Hey @onehitwanda...

 

[EmilyMiller]

I have observed the Hitachi in use in person, and I have used it myself on partners, and my experience is that it's one of the most effective means of getting the job done, for the woman. But it's not especially sexy to watch from the man's point of view. It doesn't mimic what a man does, the way a dildo does. It's a disquieting reminder that a man's cock isn't necessarily by itself the key to a woman's fulfillment.

You don’t find a woman using a Hitachi on herself sexy? Call yourself a kink lord ?

Em

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

I have observed the Hitachi in use in person, and I have used it myself on partners, and my experience is that it's one of the most effective means of getting the job done, for the woman. But it's not especially sexy to watch from the man's point of view. It doesn't mimic what a man does, the way a dildo does. It's a disquieting reminder that a man's cock isn't necessarily by itself the key to a woman's fulfillment.

And that realization can open so many doors to wonderful and exciting experiences with your female partner. So many things to do that don't involve my cock, and I enjoy them all.

 

[StillStunned]

I have observed the Hitachi in use in person, and I have used it myself on partners, and my experience is that it's one of the most effective means of getting the job done, for the woman. But it's not especially sexy to watch from the man's point of view. It doesn't mimic what a man does, the way a dildo does. It's a disquieting reminder that a man's cock isn't necessarily by itself the key to a woman's fulfillment.

Oh, it's not that. I'm as conceited about my sexual prowess as the next man, but I've never thought that a cock alone was enough to satisfy a woman.

No, the problem with the Hitachi is that all you see is a big round bulb (blocking the view most of the time), and the woman's reaction. For all intents and purposes, it might as well all be happening in her head.

ETA: the story is about the narrator's girlfriend putting on a show for him. That's why he objects to the Hitachi, not because he doesn't want her using it on herself.

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Oh, it's not that. I'm as conceited about my sexual prowess as the next man, but I've never thought that a cock alone was enough to satisfy a woman.

No, the problem with the Hitachi is that all you see is a big round bulb (blocking the view most of the time), and the woman's reaction. For all intents and purposes, it might as well all be happening in her head.

But, damn, the woman's reaction is so fucking erotic all by itself, isn't it?

 

[StillStunned]

But, damn, the woman's reaction is so fucking erotic all by itself, isn't it?

Meh. There are other toys that achieve the same reaction without looking like a household appliance.

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Meh. There are other toys that achieve the same reaction without looking like a household appliance.

Can't say from personal experience in this specific context, but I do know sometimes, you just need industrial strength.

 

[EmilyMiller]

No, the problem with the Hitachi is that all you see is a big round bulb (blocking the view most of the time), and the woman's reaction.

Isn’t her reaction stimulating?

Em

 

[Kelliezgirl]

Can't say from personal experience in this specific context, but I do know sometimes, you just need industrial strength.

Does it go to 11?

 

[EmilyMiller]

Meh. There are other toys that achieve the same reaction without looking like a household appliance.

I’m not sure that anything is quite like a Hitachi, hun. I thought that. Until I had one used on me.

Em

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Does it go to 11?

Don't know. This particular toy doesn't work for me. Perhaps @EmilyMiller can elucidate...

 

[StillStunned]

Isn’t her reaction stimulating?

Em

It can be, but like I said, in the context of visual stimulation, it's distinctly lacking. The story is about Mel tying up the narrator and putting on a show.

Don't get me wrong, I understand that it has the desired effect on women. But if I'm watching, I'd rather see any other toy. The womaniser, for instance.

 

[Kelliezgirl]

Don't know. This particular toy doesn't work for me. Perhaps @EmilyMiller can elucidate...

 

[Devinter]

Interesting discussion. I would agree with Mister Stunned if other toys caused the exact same intense reaction. However, if I have to pick between watching a woman's face as she truly has the time of her life, or getting a better view of her 'bits' but a less intense experience overall, I will take the stronger reaction every day of the week.

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

It can be, but like I said, in the context of visual stimulation, it's distinctly lacking. The story is about Mel tying up the narrator and putting on a show.

Don't get me wrong, I understand that it has the desired effect on women. But if I'm watching, I'd rather see any other toy. The womaniser, for instance.

I can understand that point of view, but to me, there is so much more to appreciate about a woman in ecstasy, her facial expressions, the way she bites her lip, the way the tremors run across her skin. If she's not bound, the way she moves and undulates. Just so much going on..

 

[EmilyMiller]

Interesting discussion. I would agree with Mister Stunned if other toys caused the exact same intense reaction. However, if I have to pick between watching a woman's face as she truly has the time of her life, or getting a better view of her 'bits' but a less intense experience overall, I will take the stronger reaction every day of the week.

This

 

[EmilyMiller]

It can be, but like I said, in the context of visual stimulation, it's distinctly lacking. The story is about Mel tying up the narrator and putting on a show.

Don't get me wrong, I understand that it has the desired effect on women. But if I'm watching, I'd rather see any other toy. The womaniser, for instance.

We need to get you to appreciate the female orgasm more

Em

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

We need to get you to appreciate the female orgasm more

Em

Yeah, me too. Been trying to work on that for a while. finding willing research partners has proved difficult of late.

 

[StillStunned]

We need to get you to appreciate the female orgasm more

Em

There's nothing wrong with my wife's orgasms. In fact, you can barely tell they're fake at all.

Speaking of which, she's coming back from holiday tomorrow, and I have to bake a chocolate cake.

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

There's nothing wrong with my wife's orgasms. In fact, you can barely tell they're fake at all.

Speaking of which, she's coming back from holiday tomorrow, and I have to bake a chocolate cake.

Perhaps you should put a Hitachi under the tree...

 

[StillStunned]

Perhaps you should put a Hitachi under the tree...

Are you mad? I want her to give me attention, not lock herself in the bedroom by herself.

 

[onehitwanda]

The clicking of toes curling, the breathy little moaned "don't stop", the brief, hot, needful silence leading to la petite mort.

Mm. Sign me up. I don't care how she gets there, just let me listen to those five seconds and I'm a happy girl.