EmberFaye: Return of the Fire Sprite

[ClaudeBalls]

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Sorry for the crappy, grainy quality. Working with an old webcam

Dayum...how I would love to wake up to that!!!
Hope you have an awesome weekend ahead, Ember. That booty certainly warmed my cockles. ...rawwwrr.

 

[LoudFastHarley]

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Sorry for the crappy, grainy quality. Working with an old webcam

As sexy as ever

Enjoying your tumblr, B&W images are the best

 

[supahspaz]

Hey sexy!! I miss the old days of LIT as well, that's why I don't come on as much . I don't keep in touch with anyone .

 

[Ember Faye]

Dayum...how I would love to wake up to that!!!
Hope you have an awesome weekend ahead, Ember. That booty certainly warmed my cockles. ...rawwwrr.

Hehe
Glad you like CB, and thank you!
Hope you have an awesome one as well!

 

[Ember Faye]

As sexy as ever

Enjoying your tumblr, B&W images are the best

You're always so sweet to me dear ... thank you

I'm happy you're enjoying it! And, I agree! So classy! Just like your pix back in the day

 

[Ember Faye]

Hey sexy!! I miss the old days of LIT as well, that's why I don't come on as much . I don't keep in touch with anyone .

Yep... it's sad. Was a completely different place back then. I see some that try to hold on to those days and try to post like that. But, too many that just want instant free porn and don't care about carrying on conversations

It's always good to see some of us old timers pop up once in a great while though

 

[Ember Faye]

First, I'm going to link this post that I just put up on my Tumblr about why I am Anti-Vday: http://embersdesires.tumblr.com/post/110933593788/anti-vday


Trigger Warning for the next part (abuse)

And now, I'm going to link my post to why I am anti 50 Shades of Grey: http://embersdesires.tumblr.com/post/110748314898/the-rambling-curl-fifty-abusive-moments-in-fifty

In case you missed it, here is the link to the blog that I had in that last post. Where she refers to it as 50 Shades of Abuse (she is a survivor of domestic abuse, and the first book alone takes up almost all 50 examples of abuse, and things that were triggers for her from the abuse she suffered): http://theramblingcurl.blogspot.com/2014/02/fifty-abusive-moments-in-fifty-shades.html?m=1

I also went through a relationship where I was emotionally and mentally abused, almost on a daily basis.. off and on for about 4 years (he was the blood father of my daughter). If I would have stayed with him, I have no doubts in my mind that it would have turned to physical abuse as well (right before the first time I left, he had slapped me while I was pregnant, and pushed me down on the bed once).

While I was reading through her list of things from the book(s), there were several things that I had went through myself.. so it was definitely a trigger read for me. I would like to point out that this was 20 years ago, and I still got triggered from it. I even was telling my husband about it and a couple of the examples.. and I almost started crying just thinking back to what I went through at that time.

I ask you, plead with you... if you think 50 Shades is romantic.... if you think it would be wonderful to have a man like "Christian Grey"... if you are a man and you think you should act like he does in the book..... PLEASE, read at least the title of the entries that she typed out. This is NOT romance. It is NOT BDSM. If you think it is, you are so very wrong. I started studying BDSM and talking to Masters and submissive people years ago, and trust me... the things that this hack author (twilight fan-fic "writer") wrote about are not BDSM. It is abuse. Period. Another point, even several psychologist said this was abuse and stalker behavior.

If you are curious about BDSM and think you might want to try it out, then research it. Don't go off of these books (I don't even know how close the movie is going to stay to the book).

A lot of people will say, "they're just books, it's just a movie.. who cares?"
Because, there are young, impressionable girls who are reading these books and thinking that this behavior is ok. There are so many young girls and women who are clueless about BDSM and they suddenly want a guy like this guy. There are men who are using this as a means to be abusive. This is NOT OK!

BDSM is all about trust, honesty, consent. Did you see that? CONSENT. There is lots of talking, there is lots of figuring out what is ok and what is not. If a submissive seems suddenly pained or not enjoying something, the Dom/me will stop and make sure they are ok. Not just keep going. There is after care, love, devotion. These books have NONE of that!

Ok... I'm stopping. I know.. I rambled on way too much. It's just... as someone who went through an abusive relationship... this crap sickens me. That girls willfully want this... that there's so many clueless people out there. Ugh.. ok.. I'm done!

 

[mranyguy]

Aww... you're no fun!




I think you might have. Once or twice

Fine.. you get to wear the helmet... I am just going to have to accept I have a fantasy I will be living out when I spank Darth Vader. LOL

 

[prop69]

Yeah... it changed so much. I miss the days when there was a whole shit load of us that were like a second family on here and we would have... dun dun dun.. actual conversations all in each others threads *GASPS*!!!
When we actually got to know one another, cared about each others days, about each others lives... and there were a lot of real life meet ups to just hang out.

Wasn't just coming in and leaving some sexy or sexual comment and trying to one up each other for attention. That's a big reason I really don't post in threads any more. It's like everyone is vying for top attention. Not ALWAYS, but I'm sure you know what I mean. I miss when everyone would just converse with one another, carry on convo's about any and everything. It was such a nice outlet to come to, and it really was like a second home for me back in the day. I just don't feel that warmth here any more, sadly.

Aye, we both have our "regulars" that still come around when we do. And, I do appreciate that. I really do!

My current profile pic

Sorry for the crappy, grainy quality. Working with an old webcam

First...Loved the red panties and your sweet ass. something to grab hold of and enjoy.

You are correct. There seems to be less interaction on the sites. You post something and no one replies. Not event a quick sexual. I am on Lit for pleasure. Verbal interaction and how someone really feels about a topic. Do not get me wrong...I do love the sexy pictures.

One thing about Lit is the average age. I may be wrong, but I think most of the people are 30s, 40s, and some older. The teenagers and 20s are probably on their cell phones and selfies. I am over 50 and I am "not offended" in fact prefer more mature women posting. They have more to say.

When you post..I will try to reply within a day.

I agree to some extent about Valentine's Day. I do still celebrate, but... You should not need a holiday to show affection or concern for your spouse or significant other so I wil say..

HAPPY SATURDAY

 

[LoudFastHarley]

Those were good times with all the posting with friends way back when. It used to be something to look forward to always. Many fun hours

I always enjoyed your writing and your photos

 

[Ember Faye]

Fine.. you get to wear the helmet... I am just going to have to accept I have a fantasy I will be living out when I spank Darth Vader. LOL

Spanking? There was no mention of spanking! It was kissing!

 

[Ember Faye]

First...Loved the red panties and your sweet ass. something to grab hold of and enjoy.

You are correct. There seems to be less interaction on the sites. You post something and no one replies. Not event a quick sexual. I am on Lit for pleasure. Verbal interaction and how someone really feels about a topic. Do not get me wrong...I do love the sexy pictures.

One thing about Lit is the average age. I may be wrong, but I think most of the people are 30s, 40s, and some older. The teenagers and 20s are probably on their cell phones and selfies. I am over 50 and I am "not offended" in fact prefer more mature women posting. They have more to say.

When you post..I will try to reply within a day.

I agree to some extent about Valentine's Day. I do still celebrate, but... You should not need a holiday to show affection or concern for your spouse or significant other so I wil say..

HAPPY SATURDAY

Thank you dear and thank you again

Younger girls might have the hot bods, but older females have the experience

Funny you mention that about Vday.... I was talking to hubby about it last night (again). I had mentioned earlier in the week that even though I wouldn't be celebrating, he could go ahead and pick up a small box of chocolates... because it is that time of the month (the icky bad time for women, that is), and I do tend to crave chocolates then.. lol
So last night, after I was talking about the anti-vday stuff, he gets up and goes into the bedroom and comes out with a heart shaped box of chocolates, and says, "Yeah.. I should give this to you now" and then tells me there is more. He had ordered another charm for my bracelet (an R2-D2 charm I wanted! *squuueeee*) and said that he wanted to give it to me sooner, but it had only come in yesterday.

So.. technically, I still got gifted for vday *smirks* lol

 

[Ember Faye]

Those were good times with all the posting with friends way back when. It used to be something to look forward to always. Many fun hours

I always enjoyed your writing and your photos

Yep.... I remember spending soooo many hours on Lit talking with so many people. I would get excited and couldn't wait to hop on and start bantering back and forth.

Especially being home a lot, it was a good outlet for conversing with others.

Thank you hon

 

[jordanp76]

Thank you dear and thank you again

Younger girls might have the hot bods, but older females have the experience

Funny you mention that about Vday.... I was talking to hubby about it last night (again). I had mentioned earlier in the week that even though I wouldn't be celebrating, he could go ahead and pick up a small box of chocolates... because it is that time of the month (the icky bad time for women, that is), and I do tend to crave chocolates then.. lol
So last night, after I was talking about the anti-vday stuff, he gets up and goes into the bedroom and comes out with a heart shaped box of chocolates, and says, "Yeah.. I should give this to you now" and then tells me there is more. He had ordered another charm for my bracelet (an R2-D2 charm I wanted! *squuueeee*) and said that he wanted to give it to me sooner, but it had only come in yesterday.

So.. technically, I still got gifted for vday *smirks* lol

Well played husband, well played. (slow clap)

 

[Ember Faye]

Well played husband, well played. (slow clap)

My husband.... hmm... he doesn't really have a romantic bone in his body. He's clueless when it comes to romance and passion. It's just not in him. No matter how many tips and ideas I've given or conversations we've had about it... it's like it goes in one ear and out the other.

For him to go ahead and order the charm for me and have it be a surprise (I had NO knowledge that he went ahead and ordered it) was actually a really big thing for him to do. I was actually surprised by it and giddy

He might be clueless when it comes to romance and passion, our sex life might be at a stand still right now (multiple reasons for that, that I won't get into)... but, he truly is my best friend, that I can share any and everything with. Completely open and honest, complete trust and understanding. I truly do love him, and I honestly can't imagine being in a marriage/partnership with anyone else.

 

[mranyguy]

Spanking? There was no mention of spanking! It was kissing!

There will be lots of both!! LOTS!!!

Happy Valentine's Day.... Fantastic Ember!! !!!

 

[hotcpu]

My husband.... hmm... he doesn't really have a romantic bone in his body. He's clueless when it comes to romance and passion. It's just not in him. No matter how many tips and ideas I've given or conversations we've had about it... it's like it goes in one ear and out the other.

For him to go ahead and order the charm for me and have it be a surprise (I had NO knowledge that he went ahead and ordered it) was actually a really big thing for him to do. I was actually surprised by it and giddy

He might be clueless when it comes to romance and passion, our sex life might be at a stand still right now (multiple reasons for that, that I won't get into)... but, he truly is my best friend, that I can share any and everything with. Completely open and honest, complete trust and understanding. I truly do love him, and I honestly can't imagine being in a marriage/partnership with anyone else.

Glad the Sci-Fi geek in you was satisfied! Even if it was on V-day!

 

[Ember Faye]

There will be lots of both!! LOTS!!!

Happy Valentine's Day.... Fantastic Ember!! !!!

If anyone is getting the spankings, it's you dear. You know better

 

[Ember Faye]

Glad the Sci-Fi geek in you was satisfied! Even if it was on V-day!

Thank you

And, technically, it wasn't on Vday.. since he gave it to me last night

 

[Dhalgren150]

Clear Bright Fires Burn in your words.

Long live the Queen of Lit.

 

[hotcpu]

Thank you

And, technically, it wasn't on Vday.. since he gave it to me last night

So glad that you don't have to call it a Valentine's gift knowing your dislike for the concept of the made up holiday.

 

[mranyguy]

If anyone is getting the spankings, it's you dear. You know better

..... and I am sure you want to keep the Vader helmet on?! LOL

 

[Ember Faye]

Clear Bright Fires Burn in your words.

Long live the Queen of Lit.

I'm not worthy of such praise!
Thank you though

 

[Ember Faye]

So glad that you don't have to call it a Valentine's gift knowing your dislike for the concept of the made up holiday.

As long as it's done out of true love and thought, and not because it is expected. That's my real beef with it.

I honestly wasn't expecting anything at all... so it was a nice surprise

 

[Ember Faye]

..... and I am sure you want to keep the Vader helmet on?! LOL

Honestly... no.
I'd rather you be able to see my facial expressions as I deliver the spanks